Lori Alexander 73: Looking for Reading Comprehension, Empathy, or Self-awareness.

[Sarah92]

That’s not how any of this works. You can literally apply that to anything. For example: the government, KFC, or Target. 

[Lgirlrocks]

32 minutes ago, Sarah92 said:

That’s not how any of this works. You can literally apply that to anything. For example: the government, KFC, or Target. 

For a person who sent her kids to school Lori spends way too much time harping on public schools. My older brother was homeschooled k-12. We went to church on sundays. He isn’t a Christian and believes god is a douche. I was homeschooled until the 8th grade. I went to public school. I don’t believe in god. My younger brother was homeschooled until high school. He believes in god and has very strong beliefs. Homeschooling and church doesn’t guarantee kids will grow into christian adults. Public school doesn’t mean kids will turn into heathen adults with no morals. 

[usmcmom]

These comments showed up on Lori’s recent “Helpmeet” post.  

If a woman had said to a man “you may well be a worthless provider...” Lori would have screeched that we don’t know the whole story and MOST LIKELY his wife is ungrateful and selfish. 

But a man tells a woman she IS probably a worthless wife and neither Lori nor Ken say a word. This makes me livid and is a very clear illustration, in my opinion, of the hatred Lori has for women. 

This man doesn’t know a thing about the woman commenting and he attacks her like that. I think comments like this make Lori giggle like the mean girl she is. Of course, Ken, being the submissive husband he is, sits around like a ninny agreeing with her. He doesn’t even try to be normal anymore.

Edit: Sorry the photos are reversed and the reply comes first.  I rearranged it several times and can’t get it right.  You all know what I mean, right?

Edited December 16, 2019 by usmcmom
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[wallysmommy]

Congratulations, Lori!   You helped support this woman's feelings of inadequacy.  Hope you're proud of every post you made about being a helpmeet doormat.

[rayneflower]

So I asked Lori if she's in the closet. Waiting for a reply 

[usmcmom]

46 minutes ago, rayneflower said:

So I asked Lori if she's in the closet. Waiting for a reply 

Will she even know what that means? ?  She might think you mean “Are you snooping in your neighbor’s closet again?” Remember how she posted those pictures? 

[rayneflower]

I didnt think about that. I used a throw away Facebook. I have been wanting to ask her for a while. She is holding something back 

[usmcmom]

Okay; does she not give the tiniest thought to the titles of her “YouTubes”? She actually made THIS the title of her latest video. I just can’t with her simple mind.  

Anyway, she goes into all the insults she receives and says that she is sixty one and well past caring about her looks. She is not trying to impress anybody. But, shouldn’t she strive to impress her husband? Isn’t she always going on about how women need to keep themselves looking pretty and feminine for their husbands? And isn’t she always criticizing women who are heavy? Women with big breasts because “they sag and stop looking pretty”?

Also, the insults don’t bother her. Not at all. 

[Loveday]

9 hours ago, rayneflower said:

I didnt think about that. I used a throw away Facebook. I have been wanting to ask her for a while. She is holding something back 

Personally, I find it inappropriate to ask anyone questions like that.

I don't think she's holding anything back.  I think she's simply a very mean woman who hates other women. Not because she's in the closet, but because she's always looked on other women as competition in everything and she HAS to be number one, with all attention on her. And because she's just... mean.

 

On another note, there's this review on her study guide at Amazon:

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I purchased this book in person but felt compelled by the lord to write a review here.
This book's teachings are very dangerous and contradictory to the word of god. But here's the interesting part, I've met Lori in person and she does not believe any of this information herself. She just writes this knowing a certain uneducated demographic will eat it up and support her.
There are too many feminist authors, it's hard to be the best in that field. But there are fewer anti feminist authors, and she's got many women following her blindly.

Do not fall for it. Even she doesn't believe it.

I don't know how true this is, but honestly, just going on her constant contradictions and general hypocrisy, I can well believe it.

[church_of_dog]

12 minutes ago, Loveday said:

Personally, I find it inappropriate to ask anyone questions like that.

I agree.  Particularly in public, coming from someone who is a stranger to her.  It's as offensive and homophobic (IMO) as trying to out anyone would be.

It also is likely to backfire in the sense that not only would she not reply honestly if the answer happened to be 'yes', but it will only make her MORE homophobic and MORE righteous about being persecuted by rude strangers on the internet.

12 minutes ago, Loveday said:

On another note, there's this review on her study guide at Amazon:

I don't know how true this is, but honestly, just going on her constant contradictions and general hypocrisy, I can well believe it.

On the other hand, I think that review is a *great* thing to ask Lori about in public!  How interesting if she admits, or even declines to deny, that she might be putting out public statements she doesn't actually agree with, just because *whatever reason*.  I agree that it would well explain her inability to rationally back up statements when questioned.

Edited December 16, 2019 by church_of_dog
missing 'not' totally changes the meaning

[rayneflower]

I apoligize for going to far. I wasn't trying to be rude. I'm very sorry 

[klein_roeschen]

2 hours ago, Loveday said:

On another note, there's this review on her study guide at Amazon:

I don't know how true this is, but honestly, just going on her constant contradictions and general hypocrisy, I can well believe it.

I believe this in less than a heartbeat. Lori loves attention and drama and with her content she creates lots of it. And she would be far not the first who preaches water for her followers and drinks wine for herself.

[Lgirlrocks]

Some of the comments on Lori’s post about career women. 

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Most women work because they have to. Some also want to. It’s not selfish to want a better life. If I could stay home I wouldn’t. I would work, even if it was volunteering or working part time. I am not knocking stay at home wives or mothers but adults need more. 

[Caroline]

16 minutes ago, Lgirlrocks said:

Some of the comments on Lori’s post about career women. 

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Most women work because they have to. Some also want to. It’s not selfish to want a better life. If I could stay home I wouldn’t. I would work, even if it was volunteering or working part time. I am not knocking stay at home wives or mothers but adults need more. 

I didn't decide to be a teacher because I was looking for glamour and a lot of money.  I chose it because I want to give back to society, I actually like kids, and learning turns me on.  Poor Lori has none of those things going for her.    

[louisa05]

I read that post at work. My reaction? WTF is “glamorous” about a cold classroom in a middle school located in an undersized “temporary structure” listening to 24 thirteen year olds moan about their teacher having the audacity to expect them to do an assignment when it’s only nine days until Christmas??? 
 

Shared that with Mr 05 over dinner and he suggested that the ones with glamour  are the SAHW with empty nests and husbands with high incomes.  You know, like Lori.  

[Red Hair, Black Dress]

Tom Vernham, defender of patriarchy, seems umm ... uh .... ah ....nice?  What with him saying it's mean to refer to members of the National Socialist Party as Nazis and proclaiming the death of patriarchy in the US is the result of Marxist Jews coming to America from Germany.

And what did Lori say in response to his comments?  Nothing. Crickets. Not a peep.

Did she delete Tommy V's comments? Oh no. Of course not. They stand as written.

We always knew she was a hateful bigoted mean woman.  Now we know for sure she's anti-Semitic.

[Loveday]

1 hour ago, louisa05 said:

I read that post at work. My reaction? WTF is “glamorous” about a cold classroom in a middle school located in an undersized “temporary structure” listening to 24 thirteen year olds moan about their teacher having the audacity to expect them to do an assignment when it’s only nine days until Christmas??? 
 

Shared that with Mr 05 over dinner and he suggested that the ones with glamour  are the SAHW with empty nests and husbands with high incomes.  You know, like Lori.  

Or having the audacity to expect them to do an assignment at ANY time of the year, as my teacher husband would attest. LOL.

[Sweet Caroline]

2 hours ago, louisa05 said:

I read that post at work. My reaction? WTF is “glamorous” about a cold classroom in a middle school located in an undersized “temporary structure” listening to 24 thirteen year olds moan about their teacher having the audacity to expect them to do an assignment when it’s only nine days until Christmas??? 
 

Shared that with Mr 05 over dinner and he suggested that the ones with glamour  are the SAHW with empty nests and husbands with high incomes.  You know, like Lori.  

Yeah, teaching is so glamorous. Don’t get me wrong, I love teaching.  I love the kids and watching their faces light up when they learn something new. But all the paperwork, data, testing...isn’t so exciting.  Then there is the outbreak of the flu or lice to keep things interesting.  

@louisa05 seriously, what were you thinking trying to teach something this close to winter break? (Cough! Cough! Sarcasm!) Here are some tips for a stress-free December: 1) you can’t, 2) good luck. 

[louisa05]

1 hour ago, Loveday said:

Or having the audacity to expect them to do an assignment at ANY time of the year, as my teacher husband would attest. LOL.

Truth. But that goes from 40% or so normally to 100% this time of year.  
 

Tomorrow I have kindergarten. That’s hyper Christmas is coming/Santa/let me tell you what my elf did craziness.  

1 minute ago, Sweet Caroline said:

Yeah, teaching is so glamorous. Don’t get me wrong, I love teaching.  I love the kids and watching their faces light up when they learn something new. But all the paperwork, data, testing...isn’t so exciting.  Then there is the outbreak of the flu or lice to keep things interesting.  

@louisa05 seriously, what were you thinking trying to teach something this close to winter break? (Cough! Cough! Sarcasm!) Here are some tips for a stress-free December: 1) you can’t, 2) good luck. 

I’m a sub. Just following the teacher’s plans. 

[Sarah92]

Ah yes the glamour of working crisis in the ER in the middle of the night. Of hearing about trauma and kids threatening to attack you because you ask too many questions. There’s a lot of reward to being a counselor but there’s a lot of pain and sorrow. 

[usmcmom]

Not only has Lori been teaching (aka arguing with) men, she has been arguing with them about oral sex. 

Can anybody tell me how this is at all appropriate?

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[mango_fandango]

No-one talked about oral sex before Clinton, and it only became popular then? 
 

Such bullshit, Lori. 

[kpmom]

Lori actually said at one point she didn't think oral sex existed before Clinton.  Seriously.

She had never heard of it before then, so she's pretty sure it didn't exist.

[wallysmommy]

The intro to today's blog...

“My husband and I have recently been having fights every time he gets off work. He is very critical of me and I’m very sensitive. I have no thick skin. I start to act hurt and that’s how the fights starts. How can I get a thicker skin?"

You don't act hurt -- you are hurt.   Your husband is an asshole.   

Lori then goes on to tell us about how she and Ken fought all the time -- no surprise there.  Then she says don't find your worth in your husband.  But, wait, aren't you supposed to center your life around your husband, to be at his beck and call, to wipe his ass when he shits, to have sex whenever he wants it, even if you're recovering from a many day bout of the flu, to cook his dinner and clean up after him, to rub his feet when he comes home because he works so hard, and on and on and on.  (Sorry for the long Lori-style rambling sentence.)

There's so much wrong with this blog post, I could write another doctoral study on it.  Let's just summarize it by saying "the idiot speaks again."

[delphinium65]

9 minutes ago, wallysmommy said:

But, wait, aren't you supposed to center your life around your husband, to be at his beck and call, to wipe his ass when he shits, to have sex whenever he wants it, even if you're recovering from a many day bout of the flu, to cook his dinner and clean up after him, to rub his feet when he comes home because he works so hard, and on and on and on.  (Sorry for the long Lori-style rambling sentence.)

A couple of days ago I sliced my thumb open in the kitchen (new knife, slipped getting it out of the package-yes, I am that klutzy!).  My husband was in the kitchen at the time, and while I was rinsing the blood off my hand he grabbed a towel, handed it to me, then shortly after took over making the sandwiches that I had started on.  I suppose Lori would say I should have made them anyway, despite blood running down my hand and into the sink, but fortunately my husband is man enough to step in and take care of things like that.  He would have done more in terms of taking care of the cut, but I waved him off, and told him I could manage, and he has enough respect for my space to leave me in peace. 

While I was bandaging my thumb I saw him grab the knives (2 in the pack) and head towards the trash can. I asked him what he was doing.  He was going to throw them away because one of them had cut me!  The thought was appreciated, even though as I told him, if we threw away everything in the kitchen that I hurt myself on we'd have nothing left to cook with!