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If he had a sign that said a certain race or religion deserved to be attacked the college would probably see that as a threat. Holding up a sign advocating violence against women should not be protected more than holding up a sign advocating violence against any other groups.

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If he had a sign that said a certain race or religion deserved to be attacked the college would probably see that as a threat. Holding up a sign advocating violence against women should not be protected more than holding up a sign advocating violence against any other groups.

one of the twitter feed pics had serious racist items as well.

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I don't wear anything other than skirts that are calf-length or longer. I don't even own a sleeveless shirt. I look like i'm sharing a closet with the Duggar girls for crying out loud. Guess what?

Guys who are total tools still whistle at me, proposition me and have tried to follow me. I don't even talk to them, much less "ask" them for anything. There are just guys in the world who honestly believe that my body is theirs for the taking.

What you wear has NOTHING to do with it. Burqa or bikini, it just doesn't matter. Rapists are going to rape regardless of what a person is wearing. Because that's what rapists do.

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Perfect question to ensure that he won't get a second date!

What an asshole.

Not only will it ensure there will be no second date, but that he will find his phone number, e-mail, and Facebook accounts are all blocked as soon as the only date is over.

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Seriously... if a woman "asks for it", it would be consensual. Nothing a woman does deserves rape. No one deserves it.

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You should really call the police on him before it gets worse he has assaulted you.

I have no idea who he is. The second time, I recognized the voice, but the car was gone by the time I looked up. The first time, I did call the cops. They showed up 3 hours later, didn't write anything down and left. But not before telling me I should know better than to be out alone in the dark.

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I have no idea who he is. The second time, I recognized the voice, but the car was gone by the time I looked up. The first time, I did call the cops. They showed up 3 hours later, didn't write anything down and left. But not before telling me I should know better than to be out alone in the dark.

I was thinking it happened several times. Too bad. just be careful.

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Buzzfeed has some of his tweets online. http://www.buzzfeed.com/ellievhall/no-s ... -rape-sign?

Its actually quite scary how much of a tool he is. He has a shirt that says "will u submit to me?" with the subtitle "perfect question for the first date." YUCK!

Not the most well-adjusted individual. 10-to-1 he'll be on a sex offender registry at some point.

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"I did not ask to be violently assaulted. I was 15 and trusted someone who turned out to be a sociopathic asshat. I did not fucking ask for anything. Ugh, ugh, UGH! "

At 15 I also was raped by somebody who turned out to be a socipathic asshat. I also became pregnant front that rape, and--guess what-- I was told by nasty Catholic nuns at the time that, yes, I must be lying, because "if you didn't really want it" you couldn't become pregnant.

Fast forward 40 years or so. Home invasion, and the guy who did it raped me. I was 56 years old, overweight and not partying. In my home. Which had bars on the windows and doors. I was not raped because I was so hot, so available, or so stupid. I was raped because a bag of shit--who had me from the neck and made it very clear he could snap it if he wanted to--wanted to rape me. It had ZERO to do with me, and all to do with him.

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I would like to see him try that on my campus. He'd be banned for hate speech in a heartbeat, but not before I got to him. I wouldn't physically hurt him, but let's just say he'd regret the day he decided to slut shame people in a province where no one has to keep their shirt on. People who put their bigoted beliefs on display are just asking to be stumbling-blocked, after all.

I imagine you can't whip your boobs out in Arizona, but there are still a good number of ways people could deal with this guy. Form a crowd around him so no one can see his sign. Stand beside him with a dildo and gently poke him with it until he leaves. Same-sex kiss-in. Stand beside him with signs that say vaguely threatening things like "he deserves castration" and "whatever you do, don't kick this guy's ass". See how many paper vulvas you can stick to his back before he notices. Leave paper vulvas on his car. Rent a giant vulva costume and stand next to him. Block the view of his sign with a giant cardboard cutout of Rick Astley. Tell him you're a witch and start pretending to cast a spell on him. For extra effect, tell him the spell will make him gay. Have a bunch of guys wear mini skirts and dance seductively around him. Tell him you'll donate 5$ to an abortion fund for every hour he stands there. Stand next to him and clip your nails. Stand in front of him and pick your nose. Stand next to him and have a loud phone conversation about vibrators. Stand next to him and inflate condoms. Bring a stereo and blast sexual songs such as "I touch myself." Put panties on the ground in a circle around him. The list is endless.

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There is something I would love to say about that evil son of bitch and his sign, but I won't. It's wrong to think such things, and it would make me no better than him. So, I'm just gonna watch a slideshow of my kitty :animals-cat:, turn on some Harry Connick, Jr., :music-listening: and pray for forgiveness for having such thoughts. :pray:

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This guy makes me so stabby I can't see straight. His sign and his tweets are so hateful, so bigoted, so misogynistic and racist he must be the offspring of the Non-Thinking Housewife.

I hope future employers are taking a look at this vile douchebag's vile screeds. But then again, he'll probably get hired by some extreme right-wing think tank or Todd "Legitimate Rape" Akin.

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Reductio ad absurdum: Women exist, therefore they deserve to be raped.

Hate, hate, HATE!

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After I first read this thread, I was so revolted I couldn't post a reply. His gloating twitter comments add a new layer, since they make it obvious that it's not only women who dress provocatively that he hates and blames, it's all women. All women are whores and sluts. Except the fundie virgins who will submit to his vileness, I guess.

Then there's the racist comment. I wonder if the college would have been all "free speechy" if he'd held a sign saying "You deserve lynching".

So this creep ruined my night. Then today I read what Patton Oswalt said after the bombing in Boston:

"So when you spot violence, or bigotry, or intolerance or fear or just garden-variety misogyny, hatred or ignorance, just look it in the eye and think, 'The good outnumber you, and we always win.'"

Made me feel a little better.

But I still want to hold a sign next to this guy that says: Dean Saxton Deserves an Eternity in Hell.

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I read the article and straight-up brayed laughter when I read the first two words of this Brother Jed quote:

“Lusty hussies think that they can flaunt their stuff in the face of the public without consequences,†he concluded. “Brother Dean audaciously stated the obvious, ‘The Emperor has no clothes!’ Consequently, all Hell has been stirred up against him.â€
Can we add Lusty Hussy as a User Title? It's perfect for all of us flaunting our stuff in public and all. :obscene-buttsway: :mrgreen:

To Brother Jed and Dean Saxton: Eat shit.

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FUCK HIM.

I walk everywhere. Therefore, I get harassed* a lot. In the winter, when I'm wearing 6 layers and look like that kid from The Christmas Story ("I can't put my arms down!"). When I'm walking my dog in loose, casual clothing that hides my shape. When I'm dressed for work at a law office. At 6 am. At noon. At night. In good neighborhoods, downtown, at Walmart.

It does not matter what I wear or don't wear, what time of day, amount of sunlight, activity or location. The only thing I "do" to incite sexual harassment is be female in public. That's it. That's really all it takes.

*One guy repeatedly asked me "how much for a blow job?" in January while I was walking my dog one block from my house at 5 pm. I ignored him. That enraged him so much he spat on me. He recently saw me again and shouted "fuck you, whore!" and threw a half full can of beer at me from a moving car.

Being a woman in public is a scary thing.

SAME HERE. A few years ago, I was renting a room in a not-so-great part of town to save money (I'm a grad student, aka poor). I got harassed on the daily. The scariest example was when I was walking to the bus, wearing flats, thick black tights, a long black dress, and a red cape jacket. Yes, I have a pretty face, I guess I could have veiled myself. :roll: A guy slowed down and started catcalling, and I when I refused to acknowledge or engage with him, he told me that I deserved to be raped. I was HORRIFIED because I didn't know if this guy lived in my neighborhood and whether he would actually come back and rape me some night when I was walking home.

So, I tried to get out of my lease. I told my (female) landlord that I felt unsafe and that I would try to find a replacement for my room. She said that was fine, but a few weeks later, she got really mad at me when I told a potential (female) replacement that she should not walk around the neighborhood at night. I felt like I couldn't NOT tell her that, but my landlord was livid that I was sabotaging the replacement renter (even though I would have never just moved out and left her hanging, I just thought it was best to be honest and that maybe it would be better if a guy lived there instead). She told me a bunch of bullshit, basically insinuating that I might have somehow brought on the rape threat by what I was wearing of signals I was sending out. When I told her how inappropriate that was, she told me a whole long story about HER rape experience, which made me even more confused because WHY DIDN"T SHE GET IT THEN? (BTW, this all happened over email.)

Anyway, the whole thing was a clusterfuck of crazy. I never did find a replacement and lived there until the end of my lease. I ended up spending on taxis what I would have spent on rent for a nicer place because I was afraid to walk home from the bus after dark.

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This guy is a follower of the famous Brother Jed.

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Ah. I'm a UW Madisononian, and Jed is one of my alums.

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Buzzfeed has some of his tweets online. http://www.buzzfeed.com/ellievhall/no-s ... -rape-sign?

Its actually quite scary how much of a tool he is. He has a shirt that says "will u submit to me?" with the subtitle "perfect question for the first date." YUCK!

I love how he holds up a sign, "Mormonism is Not Christian" and then refers to a Scripture from ISAIAH!!!!

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I had to go back and take a further look and read this lovely excerpt from his testimony about the day he went to speak (in Christian love, of course) about ... well, you know.

But it's not just Greek life, it's the porn freak's, and the masturbating community on campus.

There's a masturbating community on that campus? I wonder what their yearbook picture looks like....

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Lusty Hussy

Say that five times fast. It's a fundie tongue twister.

The masturbating community

Erm. Hate to be their janitor.

:chores-mop:

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