Sunshine Mary suggests rape as a cure for a frigid wife

[Green Glass]

Unbelievably disgusting, and so frightening, because someone, somewhere, might read that and decide that she is right. She also comes across as anything BUT loving or however it is Christians are supposed to appear.

[auntsally28]

Yep...keeping a woman fearful gets the "good behaviour" that many men want. Reminds me of my first husband.....I was in therapy for years.... :pink-shock:

She DOES NOT represent any element of Christianity that I have ever come across...she is a pick and mix theologian like many fundies.

[oil]

we'll just call it the husband taking what by all rights already belongs to him anyway

Just checked her latest post and it's about how a man needs to nip his wife's disobedience in the bud to prevent her from rebelling.

I dont believe this. These women cant really believe this. I think these women have a sexual excitement from being submissive in this extreme way. This isnt just like a husband is head of the house. This is "rape me, Im being a bad girl."

[Rainytown]

She posted a link to a page of romance novels with bodice-ripping artwork on their covers. If women like these books, it must mean that they're secretly turned on by the thought of being raped. :angry-banghead:

Dear Mary Sunshine:

I write romance novels. Your assumption of our readers' sexual desires (most likely gleaned from seriously outdated cover art) is erroneous at best.

Forcible sex has not been featured in romance novels in the past twenty years. Authors, readers and publishing houses have made it clear they're not interested in books that feature rape in any way, shape or form. To use outdated cover art as a means of supporting your insupportable opinion is a joke at best and ignorant at worst.

Romance novels (like all genre fiction) reflect the time period they are written in. Women in the 1970's were still compelled to have sex with their husbands/boyfriends whether they wanted to or not. In many states, they were still considered property. As women gained independence through the ability to earn their own money and have control over themselves and their bodies, the genre changed to reflect this. It also changed to reflect the fact that women DESERVE a healthy, loving, mutually supportive and pleasurable relationship. If you're content with what appears from your blog posts to be a dysfunctional, unhappy relationship, that's your choice. Don't pin it on us.

Here's a question, Mary Sunshine: Why do you hate women?

Sincerely,

Just another author

[Ahavaleah]

Ugh. I had injuries from delivering my son that turned into an autoimmune pain disorder in my pelvic area. Two years out, sex is still difficult and it's very much affected my husband and my's physical relationship. So glad he hasn't ever thought to "take what already belonged to him."

These people make me see red. :angry-banghead:

[Sumeri]

Very scary. Just checked her latest post and it's about how a man needs to nip his wife's disobedience in the bud to prevent her from rebelling. Sunshine confessed to putting her knives in the dishwasher instead of washing them by hand as her husband had commanded her to do. The dishwasher broke yesterday and now he's punished her by making her wash ALL of the dishes by hand and refusing to buy a new dishwasher.

There are comments by men AND women who think that it's a great idea to put a woman in her place. Ugh! Please remind me that it's 2013 and wives don't need to be punished.

Maybe it's just my intense dislike of this woman, but I really can't see her husbands "punishment for disobedience" as anything but a tiny bit irritating. In 46 years on this planet I've had a dishwasher for one year. Methinks this is just a way to earn sympathy points from her hoard of MRAs.

What I get from her self-congratulatory story of submission is that her husband is a cheap ass and she's an entitled asshole.

[GolightlyGrrl]

I believe Toxic Waste Scary has mentioned her husband has cheated on her (which is the dirty work of nasty whores who can't control themselves around his alluring Alpha Maleness-retch). And from her other blog postings it sounds like her husband is a controlling, abusive jerk. Usually I would feel empathy for someone caught up in a dysfunctional relationship. But I'll make an exception this time. Toxic Waste Scary and her Jag-Off husband sound like a match made in hell. And her desperation for MRA attention is repugnant.

[Sumeri]

The stories of her husband make me think that her entire blog may be a fake. In order to cheat on someone 30+ times you would have to have 30+ women who would sleep with you, and this guy sure doesn't sound like he'd have the girls lining up for that privilege.

[GolightlyGrrl]

The stories of her husband make me think that her entire blog may be a fake. In order to cheat on someone 30+ times you would have to have 30+ women who would sleep with you, and this guy sure doesn't sound like he'd have the girls lining up for that privilege.

Maybe he's visiting prostitutes.

[salex]

Maybe he's visiting prostitutes.

That is what I was thinking as well.

[Burris]

...it's pretty vulgar stuff for a Christian.

It’s vulgar by almost any standard – so vulgar, in fact, that I think it must be deliberate.

Mary Dipshit’s posts read like a mixture of passive-aggression aimed at her husband and jack-off material for the most twisted segment of MRA culture.

She posts, for example, about her husband’s philandering on a blog dedicated to expressing her alleged respect for the man.

And her Alpha-Man husband has no problem with her deliberately attracting a certain subset of male readers to her blog with sordid tales about their totally dysfunctional sex life? That entire blog seems like an exercise in sexual exhibitionism barely veiled by the religious fanaticism Mary Sunshine uses to justify the domestic abuse pornography she posts.

[Koala]

Maybe it's just my intense dislike of this woman, but I really can't see her husbands "punishment for disobedience" as anything but a tiny bit irritating. In 46 years on this planet I've had a dishwasher for one year. Methinks this is just a way to earn sympathy points from her hoard of MRAs.

What I get from her self-congratulatory story of submission is that her husband is a cheap ass and she's an entitled asshole.

She's an asshole because she encourages domestic violence towards women, not because she wants a new dishwasher.

Entitled is expecting someone else to buy you a new dishwasher. Wanting to spend household money on one isn't entitled at all imo.

I'll tell you what I'd do though. I'd let his ass do the dishes since he's so damned particular about how it's done. We'd see how he liked having dishpan hands or no dishes at all. Wouldn't make a bit of difference to me.