Lori Alexander 52: Looking for Debt-free Virgins Without Tatoos

[mango_fandango]

Basic p-in-v sex isn't difficult. Good/great/amazing sex is different entirely. 

[Hisey]

56 minutes ago, ladyicantxplain said:

 

I've never understood whether "hypergamy" is supposed to be a good thing or not. I think it means that us stupid females want to "bang" the cutest, richest, most powerful guy we can. Is that frowned up on among the MRAs, or is it seen as inevitable? Hard to say, but remember, this is a group that conveniently summarizes a woman's value by labeling her with a number (from 1 to 10). Example:

"I mostly get 6s and 7s but my buddy who is only 5'7' keeps banging 9s and 10s! I don't get it, I"m really buff and way taller than he is, so what gives?" 

So you can hardly blame women for wanting the best (though I don't consider wealth to be an indicator of a good man, personally). After all, these guys clearly want to score the highest number female they can (with the lowest N count, of course!). 

[SuperNova]

@Imrlgoddess I dont understand half of what you said but I can tell it's a lot of whining. Fyi, nobody likes a whiner. 

 

*btw, I don't mean you personally, just this way of thinking.

[feministxtian]

2 hours ago, Imrlgoddess said:

Oh but it is you see...de ebil wymens only want "alpha" males.  Good looking fit men with deep pockets.  And the primary goal is to trap them in marriage with children, stay married long enough to garner child and spousal support, initiate a divorce and run away with the children and the money.  Nice "beta" males who aren't super fit but have decent jobs get the dregs ya see.  Because they're too nice.  But then they get trapped and left for the "Chads".  Those are the buff, kind of dumb guys that the girlies chase no matter how indifferent they treat them.  These dudes all need to catch a clue.

No thanks...I'm the alpha bitch. I'll put one of those "alpha" males in their place in a heartbeat. Now, the truth is these guys who write these MRA blogs probably use their personalities as birth control. I mean, who wants to be with some idiot that thinks he's all that because penis? 

Oh and over on 2.0 I invited Ken to come back and play here...bwahahahahahaha

[EowynW]

@ladyicantxplain I've been a Sam Powell fan for a couple of years now. Love him. 

[luv2laugh]

If Gwen Shamblin wasn’t a “woman pastor”, her and Lori would be two peas in a pod.

Gwen Shamblin started Weigh Down, a diet ministry and then Remnant Fellowship Church. 

Gwen believes in wively submission, getting under authority, spanking with rods AKA glue sticks Pearl method way, and that being fat is a sin basically.

She and Lori are so similar in tone and message.

[EowynW]

 

Because we know Lori reads here. 

[onekidanddone]

8 hours ago, Koala said:

Dawn- What if I told you that a 13 year old should already know how to make a bed, and have basic cooking skills?  No need to forfeit her education, because even if she doesn't know how to do these things, it shouldn't take her any time at all to learn.
 
What if I told you that she shouldn't base her education/life on the "wants" of a person she's never even met/might never meet?

Stop setting up a straw man.  She can learn about chemistry, AND know how to make a bed.  She can pursue an education, AND know how to cook.  It doesn't have to be one or the other, and if she is planning to homeschool her children, she most certainly WILL Need an education of her own.

Self enforced ignorance is NOT something to strive for.  It doesn't mean you'll be a better homemaker, or a better Christian.  My goodness, what on earth are you thinking, mama?!?   You should be ashamed that you've raised your daughter to think so little of herself- to believe that her highest potential is making beds and sandwiches.  

You know what- if she wants to be a sahw/sahm, that's okay!  She can do that AND have an education.  Her husband might be more interested in having an intelligent conversation, than having a live in maid/chef.  

My god, this is so messed up...Jesus

Mom continues:

She's got "plenty of interest"? From who?  She is a child!  Wtf is wrong with you, lady? Are you kidding me?  Oh my god.... Getting married should be the furthest thing from her mind! 

And "barely any women actually have these qualities"?  Really?  Is that what you've convinced her? 

Making a bed/cooking dinner is not a "quality".  It's a skill, and I don't know a single adult man or woman who can't do both.  

I swear, I just can't with these people.

And Lori?  You sent Cassi to college and Alyssa has a career.  Get over yourself.  You wouldn't know wisdom if you met it on the street.

 

What parent brags that adult men have an interest in their 13 year old daughter? Sick. 

[Imrlgoddess]

3 hours ago, SuperNova said:

@Imrlgoddess I dont understand half of what you said but I can tell it's a lot of whining. Fyi, nobody likes a whiner. 

 

*btw, I don't mean you personally, just this way of thinking.

I firmly agree!   When I read their drivel I just picture a mixed group of frat boys/high school ballers who never grew up and basic punks who spend their days nekkid on bean bags eating cheetos in moms basement...whining and bitching because they can't catch a woman....any woman.  Ugh, they all make my skin crawl.

Also, don't know if you're a Kevin Smith fan but your comment made me think of this:  

https://youtu.be/7Dt5Nf7ct5c

 

[Frog99]

4 hours ago, Sarah92 said:

I also get the impression that he thinks he's very intelligent, charming, and interesting. So maybe he believe that he'll win people over? Or he thinks that he's displaying some type of awesome intellectual capabilities? 

I think he sees himself as intelligent and charming. He’s extremely wordy. Reminds me of the movie Clueless where someone is referred to as a “full on Monet”- from a distance, she looks ok, but up close, “she’s a big old mess”. When you don’t just react to Ken’s wordiness and outlandish claims, you see his comments for the mess they really are. 

[Sarah92]

Ugh 

Every time I think of an incel I just picture a guy with greasy hair and those stupid matrix glasses. I was on Instagram and some incel guy was complaining about girls only wanting the "Chads" with six packs and almost every girl was responding, no most girls actually like dad bods. And he still went on complaining. Couldn't fathom that maybe it was HIS problem not the girls' fault. 

Incels are just creeps who think the teen years are prime years for girls and that once a woman hits 30 she's useless. 

[SuperNova]

3 hours ago, Imrlgoddess said:

I firmly agree!   When I read their drivel I just picture a mixed group of frat boys/high school ballers who never grew up and basic punks who spend their days nekkid on bean bags eating cheetos in moms basement...whining and bitching because they can't catch a woman....any woman.  Ugh, they all make my skin crawl.

Also, don't know if you're a Kevin Smith fan but your comment made me think of this:  

https://youtu.be/7Dt5Nf7ct5c

 

I forgot about Jay and Silent Bob! I was a teenager when the first movie came out and I thought it was hilarious.

[PinkPrincess0213]

17 hours ago, Momto2Princesses said:

Because 10 mins and lube can't be all that difficult to figure out. 

Okay this....this just pisses me off.

This is the crap that I was sold in youth group. Stay pure and your sex life will be worth it when you get married. It'll be amazing.

Guess what? It wasn't. My wedding night was incredibly traumatic and it took years for my self-esteem to recover fully from it.

10 years later, we've learned that we have different needs and turn-ons and it is not always easy to make it good, let alone great. Suffice it to say, there has been a lot of trial and error and ups and downs and fights. We love each other and we work through it, but no Lori, the wedding ring doesn't magically make it work.

I think Libby Anne at Love, Joy, Feminism has written about this in the past as well.

 

[onekidanddone]

17 hours ago, AlwaysDiscerning said:

Its a manosphere things. 

20% of men (the top dog alphas) are having all the sex, like with 80% of the women. 

https://therationalmale.com/tag/8020-rule/

I must be part of the 20% of women because I didn’t have all that much sex on college 

[Hane]

53 minutes ago, onekidanddone said:

I must be part of the 20% of women because I didn’t have all that much sex on college 

Yeah. I never had sex in college till I got married at the end of junior year. Hey, Lori—that should blow your mind!

[PinkPrincess0213]

Lori's post about fornication made Bruce Gerenscer's blog as part of his Christians Say the Darnedest Things series. My fav comment is this one:

[Imrlgoddess]

Question:  does anyone else have weird double comment count on their facebook?   

I'm on my computer (you heathen hussies are keeping me from my righteous paperwork) and it looks like two sets of comments...but when I click on the higher number right under the picture, the post collapses and when I click again I only get the second level of quotes....if that makes sense?  

This is how it looks before clicking any comments: 

Spoiler

This is when I click the "17 comments" within the post:

Spoiler

I click "17" again and it goes back to the original so I hit the "10 comments" and everything expands.  I'm assuming the larger number is the total-replies and all- and the 10 is just the original comments..?

Spoiler

 

[Sarah92]

So Ken is now blaming 2.0 for not messaging him privately about the racist/red pill people that Lori reposts. As if it's other people's responsibility to make sure a blogger maintains some level of integrity. It's not like this is the first time Lori had been called out for this behavior. If Ken is truly her "head" he would be paying attention to what is happening on her blog. Additionally, if she spends all this time researching why isn't she vetting her sources? Oh that's right, she learned nothing in college where you'd normally learn how to research. She wasted her education. 

Edit: I think what Lori should do is make a post that stands against all that racism and sexism. Something along the lines of "it has come to my attention that there have been comments on my page from both men and women that promote incel, red pill, and racism etc. I have also been informed that these comments have been left over for too long. I understand this causes people pain. I will be having a serious discussion with my mods to make sure they understand that this is unacceptable and I will also take a more active role in managing the comments to better protect my viewers. I take full responsibility for what has happened on my page. I will do better at researching the people I post and I hope people will keep me accountable. Those who post racist or sexist comments will be blocked. Thank you for your patience as I deal with the sin of negligence that I have found in my life. 

[delphinium65]

6 minutes ago, Sarah92 said:

So Ken is now blaming 2.0 for not messaging him privately about the racist/red pill people that Lori reposts. 

Right.  Hey Ken, if you still read here, she quotes them in public, so why should we try to help her hide her sources? 

[SuperNova]

54 minutes ago, Sarah92 said:

I take full responsibility for what has happened on my page. I will do better at researching the people I post and I hope people will keep me accountable. Those who post racist or sexist comments will be blocked.

Have we ever seen Lori take responsibility for anything? I've heard toddlers be more forthcoming after being caught stealing cookies from the pantry. The only thing she does is try to explain it away. 

 

54 minutes ago, Sarah92 said:

So Ken is now blaming 2.0 for not messaging him privately about the racist/red pill people that Lori reposts. 

That's rich. It's not our job to protect Lori's image. Lori is a master cherry picker. She does it with the bible every single day. She doesn't care what else is being said, just as long as it supports keeping women down. Eta: for the record I think she knows exactly what she reposts. She can claim ignorance all she wants but I have no doubt that she's fully aware of what type of sites she's pulling from. 

[usmcmom]

3 hours ago, Hane said:

Yeah. I never had sex in college till I got married at the end of junior year. Hey, Lori—that should blow your mind!

I had tons of sex during my junior and senior years at that evil Christian college. 

Sex sex sex sex sex! 

I mean, I got married the summer before my junior year but still...we were having all the sex during the last half of college. 

So am I half a slut? Not a slut because I was married? Total slut because I went to college? 

Maybe Lori will do a post on that. I need a clear reading on my slut-o-meter. 

[feministxtian]

1 hour ago, Sarah92 said:

So Ken is now blaming 2.0 for not messaging him privately about the racist/red pill people that Lori reposts.

Hey Kenny boy! Maybe if you put your foot down with your "submissive" wife and told her to quit being such a hateful shrew....

[usmcmom]

11 minutes ago, feministxtian said:

Hey Kenny boy! Maybe if you put your foot down with your "submissive" wife and told her to quit being such a hateful shrew....

I think he's tried to put his foot down and Lori poked a hole in it. 

[CelticGoddess]

On 8/2/2018 at 3:38 PM, AlwaysDiscerning said:

Ken is back commenting at 2.0

 

I read some of what he posted.  HE really believes the canard he posts, doesn't he?  

[kpmom]

On 8/2/2018 at 12:47 PM, Sarah92 said:

Uh Lori do you have a verse for that? And you do know that pornagraphy usually leads to masturbation right? Which, you know, involves the flesh. Not to mention the addictive nature, its involvement in human trafficking, the pain it causes a wife, how it impacts sex with one's spouse, porn induced ED... A lot of those are physical in nature. Furthermore, because children are being introduced to porn so young, it's impacting their ability to form stable, romantic relationships with others as they learn about sex from unrealistic porn because their parents won't talk about it. Women divorce their husbands because of the far reaching consequences of porn use (and other things) not because they can't comprehend that it's supposedly different. 

I like it when Lori teaches us what Jesus really meant.  I enjoy reading commentary from great scholars of the bible like Lori.

I'm also pretty sure this is what Ken told her when she caught him looking at porn on his computer.