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  • Welcome to all our new members!


    Welcome to Free Jinger!  We hope you enjoy your time here.  Free Jinger (FJ) has a somewhat specific board culture when new members may not be used to from other forums.  We have put together some tips to help new members integrate successfully into the community.

    * Be sure to read our rules

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    If you do not email us when people that live with you have accounts, you WILL be banned for being socks.

    * We have an amazing set of FAQs  (thank you @HerNameIsBuffy)

    * Since history has taught us since most people don't read the rules, we do not allow hate speech here. That means we do not allow words like retard/retarded, fag/faggot, gay (used as a slur), the n-word, etc.  We also don't allow symbols of hate in avatars or cover photos.  This includes swastikas and confederate flags.

    * Please read this post by Happy Atheist before you jump right into posting.

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    * We have such a wonderful community here that people do things like write summaries on the families and organizations we talk about, maintain a blog list and maintain an FJ specific dictionary. We also have a handy acronym feature.  Hover your mouse over acronyms that are underlined and you will be shown what they stand for.

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    * If you find an article on a fundy site and you think they will delete the article and it may be useful to have the whole thing to refute them in the future  (ie: Kendull's I "spanked" my kids all day post)., a screenshot is best in this case rather than a full copy/paste.

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    (Updated Janurary 23, 2019)

     

     

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    • clueliss

      Posted

      I wouldn’t label her a progressive.

      I know people from the Free Methodist church i attended in Lawrence Ks (before I moved) who voted for/supported Biden.  Because there is a certain level of frustration among some Christians about all things Trump.  It’s a category I fit in.  

    • JanasTattooParlor

      Posted (edited)

      34 minutes ago, luv2laugh said:

      Jill has a separate identity from Derrick. It's possible that Jill may be more progressive than Derrick. We don't really know. All I know is Jill is probably making enemies on all sides with her MIL, a major Trump supporter, and her entire family by posting this. 

      I hadn’t considered this perspective but I so relate to this in my own life. I’m more progressive/liberal than my husband and our families and have a strict no-politics rule with my parents because there’s just no talking to them about it. They just think I’m a baby-killer and that I support druggies and people who they think cheat the system. In reality, I learned to be the opposite of them because I saw how crappy they treated people. I hope Jill is doing the same and reflecting on her life and learning to be better and more accepting of others. 

      Edited by JanasTattooParlor
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    • ADoyle90815

      Posted

      Florida Man (legislator) wants to name a state highway after
       Newest Florida Man, 45.

       

    • luv2laugh

      Posted (edited)

      9 minutes ago, Idlewild said:

      I think it is a very careful rebranding by Jill and Derick - it’s not dissimilar to what Jinger and Jeremy are doing - curating an image that is far enough from Duggarville to bring in new customers but not completely alienating their core base.

      I know the Dillards have made some progress but has Derick ever actually expressed any remorse over the things he said about Jazz or Nate and Jeremiah? Or is is still maintaining his beef was with TLC and he just threw in the personal insults to draw attention to it? Jill’s defence of Jinger does show she has more sisterly loyalty and I really doubt it would be publicly reciprocated but it also shows a defence of paid endorsements. It really isn’t just sharing things you like and whoops, you happen to get paid for it- the Duggars will endorse any shit for money and that seems to be the main aspiration career wise.

      Jill has a separate identity from Derrick. It's possible that Jill may be more progressive than Derrick. We don't really know. All I know is Jill is probably making enemies on all sides with her MIL, a major Trump supporter, and her entire family by posting this.  I think she's learning, in therapy, of how her parents' fundamentalist beliefs hurt her independence.  She was deprived of even the ability to be a working Christian woman like Cathy, by the Duggars, and I think she's recognizing that it was emotionally abusive to be raised like that and exploited on TV. I wouldn't be surprised to see Jill one day be open about being a feminist. She seems to have spent less time hanging around Jessa's friends (Sierra and Kristen Nicole Young, who deleted instagram over Parler and hasn't posted since after the election) and hangs out with the one friend of hers that has two kids (in the same public school) and went to school for physical therapy.

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    • Idlewild

      Posted

      I think it is a very careful rebranding by Jill and Derick - it’s not dissimilar to what Jinger and Jeremy are doing - curating an image that is far enough from Duggarville to bring in new customers but not completely alienating their core base.

      I know the Dillards have made some progress but has Derick ever actually expressed any remorse over the things he said about Jazz or Nate and Jeremiah? Or is is still maintaining his beef was with TLC and he just threw in the personal insults to draw attention to it? Jill’s defence of Jinger does show she has more sisterly loyalty and I really doubt it would be publicly reciprocated but it also shows a defence of paid endorsements. It really isn’t just sharing things you like and whoops, you happen to get paid for it- the Duggars will endorse any shit for money and that seems to be the main aspiration career wise.

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