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Summary provided by: thoughtful
The basics:
Michael and Debi Pearl run a ministry called No Greater Joy. Their beliefs seem to be their own brand of Christianity, and their life is one of rigid gender roles and extreme suspicion of The World (basically, anyone outside of their own group). They are KJV only. Women and girls wear skirts, but do not cover their heads.
The façade they present is that of down-home country folk, valuing the disappearing arts of living off the land. However, they make extensive use of the Internet, including Youtube videos and a website: NoGreaterJoy.com.
No Greater Joy (NJG) turns out new materials several times a year, lists over 300 products on the website, and is estimated to bring in 1.5-1.7 million dollars yearly, in contributions and sales. NGJ is registered as a 501©(3) non-profit organization, and the Pearls claim that all money goes back into the ministry.
They urge men to stay at home, as well as women, fully approving only of home businesses. The Pearls warn that "authority figures" (government, media, mainstream churches, medicine, education) are to be rejected and reviled, then set themselves up as the experts to be believed on any subject. As part of this paranoia, they seem to want children to think that pedophiles lurk around every corner.
They decry pornography, but Michael's writing often comes off as salacious, including his descriptions of children being whipped, observations of his own daughter's weddings, and his glee at reminding everyone around him that he and Debi are still sexually active.
They are perhaps best-known for their book To Train Up a Child (TTUAC), which appears to have been mostly written by Michael, with a few sections credited to Debi.
TTUAC encourages parents to apply pain in "training" children, starting in infancy, using various objects. It was found in the homes of Sean Paddock, Lydia Schatz, and Hana Williams, children who died due to abuse from their parents that critics feel could easily have resulted from following Pearl's advice to the letter.
The Pearls adamantly deny that they are advising hitting – for some reason, "hitting" is a horrible word, while spanking, whipping, belting, switching and chastisement are all Pearl-approved. They insist that their way is the only path to keep children from the fires of Hell.
These whippings are to be administered with a calm, cool manner, and much of their advice involves baiting children into making mistakes that will give parents an excuse to whip them.
The Pearls feel that only home-schooling is appropriate, and that the same parents who are tricking children into getting whipped should be warm, loving and totally involved with them before and after. In other words, for a child in the Pearls' world, the only source of shelter, love, comfort, food, entertainment and education is also an unpredictable source of pain.
The entire text of To Train Up a Child can be read here for free (this is maintained by someone who is not a Pearl supporter, so please don't send her hate mail!):
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In more detail
Michael and Debi Pearl were both raised in Memphis, Tennessee. The Pearls have been married since 1971, and have 5 children and 19 grandchildren.
Michael graduated from Mid-South Bible College in Memphis (now Victory University). He worked with Union Mission in Memphis for 25 years. They moved to rural Tennessee where they held Bible studies in local homes, and in prison.
Their children are:
Rebekah Anast – her partner is Gabe Anast, a web designer who decided to stop working altogether, and just run a now-defunct website, 7XSunday.. They have six children, Joseph Courage, Ryshoni Joy, Hannah Sunshine, Elijah Music, Chaiyah Eve and Alitsia Rin, and live, generally in abject poverty, in New Mexico.
They were sued by the Zuni Tribe, Navajo Nation, over water rights.
http://www.zunibasin.com/documents/2142.pdf
Rebekah had a blog, Dreaming Awake, on which she detailed bizarre and paranoid dreams that she felt were prophetic. She has written a book called The DaVinci Road. It is unclear what Gabe Anast is doing with his time.
Gabriel Pearl – his partner is Lori, and they are the parents of Jocelyn, Laife and Joshua Gabriel. The NGJ site describes him as a builder, and someone who employs and teaches many men, but is not clear about what he actually does. He does appear to own a business called "That BBQ Man."
Nathan Pearl – his partner is Zephyr, and they have four children. They own Cane Creek Coffee, but appear to be taking a break from that business, when last checked. He seems to be working for his parents a great deal: nogreaterjoy.org/author/nathan-pearl/
Shalom Brand – her partner is Justin Brand, who is described on NGJ as an auto mechanic and metal artist – they also appear to do a lot of work for the Pearls. In fact, when Justin had a sudden urge to pack up and move, the Pearls were miraculously moved to offer him and Shalom more work, so he would at least be wandering for them:
http://www.nogreaterjoy.org/articles/a-vision/
Their children are Gracie, Laila Truth, Parker Ford and Roland.
http://www.nogreaterjoy.org/author/shalom-brand/
Shoshanna Easling ~ her partner is James Easling, who is described on NGJ as an inventor and builder. They are the owners of The Bulk Herb Store, Shoshanna Gardens, and Well Tell Me. Their children are Jeremiah James and Penelope Jane.
Other info:
NGJ Youtube channel:
http://www.youtube.com/user/NGJMinistries
Bekah and Gabe's Youtube channel:
http://www.youtube.com/user/ruLISng/videos?view=0
Debi's best-known work is Created to Be His Helpmeet – an excerpt can be read here:
http://www.amazon.com/Created-Be-His-He ... hael+pearl
Debi's works also include books intended to teach children about "stranger danger" –
yellandtellbooks.com/
Don't miss the coloring pages!
Mike may have been the illustrator for these, going by this video:
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Michael is a champion knife-thrower – apparently, there is no dress code for the sport:
http://i.imgur.com/Z7bqdbc.jpg
Amazon reviews of TTUAC -- whenever the controversy flares up, Mike sends followers there to write positive reviews – many of the positive reviewers have no other review history on Amazon, and are very vague about what they like within the book – only detractors seem compelled to post actual excerpts. Feel free to add your thoughts, if you've read the book:
http://www.amazon.com/Train-Up-Child-Mi ... Descending
Links:
Wikipedia on Michael Pearl:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Pearl
Full list of products from NGJ:
nogreaterjoy.org/shop/catalog/seo_sitemap/product/
Sites critical of the Pearls:
http://www.tulipgirl.com/index.php/cate ... debipearl/
http://www.quicksilverqueen.com/tag/michael-pearl/
http://mommylife.net/archives/mike_and_debi_p/
http://debrasrandomthoughts.blogspot.co ... e%20Pearls
Mudbrooker videos:
http://www.youtube.com/user/TheMudbrook ... hael+pearl
Anderson Cooper videos:
http://ac360.blogs.cnn.com/2011/08/15/v ... the-child/
The Pearls on various subjects that have been discussed on FJ:
The NGJ article in which Michael recommends using flexible plumbing supply line to whip children:
nogreaterjoy.org/articles/questions-answered/
Sitting still in church:
nogreaterjoy.org/articles/sitting-still-in-church/
The Pearls advise others that social security numbers are not needed (pg. 12, after lots of discipline and herb talk):
nogreaterjoy.org/wordpress/f/200002_March-April.pdf
NGJ post in which Pearl says adopted children from Liberia were "well-versed in all the dark arts of eroticism and ghastly perversion":
nogreaterjoy.org/articles/avoiding-vacuums/
Pearl claiming his children will be successful, and the bosses of those who are not raised by his methods:
pearlchildtraining.blogspot.com/2010/03/michael-pearl-laughs-at-critics.html
Why their children are not legally married, and a creep-tastic description of one of their weddings:
nogreaterjoy.org/articles/holy-matrimony/
nogreaterjoy.org/articles/the-wedding/
The Angry Child:
nogreaterjoy.org/articles/angry-child/
Michael Pearl is as nasty about animals as he is about children:
nogreaterjoy.org/articles/dogs-cats-and-kids/?topic_slug=babies
The “Fruit of Child Training†Webinar that the Pearls did:
A book of Debi's, that was illustrated by Michael – the cover may give some insight into why he changed his major from art to religion:
michaeldebipearl.blogspot.com/2009/11/debi-pearls-listen-to-my-dream-becomes.html
A search of Shoshanna's Well Tell Me forum for references to TTUAC, that includes a post from Rebekah Anast about the Pearls having no particular opinion about birth control:
welltellme.com/discuss/index.php?action=search2
And, just because, a pic of the Pearls as a young couple, in matching bathing suits:
Other snarkees who recommend or defend the Pearls:
Lori Alexander:
lorialexander.blogspot.com/2012/03/pray-for-michael-pearl.html
lorialexander.blogspot.com/2013/11/defending-pearls.html
tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2013/11/weekend-links-winners-cool-stuff/ (Lori went to bat for the Pearls in the comments – Ken joins in, too!)
Duggars recommending Pearl materials:
duggarfamily.com/content/amazon_blitz
http://astore.amazon.com/duggarfamily-2 ... 1892112000
http://astore.amazon.com/duggarfamily-2 ... F8&node=89
http://astore.amazon.com/duggarfamily-2 ... 1616440368
http://astore.amazon.com/duggarfamily-2 ... 1892112019
The Rodrigues family (this link has some pictures of the NGJ warehouse and large house Michael has been building):
rodriguesfamilyministries.com/main/?p=292
Cheryl Long:
treasuresfromashoebox.blogspot.com/2010/07/haleys-prayer.html
treasuresfromashoebox.blogspot.com/2013/09/created-to-be-his-help-meet-12-week.html
Bontragers:
bontragerfamilysingers.com/Links.html
David and Tim Bayly:
baylyblog.com/blog/2012/01/ugh-its-christianity-today-again-time-weighing-against-spanking
Sarah at Hearts Desire:
sarah-heartsdesire.blogspot.com/2011/09/to-train-up-child-book-review-and-my.html
Christian Hskubes:
hskubes.blogspot.com/2007/06/what-can-i-do-about-my-children.html
Tabby, of plaintorahkeeper – she took her blog post down, but here is the FJ thread about it:
http://freejinger.org/forums/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=9620
Tait and Lauren Zimmerman:
zimmermanfamilyalaska.blogspot.com/2010/10/parent-training.html
Brenda at The Family Revised:
familyrevised.blogspot.com/2007/07/just-some-things-before-we-go.html
The Pearls on other snarkees:
Michael on patriarchy, Vision Form and Bill Gothard:
nogreaterjoy.org/articles/the-balanced-patriarch/
nogreaterjoy.org/articles/response-from-bill-gothard/
Debi on the Bill Gothard scandal:
nogreaterjoy.org/2014/04/24/debi-pearl-weighs-iblp-situation/?utm_content=buffer9e226&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer
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Ozlsn 60,511
10 hours ago, NoneIsEnough said:Not only has God cleared all the obstacles for us to come to Zambia, He has also provided us a place to live a year before we arrive permanently!
They're paying a year's rent in advance? I can totally see that if they're not they'll possibly turn up to find it's been rented.
This is so weird to me. Personally I'd be more inclined to try and rent furnished and keep stuff in storage for the first year at least.
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Smee 15,645
I’m reading this conversation from the couch where I’m watching my daughters (9 and 6) and nephew (will be 3 in a month) playing with a bunch of colourful silicon straws. After talking about which colours they each wanted, they’re now walking around holding them on the sides of their heads as “pigtails”, on the tops of their heads saying “I’m an alien”, on their mouths saying “I’m a walrus”, pretending to use them as drumsticks, and waving them in the air like streamers. When one of them wanted the green one that another one had, they offered a swap. They’re copying each other, and building on each other’s ideas. The creativity, problem solving, and social skills involved in simple pretend play are too often underestimated, but even for older kids I think they’re so important. My girls don’t realise as they’re giggling with their cousins that they are practicing skills that will serve them long into the future, but so much comes from the capacity to ask “what if?”
Anyway. Play is absolutely essential work in child development, and kids have so many years of sitting at a desk ahead of them, no need to rush that. Also fwiw my 6yr old literally would not have opened her mouth to answer one of those questions when she was 2.5, and if she had, she would have “failed” that test too. She certainly couldn’t write all her letters and didn’t do any formal extra curricular activities at that age. Then we had 2 years of pandemic interrupting preschool before she started school in 2022. She settled in just fine and is now thriving there both academically and socially.
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Dandruff 81,672
12 minutes ago, fraurosena said:The thought of him actually getting his comeuppance and paying for his crimes makes me chortle with anticipation. So bring on the indictment cakes! I’m getting hungry.
I'll believe the comeuppance when I see it, though efforts are clearly being made. I'm wondering, and kind of hoping, that the documents case takes center stage soon since (IMO) it holds much more potential jeopardy for him than the payoff case.
He's amping up the aggressive rhetoric and his base doesn't appear to be biting. He has nothing else that I know of that might entice them. On Jan. 6th the mob may have believed that he had the votes to be President but that has been debunked enough that even they should get it. If some of them were willing and able to muster up something awful again there's no guarantee he'd become the R nominee or go on to win the election but a decent chance they'd end up in prison - it has happened before. So why bother?
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Idlewild 79,108
4 hours ago, PraiseRufus said:Log time lurker. I don’t know why, but Austin letting Joy use a hair remover on him as an ad on Insta is cracking me up. So far from what I would have imagined years ago.
It’s weird isn’t it? So self righteous about their modesty standards, but there’s money to be made so let’s shave our legs and video it for Instagram! Joy shaving her own legs is a long way from Michelle having her knees blurred out on TV.
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fraurosena 99,805
The Jan 6 mob was the just about the entirety of people willing to fight for him— and they lost. That crowd consisted of organized (white supremacist) groups like the Proud Boys, Oath Keepers and Three Percenters. Most of their leaders have been charged and sentenced, so there is nobody left to organize anyone who is left that would consider attacking for Trump again.
There is no one else who is going to physically stand up for him, except a lone idiot here and there. That part of his base that is willing to do more than vote and feel aggrieved for him, may turn up to protest. And if you look at the size of the crowd who actually turned up in Manhattan last Tuesday, the day he was supposed to be arrested, it was rather pitiful.
No, Trump is slowly finding out that for all intents and purposes he’s on his own. Big donors are leaving him. His attorneys and conies are testifying against him. It looks like Ivanka and Jared will have to. And as soon as his MAGAt helpers in Congress realize the jig is up, they’ll start abandoning him as well. Only those with direct ties to Trump’s crimes will sputter and shout until they get away with what they’ve done or they too are charged for their part in knowingly and willingly aiding and abetting the crimes of Trump.
The thought of Trump all on his own, realizing that what he feared all along is true and that nobody really likes him, makes me smile sardonically. The thought of him actually getting his comeuppance and paying for his crimes makes me chortle with anticipation. So bring on the indictment cakes! I’m getting hungry.
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