The one where Cabinetboy starts a blog

[RosyDaisy]

Hey Cabinetman, go fuck yourself. Some of us here work in IT, and recording IP addresses doesn't scare us in the least. In fact it's laughable. When you put stuff on the internet, be prepared for people to openly snark on you. Oh, and fuck you!

[salex]

Couldn't help myself. Read his blog today whdre he "prved ,

Mathematically" that Jesus was mean more thanhe was kind so Chester can/must be as well inregardsto hiswife. How many Pissing Preachers does the world need? How much does he need to ju stify his actions to bestarting a blog defending how badly Un he treats or treated his wife? Oh and Hi Chester. Give our regards to Mrs. Drawers.

[Curious]

So... 80% of women aren't willing to be abused enough and 80% of men aren't willing to be abusive?

Let's aim for 100%!

EDIT: As per the bolded, is there anyway he can tell from an IP address who is visiting from an "unfriendly place"? It doesn't seem possible, considering we break our links. Unless his IP recorder has an ebil-feminist-liberal-nonsubmissive-gaydar attached?

An ip address ALONE (which is what Dresser Dude would have on anyone unless he knew them through some other venue or was being fed info from someone) tells you virtually NOTHING about a person other than their very general location (city, state, internet service provider) and even that is not always reliable. Unless you know what you are doing and do some research using it it's mostly a way to scare people that really don't understand what it is.

We use them here to easily weed out socks and spammers, which is what ethical sites would use them for. Not for vague threats.

I hope he has a privacy policy on his site that include what he may do with the IPs he's collecting, particularly since he's making vaguely threatening remarks about collecting them.

Edit to add: Forgot to mention, no an IP address has nothing to do with where a person visits from. That would be called a "referrer." Since we break links here there is no way to tell that a person is coming from FJ directly.

[littlemommy]

Maybe he's getting a bunch of referrals from Domestic Discipline sites, then.

[Grimalkin]

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Nvm

[2xx1xy1JD]

I do know of someone who got fired after posting sexually harassing messages on a young woman's blog, from his work. Her father got his IP address, traced it to his employer, gave the info to the employer, and he got sacked for breaching company internet policy.

I'm self-employed and don't post on his blog, so I'm not worried about just visiting the site to take an occasional peek.

At most, if he and Lori compare notes, they will see that my IP address visited both her site and his, and since I get to his site through hers, it will show her site as the source. Big deal, she has plenty of other followers who do the same thing. I won't, however, post stuff on his blog, because it is possible that he and Lori could compare notes on IP addresses and I don't want to attract attention from him.

[polecat]

Lastly, just a friendly reminder for all those visiting from unfriendly places…still recording IP addresses. Even bought a special program to do as such!"

I hope he has a privacy policy on his site that include what he may do with the IPs he's collecting, particularly since he's making vaguely threatening remarks about collecting them.

Interesting that the man who squeals worse than a squeaky cabinet is acting like a creepy stalker collecting IP addresses and threatening to use them when he's the one who complains about people stalking him.

He's totally ok with violating other people's privacy (because it sure sounds to me like he's threatening to dox people) while hysterically bleating here about not wanting people to know who/where he is. Freaking threatening hypocrite.

Enjoy my IP, Dresser Dumbfuck.

[twin2]

New post up today.

Good news! Jesus was a jackass! The Bible says so! Therefore it is totes OK be be a jackass! You ARE doing what Jesus would do!

BTW: Love the nicknames you all have come up for this bozo.

How about Chifforobe Charlie?

[Firiel]

WardrobeWanker.

[Trynn]

Closet Cody?

[Phoebe]

Hoosier Horseshit.

[Loveday]

Hoosier Horseshit.

I will never look at Hoosier cabinets in quite the same way again. :lol:

[church_of_dog]

Hutch Hombre?

[SunnyAndrsn]

An ip address ALONE (which is what Dresser Dude would have on anyone unless he knew them through some other venue or was being fed info from someone) tells you virtually NOTHING about a person other than their very general location (city, state, internet service provider) and even that is not always reliable. Unless you know what you are doing and do some research using it it's mostly a way to scare people that really don't understand what it is.

We use them here to easily weed out socks and spammers, which is what ethical sites would use them for. Not for vague threats.

I hope he has a privacy policy on his site that include what he may do with the IPs he's collecting, particularly since he's making vaguely threatening remarks about collecting them.

Edit to add: Forgot to mention, no an IP address has nothing to do with where a person visits from. That would be called a "referrer." Since we break links here there is no way to tell that a person is coming from FJ directly.

It probably has something to do with Google Tactics

[EmiGirl]

Now are there moments like last Friday where after coming home from the valley floor where it was hotter, visiting Costco, and unloading in the heat it may still get the best of her?  You bet.  Those are moments as a husband you are firm.  When you have loved, helped  and given by doing all you can to create the best battle plan you can & it has not worked, then you have to say, “Woman, that doesn’t fly in this house. Go cool down and get your shit together.â€

There would be Hell to pay if my husband ever spoke to me like this! The funny thing is the scripture he quoted.

Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.  Colossians 3:19

[julie paradox]

ok, the woman's been shopping and he refers to it as a "battle plan"?

[Firiel]

There would be Hell to pay if my husband ever spoke to me like this! The funny thing is the scripture he quoted.

Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.  Colossians 3:19

The stupid thing is that situations like this are normal. It's normal for one partner (gender aside) to have times of unreasonableness/crankiness. And it's normal if a fight bubbles up because of this for the other person to say something like, "Dear, you are hot and tired. Let's talk about this after you've taken a cold shower/sat in front of an air conditioner/whatever," which is essentially a non-douchey version of what WardrobeWanker says. And then the cranky partner who is self-aware enough to recognize the truth in the statement calms down and gets in a better place and the discussion follows. That's how a normal couple would deal with said issue.

WardrobeWanker just takes everything and twists it just far enough from normal that he has all the power.

[docmom]

If my husband called me "Woman" like that his next call would be to a good lawyer.

Here's how a real husband treats his hot, tired and cranky wife- "Why don't you sit down, honey. I'll get you a gin and tonic and we'll talk later." No isolation in a cabin needed.

[Palimpsest]

I missed the Wardrobe Wanker on his visit here -- but looking at these quoted burblings and rantings he reminds me of someone on the now (thankfully) defunct Gabe Anast 7xSunday and Urban Exodus boards.

There is something of the paranoid, off-the-grid, gun-humping, and survivalist tone -- along with all the forcing of his unfortunate "woman" into Godly submission that makes me think I've read him elsewhere. Asshole.

Does he ring a familiar bell with anyone else?

[feministxtian]

There would be Hell to pay if my husband ever spoke to me like this! The funny thing is the scripture he quoted.

Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.  Colossians 3:19

My husband would be missing most of his teeth and all of other certain body parts...wardrobe boy got some balls...that I'd love to kick.

[salex]

His blog seems a self description of an emotional abuser--as frankly do most of Ken's posts. (Really, brag to your own young child about fucking your wife 4x a week, then bitch on this forum about years of not enough sex?) And Chester Drawers discussion of his father taking him to porn shops? Talking about things is a way of reliving them....

psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/02/20/signs-of-emotional-abuse/

In the following areas, ask these questions to see if you are abusing or being abused:

1.Humiliation, degradation, discounting, negating. judging, criticizing: â—¦Does anyone make fun of you or put you down in front of others?

â—¦Do they tease you, use sarcasm as a way to put you down or degrade you?

◦When you complain do they say that “it was just a joke†and that you are too sensitive?

â—¦Do they tell you that your opinion or feelings are “wrong?â€

â—¦Does anyone regularly ridicule, dismiss, disregard your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and feelings?

2.Domination, control, and shame: â—¦Do you feel that the person treats you like a child? Talks on the blog about being in charge of wife and children's discipline.

â—¦Do they constantly correct or chastise you because your behavior is “inappropriate?â€

◦Do you feel you must “get permission†before going somewhere or before making even small decisions?

â—¦Do they control your spending?

â—¦Do they treat you as though you are inferior to them?

â—¦Do they make you feel as though they are always right?

â—¦Do they remind you of your shortcomings? So often... consistently and so often! â—¦Do they belittle your accomplishments, your aspirations, your plans or even who you are?

â—¦Do they give disapproving, dismissive, contemptuous, or condescending looks, comments, and behavior? Do pages and pages of comments and blogs count? Why, yes!

3.Accusing and blaming, trivial and unreasonable demands or expectations, denies own shortcomings: ◦Do they accuse you of something contrived in their own minds when you know it isn’t true?

â—¦Are they unable to laugh at themselves?

â—¦Are they extremely sensitive when it comes to others making fun of them or making any kind of comment that seems to show a lack of respect? :lol:

â—¦Do they have trouble apologizing?

â—¦Do they make excuses for their behavior or tend to blame others or circumstances for their mistakes?

â—¦Do they call you names or label you? Hormonal, rebellious,etc

â—¦Do they blame you for their problems or unhappiness?

◦Do they continually have “boundary violations†and disrespect your valid requests?

4.Emotional distancing and the “silent treatment,†isolation, emotional abandonment or neglect: ◦ ◦Do thDo they use pouting, withdrawal or withholding attention or affection?

Do they not want to meet the basic needs or use neglect or abandonment as punishment?

â—¦Do they play the victim to deflect blame onto you instead of taking responsibility for their actions and attitudes?

â—¦Do they not notice or care how you feel?

â—¦Do they not show empathy or ask questions to gather information?

5.Codependence and enmeshment: â—¦Does anyone treat you not as a separate person but instead as an extension of themselves? (Yeah, that)

â—¦Do they not protect your personal boundaries and share information that you have not approved? Do we think she's thrilled he posts all about her providing "sex on demand" with the world?

â—¦Do they disrespect your requests and do what they think is best for you?

◦Do they require continual contact and haven’t developed a healthy support network among their own peers? Moved out to the boonies, has his own business and takes her with him on even short delivery trips, church shops often.

[Curious]

There would be Hell to pay if my husband ever spoke to me like this! The funny thing is the scripture he quoted.

Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.  Colossians 3:19

I'm trying to picture my husband saying that to me in anything other than a joking manner or while RUNNING away from me while doing it. I may be disabled, but I know where he sleeps :shifty-kitty:

[Rescinded and Mended]

And why on earth does Container Creep think we'd want to threaten or harm his family in any way? Pretty sure we're all on the same page with wanting them in a non-threatening environment - you know, any place that's away from him.

[littlemommy]

Wow. Lori, Ken, and Cabinetman all meet those emotional abuser criteria. What ugly people.

[dairyfreelife]

I'm trying to picture my husband saying that to me in anything other than a joking manner or while RUNNING away from me while doing it. I may be disabled, but I know where he sleeps :shifty-kitty:

No husband, but cannot picture my boyfriend saying that to me except in joking manner. I tried, but nope, just can't see it. I honestly can't even picture such words crossing his mind to say to me in any serious way.

Oh well, guess if we get married, we will never have a relationship similar to Ken and Lori or like CabinetJerk and his wife. As you can probably guess, I am so sad about that fact.