Sarah, David, and Russell: Not Much Changes

[ellacinders]

I had a hard time finding my way back too.  But Russ makes it worthwhile.  Now he's revisiting my comment here about his remarks about 'projects' when he lives in one.  Just to make sure I know, really really know, that there was a shooting at the project he make a crack about.  How much more dangerous it is to live there than where he lives.

Oh, I don't know, Russ.  You make your own danger.  And right now, your apartment is looking pretty dangerous.  It houses you, who consistently make rotten life choices, even on death's door.

And I think there's a tiny bit of Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy going on - but rather than victimizing an innocent person, resorting to self-sabotage in order to consistently gain sympathy and attention from others.  If you go home and do what the doctors tell you, and begin to heal then you're social media sympathy/support levels dwindle.

If you go home and do what you know you should not do, then you'll create a new reason for a new ER visit and revamp your social media sympathy/support commentary.

And while it's entirely possible his blood infection would have occured regardless of his lifting and carrying too much on his first day home, or the meals he should not have eaten, what is true is that it's real hard to work up much sympathy do someone who does this and then cries when he's right back in ER.

 

Edited April 24, 2019 by ellacinders

[ellacinders]

So he keeps suffering and then saying how much he's learned from his suffering, about being a better person etc then goes and uses Mother's Day to further bash his child's mom when the kid reads his facebook.

" She needs to look no farther than her own parents to see the disastrous results of poor desicions." I.e., a child named Lauren with disabilities.  

 What a rotten thing to say about your kid.    Why don't people read back what they write before they post it?

And the pornographic talk where his child can see it is disgusting.  His own aunt has to remind him his child reads the filth he posts.

[bea]

And he’s grateful for the anti abortion movement because....... of an “unwanted abortion” and he’s raising his kid to know choices have consequences.
Because apparently kids are punishment. And because Russ can’t be bothered to use birth control OR support his kids but should be in charge of women’s bodies.
He’s such a turd.

[HumbleJillyMuffin]

The comments Russ was making about anal sex were so classy, especially given that his own 13 year old daughter reads his Facebook. Ewww! 

 

[ellacinders]

This morning he posted a photo he took of Sarah and himself, alongside a photo of Rose that he lifted from Sarah's social media. Along with a couple of song lyrics in their entirety.  Such middle school girlish behavior.

Russ - posting this nonsense won't prove Rose is your daughter, only a test will.  And it won't remind Sarah how much she supposedly loved you.

This crap drives women further and further away.  It does NOT bring them back to you.  

Sarah would be wise to remove photos of her children from social media.

[Tim-Tom Biblethumper]

Russ is a piece of work.  I was just scrolling his feed and there were a couple things of note:

On May 30th he posted a link about an abortion clinic closing after 4 years in business.  

He had this to say: 
"Thank the Lord. My child died there in 2004. Many many prayers through the years and tears every time I go by. Ill be happy to see it bulldozed. Thank you Lord."

On June 2nd he posted that there was a lady trying to jump from a Peoria bridge.  So, what does he do?  Film it of course.  First he's telling us to pray for her, then he's saying she's drunk.

Oh, and he's written some nonsense about how he can empathize more with Lauren's medical issues now that he's got his own.  All Russ all the time. 

[ellacinders]

He's a real piece of work.  Can't wait for his Judgement Day - it will be a reckoning for certain.  And a big surprise for him who is constantly shown lessons that he can't be bothered with learning.

[ViolaSebastian]

Okay, after the first two unplanned pregnancies, maybe Russ should have done some introspection and worn a condom. Hell, after one. He’s acting like he’s played no role in any of this, save for the victim—and it’s revolting. 

[bea]

Wasn’t Sarah super fundie or at least fundie light at one point?
Because not now. Apparently.

[AnnaSofia]

She's been sliding into some sort of hippie earth mother phase for awhile now; yoga, drum circles, 1960s (instead of 1860s) fashion, and a lotta vague references to nature worship, though this is the first time I've noticed #druid hashtags.

She also posted on her sewing blog about how she's lost interest in doing reenactments:

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I didn't like dressing. I don't like wearing these clothes like I used to. I don't like wearing a corset. I don't like feeling restricted in my movement. I don't like wearing shoes and long socks. I don't like doing my hair this way. I don't like how I feel about myself when I wear these clothes. I feel like how I look does not represent how I feel. This never used to be an issue with me. I used to love wearing corsets and all the petticoats and such. Hell, I even had a weird year a long time ago where I WORE A CORSET EVERY FREAKING DAY. Oh my gosh. I'm glad that is in the past. . .anyway. I just felt off. So, that affected my enjoyment of the event.

The past few years it's just been slow for me, in regards to the hobby. I don't know if this is because I am burnt out on living history or because I am changing. I've really questioned why I used to do this, why I continue to do this (although on a much smaller scale than previously) and why I may or may not want to continue doing this. I used to get so much satisfaction and joy from researching all the time, sewing lots of pretty clothes and dressing my kids in cute outfits. I liked camping and cooking over a fire. I liked the people I met and spending time with old and new friends (and I still do). And now, I just feel like it's overdone, blah, and not as enjoyable as it used to be. A little bit of eventing does it for me now. Back in the day I'd get post event blues and as soon as one event was over I'd be anxiously planning for the next. Now, I am relieved when an event is over and there aren't any more coming up for a long time. I look back and see myself 10 or 12 years ago and think. . .that was shallow. I was shallow. I wasted so much time, physical energy and mental energy on something that is a fricking hobby. I didn't develop my mind at all because I was too busy developing my impression.

What is wrong with me? Maybe nothing? My priories are different now. There is so much more to life than reenacting. I always knew that, of course. . .but now, all that time I used to spend getting ready for events I am spending living normal life and there just isn't time left over like there used to be. And if there is, I want to spend it in other ways. For that reason, I've made almost no new reenacting clothes for anyone for a long time and I haven't really researched much at all lately. Now, true, I have been really pursuing the history of the first wave of feminism in the US and am yes, actually excited about making a reform dress for myself sometime soon but that's it.

 

[ellacinders]

Well, Russ has had that photo of himself and Sarah, and Rose alongside for nearly a month with no new posts.  Guess he wants us to worry about him.  But checking on Kindall's pages, there's no indication of any need for prayer for Russ, so he's probably fine.  Maybe he lost his phone and internet.

[ellacinders]

So Russ made a lovely post this morning, after deleting some old posts and posting nothing for a couple of months.  Now he's talking about giving up custody/visitation rights to Lauren.  He probably is tired of having to pay child support and not only wants out of the obligation, but an awful lot of attention and continued opportunities to bash her and Rose's mother.

He's a pig.

[OhTheDrama]

In a public post on a social media site where he regularly interacts with Lauren. Does he think she will see it and blame her mom? Even people who are commenting told him to get medication and not to leave her.

This is not just a pig. This is mental illness. This will break Lauren's heart.

[ellacinders]

I'm not sure he's mentally ill, just completely incapable of seeing his flaws, and constantly needing to get his own way, and a lot of attention.  Regardless who he hurts.  And yes, his daughter see's what he posts.  Shameful.

[Tim-Tom Biblethumper]

After a little poking around, I see that Kindall announced her engagement the day before Russ's meltdown.  It all makes sense now.

After threatening to abandon Lauren, he then threatened to take her dog to a shelter.  Next thing we know, Lauren is spending time with him at his place and all is back to "normal" (for now). 

[Cat Damon]

I don't really have anything to add except... what an asshole. If I were Lauren I don't think I'd want to go visit my dad after reading that online. My parents got divorced when I was an adult so I never had to deal with visitation but the constant shitting on each other got old.

What Russell doesn't get (or doesn't want to get) is that at the end of the day, Kindall is still Lauren's mom and Lauren loves her. He doesn't have to like Kindall, he doesn't even really interact with her from what I can tell, but good lord don't blast all that on the internet where Lauren can see it! 

[ellacinders]

All that b.s. talk when he thought he was dying...he's learned ZERO.  Boy will he be surprised when he leaves this world and has to account for the cruel, emotional abuse he heaps on that child.

[ellacinders]

Yesterday he posted about the ex's in his life who needed to go to jail for the abuse they heaped upon him.  Today, he's removed it.  

[HumbleJillyMuffin]

He's learned nothing, that's for sure. And what's this "abuse" he keeps going on about? Your baby mamas moved on with their lives? Guess what Rusty Leroy? That's not abuse, that's just life. It's not personal. It's not about you. 

[bea]

OBOD is Order of Bards, Ovates & Druids.

Christianity sure didn’t do Sarah any favors. I hope she finds what she needs in neopaganism.

[AnnaSofia]

I have only her IG and blogs to go on (I don't do Facebook), but Sarah seems much more mellow these days. I'd venture to say the change has been good for her so far. Here's hoping it continues.

[HumbleJillyMuffin]

Lauren's Make a Wish is a cruise in Italy, they leave this week. Russ has just announced that apparently he's going too. Poor Kindall and family. Can you imagine Russ in a foreign country? Ugly American tourist. 

[ellacinders]

"What dad wants in italy....

Where Is Prosciutto Made Best? Parma, in Emilia-Romagna, and San Daniele, in Friuli-Venezia Giulia, are the two cities that have cured prosciutto the longest. Because of this history, prosciutto di Parma and prosciutto di San Daniele are the most famous in Italy and beyond.

and 

Rivata Moscato d' Asti. (123) Piedmont, Italy- Softly sparkling bubbly loaded with peach, mango, and honey flavors. .."

Russell Dejaynes, part-time custodial father of Make A Wish Foundation recipient.  He fails to mention what his long suffering child wanted out of this trip. 

[HumbleJillyMuffin]

3 hours ago, ellacinders said:

"What dad wants in italy....

Where Is Prosciutto Made Best? Parma, in Emilia-Romagna, and San Daniele, in Friuli-Venezia Giulia, are the two cities that have cured prosciutto the longest. Because of this history, prosciutto di Parma and prosciutto di San Daniele are the most famous in Italy and beyond.

and 

Rivata Moscato d' Asti. (123) Piedmont, Italy- Softly sparkling bubbly loaded with peach, mango, and honey flavors. .."

Russell Dejaynes, part-time custodial father of Make A Wish Foundation recipient.  He fails to mention what his long suffering child wanted out of this trip. 

He's such an ass. I can only imagine what Kindall and the rest of the family are sacrificing (sanity, for one) so Lauren can have her beloved father on the trip. He will be the ugly American tourist, I'll bet the rent on it. Maybe he'll do something really stupid and end up in a foreign prison. 

[HumbleJillyMuffin]

He's posted all sorts of live videos and photos of them sitting around the international terminal at O'Hare. And to think that a little over a month ago he announced he wanted to give up custody of Lauren and move out of state. How nice that he decided against that and now gets to enjoy a Mediterranean cruise for Lauren's Make a Wish.