Josh Duggar had paid Ashley Madison account(s) per Gawker

[Mela99]

I hope there are lots of you visiting Oh No They Didn't. The comments are gold.

This was my favorite so far -- the hope of finding a JB profile.

"Looking for a lady who has a very special touch with a Snickers bar and hairspray . . Hope you have a hot sister who can babysit my 25 year old kid ;) PS, I am very picky about how my socks and undies are folded. Hope that's not a problem-o for you-o! Hola!"

(Not even the funniest but this one killed me) :cracking-up:

[CommanderShepard]

In this case NWA stands for Northwest ArkansS

Straight Outta Duggarville

[nastyhobbitses]

In this case NWA stands for Northwest ArkansS

Yeah, as "rebellious" as Josh is, what with his love of short-haired women and cunnilingus, I can't see him liking a group that's best known for a song called Fuck The Police. If it were called Fuck Random Chicks Who Aren't Your Wife, he'd probably like them though.

[actuallyjessica]

i am shocked yet not surprised.

the okcupid questionnaire is rather interesting. he says faith and science are both equal. a few inconsistencies but he does make it clear he believes people should live together/have sex before marriage. i feel sorry for anna and the kids, and i know i'm going to get hate for this but also for josh. it's pretty obvious he hasn't been happy in his marriage for a long time and this confirms it. don't like that he cheated, but he must have felt awfully trapped to consider it.

i could see him renouncing ati.

[DuggarsTheEndIsNear]

What if he leaves Anna? What if he just says stuff it, and walks away from this whole stupid and pointless façade of a life.

Well, better late than never, provided he doesn't find some way to "blame her" for his choices.

[treemom]

Yeah, as "rebellious" as Josh is, what with his love of short-haired women and cunnilingus, I can't see him liking a group that's best known for a song called Fuck The Police. If it were called Fuck Random Chicks Who Aren't Your Wife, he'd probably like them though.

I think the comment was a joke, but just wanted to make sure.

And I just laughed so hard Pepsi came out of my nose,

[SportsgalAnnie]

So just to be clear, what enrages you about this is he disagrees with you on flag burning?

You have fucked up ideals if that's the thing that you find most appalling, And I suspect FJ is split probably 50/50 on flag burning, so I find it odd you decided this stand needed to be taken here.

And yeah, lots of us have military families. And I think it's a pretty big difference from personally spitting on a specific persons grave. :eyeroll

It's not but it's something I decided to point out. You also REALLY need to grow up and watch your language, learn to disagree respectfully, it's not that hard.

[watchdog]

Yes.I was thinking that even if I didn't know what it was, I'd think AM was a porn site.

Well, if you think about it, it pretty much is, isn't it? :lol:

A couple of people way upthread mentioned they'd never heard of Ashley Madison. (OMG! I'm watching the local 10 o'clock news, the NBC affiliate, and they're about to run this story!) Sorry, I digressed there for a second. I probably never would have heard of it either, but they used to advertise a LOT on mostly late-night television. I couldn't believe what I was seeing the first couple of times I saw their commercials. I haven't seen one in a year or so, so I don't know if they still advertise on TV or not. Josh may not have had a chance to watch much TV while still at home, but he and Anna had a TV in their home pretty early on.

[linnea27]

~$900 seems a steep price for jerking off purposes, especially when the internet is awash with free porn of all sorts of varieties

AND he paid extra for the "affair in three months or it's free" guarantee. Why shell out if your goal is only looking?

[Mela99]

Straight Outta Duggarville

NWA for Smugz is Nuggets Wit' 'At. Fat ass.

[Idolatry]

I've never heard of this website and never spent money there. If some anonymous hackers put my name in that data dump, the denial would be pretty simple.

[treemom]

It's not but it's something I decided to point out. You also REALLY need to grow up and watch your language, learn to disagree respectfully, it's not that hard.

I like swearing, but thanks for the advice.

You actually are the one who implied this was the thing that was a big issue for you. "It really sets me off".

Your ideals are whacked (is that better?). And i think it's fine to have an issue with flag burning, but pretty dumb to think it's worse than everything else, like infidelity which puts an actual human being at risk.

[Mothership]

And, finally, the conclusion to the Transcript of Josh Duggar's OKC Answers.

This project has wasted three hours of my life. And I'm weirdly okay with it.

• Can you run a mile without stopping? "Yes- and more"
  
• I prefer to sleep… "Embracing/cuddling my partner"
  
• Group sex (with 3 or more people): "I have little or no interest"
  
• Do you keep your sexual exploits private? "Yes, always"
  
• How often do you use Facebook? "I'm a somewhat active user"
  
• How would you describe your body? "Average"
  
• If you were to die, would whoever goes through your personal belongings be shocked by what they find? "No"
  
• What's the highest level of education you've completed? "College"
  
• How much does physical attractiveness matter to you in a match? "A lot"
  
• Could you date someone who already has children from a previous relationship? "Yes"
  
• In the line “Wherefore art thou Romeo?,†what does “wherefore†mean? "Where" [i've been trying to type these without comment, but this is straight up wrong--it means "why"]
  
• Do you think drug use with your partner can be a romantic activity? "No"
  
• Should evolution and creationism be taught side-by-side in school? "Yes, students should hear both sides"
  
• How often do you keep your promises? "Always"
  
• How much do you spend per year for shoes? "$101-$500"
  
• Your significant other's ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react? "Not thrilled, but go ahead."
  
• Can anything be made the subject of a joke? "Yes, anything can be funny in the right light."
  
• You're dating someone new. You discover that they have a housemate the same sex as you. This: "doesn't faze you one bit"
  
• STALE is to STEAL as 89475 is to... "89547"
  
• Do you like to go clubbing? "No, I do not like to go clubbing"
  
• On average, which best describes how often you GET WICKED DRUNK? "Seldom or never"
  
• If someone sends you an e-mail (or has a profile) full of spelling and grammatical errors, are you less likely to talk to them? "Yes"
  
• How often are you open with your feelings? "Usually"
  
• You're up against a nearly impossible challenge. Your ideal partner… "pushes you hard to succeed"
  
• Are you smarter than most people? "Yes"
  
• Do you have a really good relationship with both your parents? "Yes"
  
• Have you ever tried any sexual roleplaying, such as student/teacher or patient/nurse? "No, but it sounds interesting"
  
• Do you have any tattoos? "I have no tattoos"
  
• Do you want your partner to be kinkier than you? "Yes"
  
• Is a man who's slept with 100 women a bad person? "No"
  
• Is a woman who's slept with 100 men a bad person? "No"
  
• A college-level education is... "Nice, but not mandatory"
  
• Would you date someone who still lives with his/her parents? "Yes"
  
• Is it okay to answer your cell phone while out with a friend or on a date? "Friend, yes. Date, no."
  
• How do you feel about baseball? "I can take it or leave it"
  
• Is marriage a necessity for two people who love each other? "No"
  
• Would you prefer to be a financial success or to remain true to your principles? "I'll stick with my principles, thanks."
  
• Does the idea of flipping a coin to make important life decisions appeal to you? "No"
  
• Would you date someone who kept a gun in the house? "Yes"
  
• When men show extra courtesy toward women (opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc.), this is: "Admirable
• and desirable. Chivalry's not dead."
  
• How important to you is a potential match's sense of humor? "very important"
  
• Would it bother you if someone you are dating has a lot of close friends of the opposite sex? "No"
  
• Could you have respect for someone after having sex with them on the first meeting/date? "Yes"
  
• If you were going to have a child, would you want the other parent to be of the same ethnicity as you? "This would not be an important factor to me"
  
• Do you like reading tabloids? "No"
  
• Do you know how to drive a stick shift (manual transmission)? "Yes"
  
• Receiving anal sex? "I don't like it / I don't think I would like it"
  
• Do you only date people with athletic and toned bodies? "No"
  
• Do you believe a couple should live together before considering marriage? "Yes"
  
• Are you Jewish? "No"
  
• Have you had a girlfriend before? "Yes"
  
• Is it okay to live with someone you're dating, even before you're engaged or married? "Yes"
  
• Would you date someone shorter than you? "Yes"

Final thoughts: This is a perfectly normal OKCupid profile--but only if the person behind it wasn't married and a spokesperson for purity and morals.

Wow Smuggar: Liar, liar pants on fire! Just when did he go to college?

In some ways this is really pathetic. Is this his lying to look better/more attractive or does he really believe this stuff? In which case, he's been lying all along.

I agree with posters upthread. Josh is really the poster boy for everything that's wrong with ATI/Gothard. He clearly wanted/needed to experiment and choose a different path as a teenager/young adult and was never given the opportunity to do so.

(I'm not excusing his molestation--that's a whole separate issue)

[Ahnka]

I'm surprised by some of the answers in the OKCupid list.

I don't think Anna will leave. At 27 she still has a lot of baby making days left in her. I think popping out as many babies as she can is more important than leaving. If she eventually met another man- how many years will have been lost? How do they feel about "half-siblings"? I'm guessing not so hot. I would be less surprised to hear of her leaving in 15 years, but not during these precious baby factory years. I am sure she wants all those babies to be fully blood related and there is no way she would consider shutting that baby factory down at the age at 27. THAT goes against everything she knows and believes.

[Cleopatra7]

I think this may have tarnished Michelle's Mother of the year award. She and Jim Bob won't be getting many speaking engagements-- obviously their parenting style is not as foolproof as they claimed. Maybe they need to write a new speech: Accepting Our Imperfect Children.

I wonder how the ATI is going to react. The Duggar boys may have more trouble finding wives. I can't imagine too many patriarchs happily handing their daughters over.

I agree. I don't even think the Duggars' most ardent ATI/IFB/quiverfull leghumpers are going to forgive this. At least with the past molestation, JB and Michelle could claim Josh was "just a kid"* and Josh could have claimed that it was really his parents who dropped the ball in how they handled it, but adult Josh signed up for the AM and OkCupid accounts all by himself. There's nobody to blame but himself. Maybe Jill and Jessa can still have a public career of sorts (although I think that interest in them will probably dry up soon with no TV show and a fresh scandal), but JB and Michelle are finished on the Christian speaker circuit.

*I think that the "just a kid" argument is dumb, especially given how in any other circumstance fundies are quick to say that adolescence "doesn't exist" and that one becomes a young adult at thirteen or fourteen with all the responsibilities that entails, but the leghumpers keep using that line, hoping we'll fall for it.

[FlamingFundie]

i am shocked yet not surprised.

the okcupid questionnaire is rather interesting. he says faith and science are both equal. a few inconsistencies but he does make it clear he believes people should live together/have sex before marriage. i feel sorry for anna and the kids, and i know i'm going to get hate for this but also for josh. it's pretty obvious he hasn't been happy in his marriage for a long time and this confirms it. don't like that he cheated, but he must have felt awfully trapped to consider it.

i could see him renouncing ati.

I sort of get the same vibe. It's like he answered many of the questions from his heart with the veil of anonymity that comes with the internet profile rather than spewing what he was expected to believe. But he still kept one foot on the shores of ATI, just dipping his toes into the river. Reminds me of a child, honestly, who has been taught to be afraid of the Big Bad World out there yet has such a pull towards seeing what really is on the other side.

Very sad indeed.

[madpsych78]

Wow Smuggar: Liar, liar pants on fire! Just when did he go to college?

In some ways this is really pathetic. Is this his lying to look better/more attractive or does he really believe this stuff? In which case, he's been lying all along.

I agree with posters upthread. Josh is really the poster boy for everything that's wrong with ATI/Gothard. He clearly wanted/needed to experiment and choose a different path as a teenager/young adult and was never given the opportunity to do so.

(I'm not excusing his molestation--that's a whole separate issue)

What about this college thing though?

[Guest]

Straight Outta Duggarville

[treemom]

And sportygal isn't mad because he actually burned a flag, she is only offended because he dare have a different opinion than her

[CommanderShepard]

Thank you for this, I was way too lazy to do it myself lol :clap:

EDIT: The attachment didn't go with the quote, but I was referencing the actual "straight outta" meme lol

[pamplemousse]

Holy crap. Molesting his sisters, having and using Ashley Madison accounts...never mind the other shoe dropping; just empty the freaking shoe rack already.

I am vacationing in Niagara Falls and Toronto. I was back in my hometown of Chicago when the molestation scandal broke. Therefore, if you all want any other news of bigtime indiscretions/sexual mischief of Josh's to surface, send me on vacation. :mrgreen: I understand Hawaii is beautiful just about any time of year... :lol:

[SportsgalAnnie]

I like swearing, but thanks for the advice.

You actually are the one who implied this was the thing that was a big issue for you. "It really sets me off".

Your ideals are whacked (is that better?). And i think it's fine to have an issue with flag burning, but pretty dumb to think it's worse than everything else, like infidelity which puts an actual human being at risk.

I never said It was what I saw was worse, my ideals are perfectly fine for me as yours are for you. I am however done arguing because it's pointless.

[DuggarsTheEndIsNear]

I would really not want to be either Josh or Anna right now.

New mantra when life sucks: at least I'm not Josh or Anna Duggar.

Josh and Anna nothing, I agree with others who said that Anna made her bed the day she admitted she forgave Josh for things she had no business forgiving him for (I really don't care if their religion says it makes her holy or whatever, I just don't at this point), and Josh made his own bed too. The both of them get to lie in it.

The people I don't want to be is any other Duggar kid. The girls will always be victims (even the youngest girls are going to be suspected victims forever because that's just how people are) and the boys are always going to be compared to Josh. It's going to be next to impossible for any of them to get engaged or married or even date in the next year AT LEAST. Their entire family name was ruined and they had no control over any of the deeds that were done to get to that point.

Not to mention, can you imagine the amount of rage those kids must be feeling right now? The girls being forced to be "modest" because of Josh, and the boys probably being seen as "the next Josh" by their parents was probably bad enough, now to find out that all of it was for nothing because Josh just keeps screwing them over? I mean their parents most likely aren't going to look at this as a reason to become more lax in their attempt to control the kids, they're going to increase the lock down, increase the purity, etc. Life in that family must be HELL right now. Total and complete hell.

[Toothfairy]

More okcupid answers transcribed. (Only one more part after this.)

• How often do you do things out of spite? "Sometimes"
  
• Would you be okay with your significant other spending a lot of time with one of his/her exes (as a friend)? "yes"
  
• Which superpower would you rather have: flight or invisibility? "Invisibility"
  
• Have you ever had a sexual encounter with someone of the same sex? "No, and I would never."
  
• Do you put more weight in science or faith? "Equally in both"
  
• Do you believe that men should be the heads of their households? "Yes"
  
• Are you Christian? "Yes"
  
• What's your deal with harder drugs (stuff beyond pot)? "I never do drugs"
  
• Do you enjoy intense intellectual conversations? "Yes"
  
• Do spelling mistakes annoy you? "Yes"
  
• Do you enjoy discussing politics? "Yes"
  
• Is astrological sign at all important in a match? "No"
  
• What do you think of reality television? "It's alright"
  
• Are you either vegetarian or vegan? "No"
  
• Should burning your country's flag be illegal? "No"
  
• Would you go out with a smoker? "Yes, but only an occasional/social smoker"
  
• Which of these is likely to make you more nervous: a promising first date or an important interview? "an important interview"
  
• Would you prefer good things happened, or interesting things? "Interesting"
  
• Which is more offensive: book burning or flag burning? "flag burning"
  
• Do you believe morality is universal, or relative? "universal"
  
• If you could have brilliant skill at something would you prefer something practical or fun? "something practical"
  
• Would you date someone just for the sex? "no"
  
• In terms of sex, how experienced would your ideal mate be (with people other than you)? "slightly experienced"
  
• How would you react if someone IM'd you and quickly started talking about sex? "positively"
  
• Which type of wine would you prefer to drink outside of a meal, such as for leisure? "I don't drink wine."
  
• If one of your potential matches were overweight, would that be a dealbreaker? "No"
  
• If you were to get married, would you want your partner to change his or her last name to yours? "Yes"
  
• Are politics interesting? "Yes"
  
• Is it okay for men to wear makeup? "No"
  
• Is love overrated? "No, it's underrated."
  
• If you had to name your greatest motivation in life thus far, what would it be: love, wealth, expression, or knowledge? "love"
  
• How willing are you to meet someone from OkCupid in person? "Totally willing!"
  
• Do you often make jokes that offend more uptight people? "Yes"
  
• Imagine that your partner does not enjoy performing oral sex and refuses to ever perform it on you. How disappointed would you be? "Somewhat disappointed."
  
• Do you enjoy intellectual debates on topics like politics, religion, science or philosophy? "I love to argue!"
  
• Do you like going to poetry readings? "No"
  
• Say you've started seeing someone you really like. As far as you're concerned, how long will it take before you have sex? "1-2 dates"
  
• About how long do you want your next relationship to last? "A few months to a year"
  
• Choose the better romantic activity: Kissing in Paris or kissing in a tent in the woods? "Kissing in a tent in the woods"
  
• Could you date someone with no long-term goals? "Yes"
  
• In a relationship I like to discuss politics with my partner. "Sure. I'm interested in sharing our beliefs."
  
• Are you better with numbers or words? "Words"
  
• Does it bother you when people say "PIN number" or "ATM machine"? "Why would it?"
  
• How much do other people's opinions of you influence your decisions? "Some"
  
• Do you believe in God? "Yes"
  
• Genital piercings… "Ouch, no thanks"
  
• Do you believe that it is possible for two previously platonic friends to start having casual sex without affecting other aspects of their relationship? "Yes"
  
• How important is voting to you? "Very important"
  
• Have you ever used LiveJournal, Tumblr, or any other blogging site? "No, what's all the hype about?"
  
• Do you prefer slim, average, or full-figured men/women? "Average Men/Women"
  
• What's your relationship with marijuana? "Never"
  
• Are you looking for a partner to have children with? "No"
  
• Do you kiss with your eyes open or closed? "It depends"
  
• If your partner made a lot of noise while enjoying sex, would this be a turn-on or turn-off for you? "Either, depending on how they sound"
  
• Which is worse: starving children or abused animals? "Starving children"
  
• How do you feel about documentaries? "Okay"
  
• How do you feel about women openly displaying tattoos? "I don't mind"
  
• How frequently do you go out of your way to make others feel appreciated? "Way more than average"
  
• In terms of birth order, which are you? "The oldest child"
  
• Once you're intimate, how often would you and your significant other have sex? "Every day"

Much to my relief, Josh and I are not very compatible.

Let me boil some hot water to make some tea and get a big bowl for some popcorn. This is good! :popcorn2:

Poor Anna must be feeling like shit. She can't meet Joshie needs. He wants sex everyday and a gal who likes oral.

[VaSportsMom]

Holy crap. Molesting his sisters, having and using Ashley Madison accounts...never mind the other shoe dropping; just empty the freaking shoe rack already.

I am vacationing in Niagara Falls and Toronto. I was back in my hometown of Chicago when the molestation scandal broke. Therefore, if you all want any other news of bigtime indiscretions/sexual mischief of Josh's to surface, send me on vacation. :mrgreen: I understand Hawaii is beautiful just about any time of year... :lol:

Do you need an accountability chaperone? If so I'm in for Hawaii.