Christendom’s Most Eligible Bachelor: Traditional Catholic Looking for Wife Blog

[lilith]

On 16/12/2017 at 5:01 AM, PennySycamore said:

@CarrotCake, birth plans are, indeed, a thing.  They're supposed to be just a guide as to how you want things to proceed if everything goes smoothly.  What kind of "prep" do you want? (I don't know how things are currently, but back in 1980, typically you'd be shaved and get  full enema. The OB that delivered my last three gave me a choice about that.)  Do you want to be able to walk around in labor?  Do you want continuous or intermittent fetal monitoring?  Do you want an IV placed automatically or only if necessary?  Heparin well/lock?  Doula for labor support?  Older children allowed to watch the birth?  I'd think most every hospital would allow this now, but we used to have to get fathers in the OR written into our birth plans if we should need a c-section.  Birthing ball? Birthing tub?

With my last baby,  I was hopefully having a VBAC after three previous c-sections.  I had a good birth plan.  I walked around during most of the labor and had to be monitored only for about 10 minutes each hour.  I was not prepped. I did have a heparin lock.  I gave birth vaginally to an 8 pound girl and my mom and my third daughter who was in K-5 watched.  The kindergartner then told her afternoon K-5 class she's watched her mommy have a baby that morning.  I imagine that was the only time in that teacher's career that a kid came in with that story!

Wow, I envy you your vaginal birth after 3 caesareans! I wasn’t allowed to attempt it, even though it had been 9 years since the last caesarean. Which automatically ended my childbearing (I was probably done anyway, but it’s nice to have a choice in these things) cause 5 caesareans is getting into dangerous territory.

[mango_fandango]

I wonder what this guy does all day. He’s not employed, doesn’t have a wife or family. Aside from essentials like eating, going to the toilet etc... surely bitching about the Novus Ordo and pining for a wife only takes up so much time? 

[Terrie]

Man, this kid's tendency to shot his mouth about things that he knows nothing about is impressive.  His comments about voting crack me up. 10 states have automatic registration, 5 have election day registration, and oddly, the sky hasn't caved in yet. He has that level of paranoia that teeters between amusing and just sad. 

[Jencendiary]

This guy does know that he's going to need to expand his criteria when it comes to cultural and ethnic groups to meet a nice Catholic girl traditional enough for him, right? (And those young women's fathers are probably going to nope right out of the situation after one look at him.)

Edited February 1, 2018 by Jencendiary

[Four is Enough]

I don't remember my pre-Cana classes being anywhere near porn... in fact, I barely remember them at all, as it was so boring, I could barely stay awake!!

[Cleopatra7]

9 hours ago, Jencendiary said:

This guy does know that he's going to need to expand his criteria when it comes to cultural and ethnic groups to meet a nice Catholic girl traditional enough for him, right? (And those young women's fathers are probably going to nope right out of the situation after one look at him.)

It shouldn't come as a surprise to Whittle that he can't find the perfect trad maiden when he has so many non-negotiables, which include (but appear to not be limited to): 1. attending the Latin Mass 99.9 percent of the time (I guess that 0.01 percent could be him "allowing" her to attend a Novus Ordo mass on her birthday or something) 2. a follower of "Theology of the Skirt" 3. must be "open to life" 4. must be a US born American citizen, immigrants and green card holders not welcome 5. must be an PATRIOTIC American, while also thinking that the country is going to hell in a hand basket 6. no working outside the home 7. must have a name Whittle likes or perhaps be willing to change it. 

Traditional Catholics are a relatively small group in a large church. Within traditionalism, there are all kinds of factions that make having such a specific criteria for a wife even more challenging. If he was willing to attend a conservative but mainstream NO parish, Whittle might have more luck, but as we've noted, for someone who claims to want to be the sole breadwinner, he doesn't bring much to the table. 

[Carol]

I was so ticked off after reading his post on immigration that I wrote him a response and it wasn't very nice.   His post was ugly and mean spirited, especially for someone who doesn't have a job and wants the world handed to him on a silver plate.  Ended up not sending it.  Am thinking about a different one, slightly nicer.  

Grrr...he needs to be called on his shit.  Gloves off.  Sort of. 

Edited February 1, 2018 by Carol

[Terrie]

Like most of these creepsters, he seems to think just existing should be enough to get a woman to throw herself at him. I can't find it again, but he had a blog entry about a possible "future wife." The basis for this possibility? She came to Mass on her own, said hi and sat in the same row as him. No attempts to engage her in conversation after the service, or anything, but he built up this idea in his head. Women aren't people to guys like this. 

[feministxtian]

I just went through his "portfolio" and read his resume. I wouldn't hire the guy on a dare or a bet. His portfolio has nothing technical in it...like a complete plan set. There's a helluva lot more to architecture than just drawing some pretty pictures on a computer. It's a good thing there was no space for comments on his portfolio or I would have given him a piece of this old, crusty mechanical designer's mind. His "qualifications" don't move me much. 

I deal with architectural, structural, mechanical, electrical, millwork, etc plans every damn day right now. I doubt seriously he'd survive in a firm. With his luck he'd end up working for a woman.

[Terrie]

23 hours ago, Terrie said:

Like most of these creepsters, he seems to think just existing should be enough to get a woman to throw herself at him. I can't find it again, but he had a blog entry about a possible "future wife." The basis for this possibility? She came to Mass on her own, said hi and sat in the same row as him. No attempts to engage her in conversation after the service, or anything, but he built up this idea in his head. Women aren't people to guys like this. 

Found the blog entry: https://catholiclookforwife.blogspot.com/2012/04/catholic-girl-in-works.html

Digging through his blog to find it, this guy is even creepier than I remembered. He talks about his "Catholic sweetheart" hopefully being the gift he gets for St. Valentine's Day, Christmas, etc, etc. He has tons of instructions on how to be a good Catholic for young people women. Who care about the men, right? He can't marry them. New Order Catholicism is to blame for everything. Did you know it's the Pope's fault that the US legalized same-sex marriage? 

I feel seriously unclean now.

 

[Red Hair, Black Dress]

This creepster seems like the type of guy who manufactures an entire relationship with a girl because she smiled at him on the bus or sat in the same pew at Mass.  And... because she's his "sweetheart" he begins stalking her to "protect" her.  God forbid she have an actual boyfriend.  This creepster seems like the kind to go bananas if his sweetheart is seeing someone else.  I'm serious when I say this guy could be a Criminal Minds episode.

There was a guy like this in grad school.  Except he was brilliant -- but totally unstable.  He decided we were in a relationship because 1) I'd said hi once as we passed on campus and 2) We were in a class together -- sat on opposite sides of the room.

One day in class, just as I bent my head to write something down, as full Coke can came whizzing across the room, hit the wall behind me and then spilled Coke all over me.  If I hadn't bent my head 2 seconds before it would have hit me square in the face. My "boyfriend" then jumped up and began screaming that I was sitting there, silently laughing at him. Cheating on him with every man in class and making a fool of him and he was therefore breaking up with me.  He then picked up his books and ran from the room.  

I, hair and clothes drenched with Coke,  and the rest of the class sat there stunned.  The professor then said "let's all take a break."  I was off to the ladies to try to repair the damage.

The next day we all heard he's accosted one of the other professors and accused his of spying on his dreams, and had gone after yet another prof for breaking into his apt and stealing his clothes.

Turns out the guy was (I think) a paranoid schizophrenic and had stopped taking his meds.  He was totally off when taking them, but completely unstable went not.

He quietly disappeared from school after all this. I never knew what happened to him.

[Terrie]

@Red Hair, Black Dress It's sad how ubiquitous this kind of stuff is. A friend of a friend recently had an issue with a customer at her work taking pictures of her without her permission. His response to being told his behavior was not okay and made people uncomfortable was to get upset that he was being told to stop, not that he was making people uncomfortable.

A couple people tried to defend the guy as possibly on the spectrum and not understanding social boundaries. But you know what? Misogyny, and in case of our trad. catholic, xenophobia and homophobia, are not symptoms of autism. I work in IT support at a tech company (it's amazing how many software engineers can't figure out basic things like installing software), so I work with a lot of guys, and a good percent are on the spectrum. There's a difference between a person who treats you poorly because you are a human being and they are baffled by people, and a person who treats you poorly because you are female and therefore unimportant. It's super insulting to people on the spectrum to give a pass to bigots.

Sorry. Bit of a tangent, but even a few days later, I'm still pissed. And looking at this ass's blog just made me angry all over again.

[Cleopatra7]

1 hour ago, Terrie said:

A couple people tried to defend the guy as possibly on the spectrum and not understanding social boundaries. But you know what? Misogyny, and in case of our trad. catholic, xenophobia and homophobia, are not symptoms of autism. I work in IT support at a tech company (it's amazing how many software engineers can't figure out basic things like installing software), so I work with a lot of guys, and a good percent are on the spectrum. There's a difference between a person who treats you poorly because you are a human being and they are baffled by people, and a person who treats you poorly because you are female and therefore unimportant. It's super insulting to people on the spectrum to give a pass to bigots.

Agreed. I’ve met a lot of guys on the spectrum and none were like Christendom's Most Eligible Bachelor. Everything that has gone wrong is someone else’s fault with this guy: his godless Novus Ordo parents, Pope Francis, the government of Massachusetts, the Democratic Party, Cardinal Sean O’Malley, the administrators at his community college, etc. I think he only wants a Catholic sweetheart so he can have church approved sex (this is based on how much he insists that he can’t be a priest or a monk, he obviously really wants sex). It’s obvious that he can’t stand the idea of a woman having her own identity and ideas and just wants someone who will just be a vacant step ford wife. He’d probably could find such a woman at an SSPX chapel (there’s at least one in Massachusetts) but SSPX supporters tend to be monarchs and thus not patriotic enough for Whittle.

[feministxtian]

I'm in engineering and have seen some real oddballs over the years...BUT with the exception of very few (and they were the more normal ones) they don't show the misogyny of this guy. I've run into that bullshit...being told "go home and bake cookies and let a man who has a family have your job" and "yes, he gets paid more, he has a family to support". 

This guy is a straight up headcase. I know many who are oblivious to social cues, boundaries, table manners, appropriate dress and grooming. The stories I could tell! However, this guy is a bonafide jerk. His ranting against architect licensing tells me he doesn't know shit from shinola and not willing to undertake the education required. He has NO clue what it means to be a licensed architect or engineer...your ass can be SUED if your building or design is a cluster-fuck and harms folks...having that license and seal means you are knowledgeable, willing and able to uphold certain standards of performance AND ethics within the profession. When the architect or engineer puts his/her seal and signature on that drawing, they are certifying that the design is within the bounds of safety (in more ways than one), is constructable and will have the lifespan as advertised. The plans also serve as legal documents for the GCs to follow. IOW, if the structural engineer says "put fireproofing here" and the GC doesn't make sure it's done and the building catches on fire, the engineer is in the clear and the GC is fucked. There's many layers of standards, regulations and inspections...and the guy/girl at the top of the heap, the architect or engineer pretty much has to know them all. This idiot doesn't know his elbow from his ass from a hole in the ground. 

 

::::::::::rant over, had to meet with an idiot GC who bullshitted their project manager this morning:::::

[mango_fandango]

I clicked through a few more posts to find one on the Girl Scouts. I’ve seen criticism of them before... but he then had a paragraph saying his sister was one, and said that whilst Boy Scouts swim, go canoeing, make bows and arrows, camp in sub-zero temperatures every month (wtf?? Does he live in the Arctic?)... Girl Scouts can’t camp in temperatures less than 60F and they only swim in jacuzzis. He titled the paragraph “Girl Scouts are wimp-os” (yup, he said that) before claiming he didn’t mean it in a derogatory way...

I swear to God. You cannot make this shit up. 

 

His profile picture isn’t exactly a great advert. He looks all serious. I know some people are attracted to guys who look “moody” and stuff... I find it so off-putting!! I find socialising awkward enough as it is, I’m not going to go up to a grumpy-looking guy... gimme a smiling, friendly looking bloke any day!!!

[hoipolloi]

41 minutes ago, feministxtian said:

However, this guy is a bonafide jerk. His ranting against architect licensing tells me he doesn't know shit from shinola and not willing to undertake the education required. He has NO clue what it means to be a licensed architect or engineer...your ass can be SUED if your building or design is a cluster-fuck and harms folks...having that license and seal means you are knowledgeable, willing and able to uphold certain standards of performance AND ethics within the profession. When the architect or engineer puts his/her seal and signature on that drawing, they are certifying that the design is within the bounds of safety (in more ways than one), is constructable and will have the lifespan as advertised.

Exactly. This was the big flag to me that Mr. Eligible Christian was basically a total jerk, whatever else might be wrong with him. Can't believe either that he'd be hired by any qualified architectural or engineering firm, even to do the technical drawing for which he claims unmatched expertise. If he were hired, he'd be bounced out on his ass within 1-2 pay periods -- it'd be a toss-up as to whether he'd get fired for poor work or an inability to get along with others.

It's probably also a toss-up as to whether he's a misogynist because of the ultra-RC beliefs or he's ultra-RC because he's a misogynist.

[feministxtian]

22 minutes ago, hoipolloi said:

Can't believe either that he'd be hired by any qualified architectural or engineering firm, even to do the technical drawing for which he claims unmatched expertise

I looked at his "portfolio" and saw nothing that impressed me. Pretty much everything is just showing he's fair to middling at rendering. A portfolio should show at least one set of plans...you know, fully detailed, dimensioned, etc. You can't just draw pretty pictures and call yourself a draftsman/designer/architect. It just don't work that way. He has a certificate in CADD. It isn't an actual degree...I've listed the 3 CADD programs from where I went to school. I have the third one...which was done while working full time. He probably has the "Career Studies" Certificate...it's like 1-2 semesters...and it's not that rough. 

Computer-Aided Drafting & Design Technology (221-729-01) Career Studies Certificate

♦ Course requires pre/co-requisites.

Certificate Requirements

CAD 151 - Engineering Drawing Fundamentals I (3 credits)

CAD 152 - Engineering Drawing Fundamentals II ♦ (3 credits)

CAD 202 - Computer Aided Drafting and Design II ♦ (4 credits)

CAD 211 - Advanced Technical Drawing ♦ (3 credits)

 

CAD 241 - Parametric Solid Modeling I (4 credits)

or

CAD 280 - Design Capstone Project ♦ (3 credits)

Computer-Aided Drafting & Design Technology (727) Certificate

Purpose: This certificate is designed to prepare individuals with job skills to work as designers and CAD operators. Students also have the opportunity to explore digital and rapid prototyping. The program can also lead to further courses in mechanical and civil engineering technology at the bachelor’s degree level.

For more information, contact the Science, Engineering and Technology Division at (757) 825-2898 or stemoffice@tncc.edu.

♦ Course requires pre/co-requisites.

Possible Career Opportunities

In order to review a listing of possible career opportunities available upon completion of this program, please visit the VA Wizard at https://www.vawizard.org/vccs/Main.action.

Fall I

ENG 111 - College Composition I (3 credits)

MTH 163 - Precalculus I ♦ (3 credits)

CAD 151 - Engineering Drawing Fundamentals I (3 credits)

MEC 131 - Mechanics I-Statics for Engineering Technology ♦ (3 credits)

SDV 100 - College Success Skills (1 credit)

Semester Total Credits 13

Spring I

MTH 164 - Precalculus II ♦ (3 credits)

CAD 152 - Engineering Drawing Fundamentals II ♦ (3 credits)

 

CAD 211 - Advanced Technical Drawing ♦ (3 credits)

or

CAD 241 - Parametric Solid Modeling I (4 credits)

 

MEC 132 - Mechanics II-Strength of Materials for Engineering Technology ♦ (3 credits)

CAD 202 - Computer Aided Drafting and Design II ♦ (4 credits)

Semester Total Credits 16/17

Summer I

Social Science (3 credits) 1

Wellness Course (2 credits)2

Semester Total Credits 5

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Computer-Aided Drafting & Design Technology (729), Associate of Applied Science Degree

Purpose: This degree is designed to prepare individuals with skills to work as designers and CAD operators. Students also have the opportunity to explore additive manufacturing.

Course Offerings: CADD courses in this program are offered primarily at the Hampton Campus both evening and daytime, as well as online.

Special Notes: Completion of the capstone course is a required part of the program. Students are highly encouraged to seek summer internship opportunities to explore the field of computer-aided drafting and design.

For more information, contact the Science, Engineering and Technology Division at (757) 825-2898 or stemoffice@tncc.edu.

♦ Course requires pre/co-requisites.

Possible Career Opportunities

In order to review a listing of possible career opportunities available upon completion of this program, please visit the VA Wizard at https://www.vawizard.org/vccs/Main.action.

Fall I

ENG 111 - College Composition I (3 credits)

MTH 163 - Precalculus I ♦ (3 credits)

CAD 151 - Engineering Drawing Fundamentals I (3 credits)

CAD 128 - Geometric Dimensions and Tolerancing (4 credits)

MEC 113 - Materials and Processes of Industry (3 credits)

SDV 100 - College Success Skills (1 credit)

Semester Total Credits 17

Spring I

ENG 115 - Technical Writing ♦ (3 credits)

MTH 164 - Precalculus II ♦ (3 credits)

Humanities (3 credits) 2

CAD 152 - Engineering Drawing Fundamentals II ♦ (3 credits)

Wellness Course (2 credits)2

CAD 241 - Parametric Solid Modeling I (4 credits)

Semester Total Credits 18

Fall II

Social Science (3 credits)2

Technical Elective (3/4 credits) 1

MEC 131 - Mechanics I-Statics for Engineering Technology ♦ (3 credits)

CAD 202 - Computer Aided Drafting and Design II ♦ (4 credits)

CAD 211 - Advanced Technical Drawing ♦ (3 credits)

Semester Total Credits 16/17

Spring II

MEC 132 - Mechanics II-Strength of Materials for Engineering Technology ♦ (3 credits)

MEC 133 - Mechanics III-Dynamics for Engineering Technology ♦ (2 credits)

CAD 280 - Design Capstone Project ♦ (3 credits)

Technical Elective (3/4 credits) 1

Technical Elective (3 credits) 1

[seattlechic]

OMG i can't even this guy is PRICELESSSSSSSSS 

if I had the time... i would make up a perfect bride for this asshole. catfishy catfishy....

[Terrie]

One of the odder examples of misogyny is one blog entry where he proclaims that his wife and children will use the term "Holy Ghost" not "Holy Spirit." 

[seattlechic]

18 minutes ago, Terrie said:

One of the odder examples of misogyny is one blog entry where he proclaims that his wife and children will use the term "Holy Ghost" not "Holy Spirit." 

How come? Is there an actual difference? 

[Terrie]

3 minutes ago, seattlechic said:

How come? Is there an actual difference? 

In his mind, "Holy Spirit" is a term made up by New Order "catholics" and liberal protestants. "Real" catholics use "Holy Ghost."

[seattlechic]

1 minute ago, Terrie said:

In his mind, "Holy Spirit" is a term made up by New Order "catholics" and liberal protestants. "Real" catholics use "Holy Ghost."

Oooooooohhhh..... thanks a bunch. 

[Seahorse Wrangler]

26 minutes ago, Terrie said:

In his mind, "Holy Spirit" is a term made up by New Order "catholics" and liberal protestants. "Real" catholics use "Holy Ghost."

Or the French

[mango_fandango]

Correct me if I’m wrong, but he doesn’t seem to make *any* effort to meet a woman. He just expects this perfect mantilla-wearing Jillian to be plopped onto his doorstep. 

I foresee this guy being single forever. Relationships and marriage involve give-and-take and he sounds completely inflexible. 

[Hane]

2 hours ago, mango_fandango said:

I clicked through a few more posts to find one on the Girl Scouts. I’ve seen criticism of them before... but he then had a paragraph saying his sister was one, and said that whilst Boy Scouts swim, go canoeing, make bows and arrows, camp in sub-zero temperatures every month (wtf?? Does he live in the Arctic?)... Girl Scouts can’t camp in temperatures less than 60F and they only swim in jacuzzis. He titled the paragraph “Girl Scouts are wimp-os” (yup, he said that) before claiming he didn’t mean it in a derogatory way...

I swear to God. You cannot make this shit up. 

Gee. My Girl Scout troop must have been Girl Scouting wrong. We used to hike in the woods, mark trails, clear campsites, gather firewood, build campfires and cook over them, pitch tents, haul drinking and washing water, you name it.