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  1. Did you all read Olivia Plaths comment on Jill’s post?! Definitely not fundie!! She also commented on the live video Jill did the night of the wedding talking about GOD HONORING and CONSERVATIVE and commented about how modern day weddings aren’t wrong and why Jill was judging all of that ... and Jill deleted the video 🤣🤣🤣🤣
  2. Next thread- Dillard 78-Taste the Rainbow
  3. missy1228

    JRod 101: Sinning for Jesus

    I didn't come out until I was 37. I'm 45 now. And I've been with the love of my life for nearly 8 years, married for 4 come August 1. When I went to my first Pride festival, it was SUCH a breath of fresh air. No judgment, just love and acceptance. Jill could use some of that. A Pride festival is the only place my wife will kiss me in public or hold my hand, due to fear for our physical safety. I reluctantly accept this, because we have a 12 year old daughter to care for. But it pisses me off. Not at my wife, but at all those people like Jill that cause it. On a side note, thank you to ALL of you... my mother passed away 2 months ago, and I spent a great deal of time at the hospital, and I whiled away the hours by reading these threads. It kept me a little bit more sane, and it continues to do so as I'm adjusting to a new normal without my best friend.
  4. thoughtful

    JRod 101: Sinning for Jesus

    To begin with the obvious:
  5. Georgiana

    JRod 101: Sinning for Jesus

    Jill, Just as a preface, I am a woman who generally dresses more modestly than yourself and generally follows all your modesty maxims better than you do (it's a personal preference/comfort thing for me), so I'm in a particularly fine position to give you this little scripture lesson: I am TIRED of you, your husband, and sons thinking that they SHOULD NOT have to look away. ABSOLUTELY they do. Jesus DIRECTLY COMMANDS them to do so. Or rather, Jesus commands them to pull their eyes out, but luckily for you, I am willing to take him figuratively on that. Matthew 5:28-30 puts the sin squarely on their shoulders and then clearly states that it is THEIR responsibility to remove the offense: Nowhere in that passage does Jesus say "You should tell the woman to dress differently". No where in that passage does Jesus say to shame the woman and make this her fault. No. Jesus says, INCREDIBLY PLAINLY, that if you are looking at women lustfully, that's a sin, that's YOUR sin, and that if you can't find a way to stop sinning with your gaze, you ought to BLIND YOURSELF. Now, I think that just looking away every time you catch yourself sinning and working to do better is a nice compromise. But, Jill, if you are TRULY tired of David having to avert his gaze because he is staring at women lustfully, then Jesus tells you EXACTLY how to solve it: gouge his eyes out. THAT's the Bible. THAT's the scripture. And if you have a problem with this, take it up with God. NOWHERE IN THE BIBLE does it tell you to judge other women. NOWHERE IN THE BIBLE does it permit you to give lectures to others like this (in fact, it specifically commands you NOT to several times). NOWHERE IN THE BIBLE does it even imply that the woman in this case would be sinning. NO. It SPECIFICALLY STATES the sin is in the one with the lustful gaze and it provides a very direct and clear remedy for it. You want to rise up and follow the OLD paths of truth and righteousness? You want to condemn lesser sins as wrong? You want to follow the Bible literally and force others to do the same? Then the next time your husband's eyes cause him to commit adultery, hand him a spoon and supervise. But if you're not ACTUALLY willing to follow the bible on this, maybe you're just using Jesus' name in vain to support your own desires and agenda. Wolf in sheep's clothing, Jesus has some unkind words about people like YOU! Spoken in love yet in frustration at the "out of control" spin on this issue! --Gee
  6. Antipatriarch

    JRod 103: A Keller Kourtship

    "And he has FIVE THOUSAND A YEAR!"
  7. shufflingtowardsenlightenm

    JRod 101: Sinning for Jesus

    Uh Jill, bless your heart. Here's a male perspective on the whole modesty issue and woman's dress as it pertains to men. If suddenly every woman in the US was wearing a burka (something I know you probably actually fear), the men would still be looking at woman and wondering what was underneath, or getting hot about nice ankles, or lusting in their hearts. Why? because it DOESN'T HAVE MUCH TO DO with woman's dress or behavior. Granted, I would probably find it distracting to be surrounded by Naked supermodels but like most males I also can sometimes be distracted by a woman who is modestly dressed (even by your standards though I personally find caked on makeup to be a turnoff). That said I'm responsible for whatever lust is in my heart... women are not. Personally I accept that I am a male who is sexually attracted to women and that attraction is frequent. But I also understand that woman are in no way responsible for that attraction and have no duty to fulfill my needs. I accept that it is my duty to deal with my own stuff and treat everyone with respect and dignity, whether they are wearing a burka or a bikini. And I also have met people wearing either that were totally modest. Look to the heart..... not the wardrobe and raise your sons to responsible for their own behavior. And as an old, recovering fundamentalist I also find dresses sexier than pants, but that's just me, and again that's not the wearer's problem, but I bet I'm not the male that feels that way.
  8. Georgiana

    JRod 103: A Keller Kourtship

    We know Jill encourages Tim to have a highly inappropriate relationship with her. She encourages him to send her texts like this, gifts, and treat her like a "practice wife" so that she can get her emotional needs met since David clearly doesn't meet them. I think Jill has just raised him to believe that THIS is an appropriate way to talk to adult female siblings. I think she raises all her boys to believe they should treat her, and by extension their older sisters, like practice girlfriends instead of dating. I'll call it what it is: emotional incest and grooming. Jill grooms her children so that they will provide her with inappropriate emotional attention, whether that is quasi-romantic in nature, managing/being responsible for her emotional state, or being her "best friend" (it's unhealthy and inappropriate for a grown, adult woman to expect adult friendship from children). Jill used her children to create the high school experience she always wanted. She is queen bee and her daughters are expected to be her worshipful clique who copy all of her fashion directives, fawn over her, and always take her side. All the boys are in love with her and shower her with gifts, but she only has eyes for her one true lump. It's a sick and twisted teen movie.
  9. SuperNova

    JRod 100: Praefulgeo Ergo Sum!

    I grew up in a family of abusive narcissistic personalities. I used to make excuses for their behavior toward me and others but over time and with a metric fuck ton of therapy, I no longer do that. There comes a time in everyone's life where you have to take responsibility for who you are and what you do. I was tortured, abused, assaulted, neglected, and ultimately abandoned at 14 by my parents and I still own everything that I did as a result of that abuse. I abused others and let others abuse me. My parents didn't make me do that but they didn't give me much of a chance either. They made it easier for me to transition from abused child into a dysfunctional teenager and then young adult. But I didn't want to be what they made me. I wanted to be a good person and a loving mother. I didn't want my daughter growing up with a childhood that she would have to recover from. So I did the emotional work. I spent decades in therapy. I broke the cycle of abuse. Anybody, including Jill, can do it if they really want it but it takes an immense amount of courage and personal strength to find something better. There were times when I didn't even know what I was working towards because deep dysfunction will do that. I didn't know what a healthy relationship looked like. I was told that I was loved while I was being abused and it warped my idea of love. This is what Jill has done to her own children. I don't feel sorry for her. I don't empathize with her. She could have changed her path and she picked the easy route so she wouldn't have to do the work. I have a whole family of Jill types that I can't relate to. I had survivor's guilt for many years because I am the only one to have "made it out". I'm over it now but sometimes I feel intensely lonely because there's only me. I am the only survivor. My family have hurt so many people and ruined so many lives that I don't waste my time feeling bad for them anymore. And I sure as hell don't feel bad for Jill. Unfortunately, without serious changes, her children are facing the same future.
  10. JenniferJuniper

    JRod 103: A Keller Kourtship

    Look at me, I'm Sweet Nurie Lousy with virginity Won't go to bed Till I'm legally wed I can't, I'm Sweet Nurie!
  11. Naga Viper

    JRod 101: Sinning for Jesus

    Jill really could've condensed 1, 6, and 7 into one entry, but I suppose I'd also struggle to come up a list of David's positive qualities that would require counting on a second hand. Damn, that's a lot of Malfoys.
  12. I don't want to embarrass you but it's actually spelled Walla...
  13. I am like 15 pages behind but I just had to share Beansie expressing his congratutions to the happy couple.* *Puma couldn't find her scissors. Perhaps Beansie misplaced them. Puma has some sympathy for Nurie because a long time ago, she too was a fundie (lite?) bride. Shits about to get real.
  14. That's where I had to learn it to, before struggling for 20 minutes to update a thread title! God DAMN the Kellers are absolute garbage at picking in-laws for their kids. They've got the ultimate enabler, Pa Schrader, helping to make Esther's life hell by keeping the family isolated in Zambia to avoid dealing with his useless son. They set Anna up for a humiliating scandal by choosing a very public family who they were well aware already had very scary skeletons in their closet. And now poor Nathan is going to sign up for a life with JRod crashing at his house whenever she can to try and cozy up to his DUGGAR sister! The upside: the Keller men are currently 3 for 3 on leaving fundamentalism after marriage. We can hope it will be 4 for 4 because Nurie honestly CANNOT homeschool with the abysmal education Jill has provided her.
  15. thoughtful

    JRod 101: Sinning for Jesus

    That's the problem -- Teri forgot to remove the plastic wrap around her daughters!
  16. July 1, 2019: A date which will live in infamy. Jill Rodrigues crashes FreeJinger (With all due apologies to FDR and Pearl Harbor...)
  17. Fuck you Jill for temporarily crashing FJ. I’m so excited Jill will be in the Duggar orbit just because schadenfruede is so sweet. The Duggars deserve her.
  18. OMG. This is more than I can process right now. Especially with the fabulousness of David Waller popping in every once in a while for color. is this real or are the FJ Gods tying storylines together and adding special guest stars to keep us watching past season 4? But hasn't Shrader disavowed a lot of central IBLP tenets? I can see there being lots of drama in this match up. Not just Jill and John, but the Rods with basically everyone. Also, Pa Keller is officially the WORST at reading people compared to anyone I have ever known. He probably still thinks Ted Bundy is a nice Christian young man trying to work his way through law school.
  19. "proof that we as Christians can't put in place rules that God doesn't give" This should be broadcast via social media, billboards, telegram, radio and TV to every fundie person on the planet.
  20. If this isn't deep, passionate, bone-rattling love then I don't know what is.
  21. Meet Victor, a ferret from the Scottish SPCA who needs a new home I'm going to take him with me
  22. TeaELSee

    Duggars by the Dozen 37: Your new thread

    On 11/30/2018 at 12:43 PM, TeaELSee said: I would LOVE to be a Grandma. My daughter in law is uncertain if she wants kids, My recommendation was do not have children unless YOU want them. I really wanted so say, oh you’ll love it go ahead! I shut down my selfish side. Read more Update: My stepson and his wife are expecting! I’m super excited, I no longer have to count on my offspring! ———————————- Update, it’s a girl and she’s here and healthy!
  23. Yeah, it's pretty bad when David Waller is the best Keller spouse. Though I will say his and Pricilla's kids always look healthy, happy and well fed. Damn, that's one low bar.
  24. Princess Lee

    JRod 101: Sinning for Jesus

    Long time observer.. finally made an account. Not sure if I put this in the correct spot. Technology is not my forte.. also I apologize if this seems jumbled.. Way back when my family attended the same church as the Noyes, her mom played the piano and her dad directed the music. I was one of the many who helped look after the Noyes girls during choir practice. Then after they left I came into contact again after Jill was married and they attended a church in a softball league as ours. Even then people from her church commented behind her back “she’s pregnant again”. Her non-use of birth control isn’t for me to have an opinion on, it’s not my decision, but Jill opens herself up for ridicule by what she says and does so that’s her problem. I’m afraid Jill misinterprets the Bible to her advantage. There are many in the “fundie” world I grew up with who did the same. No birth control and no pants is a personal conviction but this is how she interprets the Bible. She should not judge those who do not share her conviction. This is not a conviction I have I do agree you should be able to provide the basic food, clothes and shelter for the ones you have. So yes David, get a job and stop living off offerings and gofundme. Im afraid Jill has fooled a great many. Modesty.. I must admit Jill and her girls do not dress modestly, sure the dress goes to the floor but if it’s tight and hugging the body that is not modest. Jill should not have to tell her husband to not look at other women he should do that out of respect for his wife. I remember a new youth pastor making a no pants for girls ruling, I basically stopped going to youth group as I had a commitment to another area of church, however found out from a friend of mine you still went to activities that he saw the youth leader looking up girls skirts on a hay ride. Should I have said something to my parents , yes I should, but as a 16 year old in the 80s we didn’t have the culture of pedophile we do now. Years later this youth pastor admitted to the congregation he was guilty of “adultry” but later it was revealed he had been raping his stepdaughter and impregnated her resulting in multiple abortions. The head pastor knew this yet allowed him to say adultry not incest rape. I never have forced my children to dresses only except for the early years I would make them wear dresses to church, not a conviction but out of respect, in later years as long as it was modest to my standing meaning not too tight or low cut on the top or tight on the bum it was ok by me. Jill’s girls I do feel sorry for.. way too much make up, yes they look like young hookers, too tight clothes, my kids would not be wearing or jetting out their bosoms, no make up for daddy..just creepy. my husband is KJV only. Its what I grew up on and am used to using. You read the BIble and God will give you the understanding, you pray for understanding you don’t rely on man to interpret to you. Yes I’ve had to use a dictionary at times. Are people wrong for using non KJV? I don’t know. What matters to God is that you’ve confessed Jesus as Lord, I truly don’t believe when it’s time the God will condemn you for which Bible you read. I know of another family who, when their kids were under 18, were no pants for the girls yet the husband and sons wore shorts. I believe modesty is for both men and women. Jeans or pants on men can be immodest. The mother of this family did little in the way of daily chores. The daughters cooked and cleaned but the mom did nothing and guess what they had a traveling salvation show too...These kids are adults now and all married young and are quite the mess now. Divorces, drugs, adultery, kids out of wedlock... this is way opposite of their upbringing and I would have to blame it on the same ideology Jill has, her kids just haven’t broken free yet. Do I wish this on them, no, I just feel her kids have not been raised well to deal with the real world once they are out in it. I graduated from a Christian school, went to a secular college and yeah it was a bit rough, culture shock definitely, but my parents taught me well. I have three kids all college graduates. All went to secular schools and all came out well because we gave them the tools and guidance when needed. In conclusion we are all responsible for what we do and have to one day answer to God for what we’ve done, yes Jill does too. For example calling people sluts, yep she needs to confess to God that was wrong, the little lies she’s been caught in, yep she needs to confess that too, how she treated her children , yep that’s another. Judge that you be not judge doesn’t mean you aren’t supposed to judge it means that if you do you’ve opened yourself to be judged by someone and yes Jill has done this and she needs to confess to God and ask for forgiveness. Hope this little rant made some sense.


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