Spanking teenagers?

[ILoveJellybeans]

mommyish.com/2014/07/15/spanking-a-teenager-for-breaking-curfew/

EEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW that was creepily sexual.

This is the post they were talking about.

My daughters are 16 and 18. The 16 year old has curfew times and the 18 year old does not. My husband and myself expected to be staying in a hotel overnight but we came back early as I was feeling a bit unwell. Our daughters went out together and came back in 90 minutes after the younger ones curfew time.

The next morning I decided that my younger daughter was going to get a bare bottom spanking and she did take her skirt off and put herself over my knee and took her punishment. I took her knickers down. It consisted of 32 smacks ( double her age ). To my surprise my older daughter then removed her skirt and placed herself over my knee and I gave her 36 smacks after taking her knickers down. I did think my older daughter needed punishment as she was the one who organised the night and I was pleased she took it without being forced.

I need brainbleach, lots of it.

I wonder what age fundies stop spanking their kids? With all the young adult (and older) SAHD's, who are pretty much considered children and in need of discipline and constant supervision, I wonder if any of them are still getting spanked. I imagine there is a bit of a double standard with boys and girls over this-I can imagine a fundie parent spanking their teenage daughter, but not their son, mainly because the average teenage boy is not far off being the same size as their dad and taller than their mom.

Do the Pearls or ATI/VF have any guidelines on when you should stop spanking kids?

[doggie]

was it mom or dad doing the spanking? would be past creepy if it was dad.

[Mama Mia]

I think the odds of that being a real post about a real situation are about a million to one. I think it's far more likely it was written by some creeper typing with one hand.

[DGayle]

This reads like incest porn. 32 slaps to a bare butt? That's what you expect in a BDSM porn video.

When I was a kid, spanking was outright common, and unlike today, people didn't hide it because society didn't call it abusive even while the overwhelming majority of parents participated. It still was NOT seen as okay to spank a bare bottom, and teenagers? Sexual.

[apple1]

Even Gary Ezzo opposes spanking teens.

[Trynn]

I knew a family once who kept hreatening to Spank heir 12 year old. When I asked he mother if she ever actually did, she replied no, because said daughter knows she means it and will start obeying when she threatens Togo for the spoon.

Was she 12? She might've been 10, but either way it was definitely he age at which most parents consider a kid too old to be spanked.

I was not surprised to learn that this girls younger sister eventually tarted cutting. Not surprised a all.

[It'sFunToRun]

I think the duggars stop at age twelve at latest based on something I read saying they would finish training their kids at age twelve. They might stop before but I can't imagine actually spanking after, even though I could imagine a pinch on the hand or an arm twist if the parents lose their tempers.

[Hane]

This reads like incest porn. 32 slaps to a bare butt? That's what you expect in a BDSM porn video.

Yup--spanko-incest-porn. It's a thing. A gross thing. People get off on writing stuff like this and seeing it in print/online. (runs off for the brain bleach)

[Jana814]

I don't agree w/ spanking & doing it to a teenager is just wrong!!

[laura oz]

The hell? I honestly feel icky and uncomfortable now. The hell is wrong with people? smdh

[Marianne]

This is so sexual... :pink-shock:

[Hane]

If it cheers anybody up, I can pretty much guarantee that this icky incident never happened. Some kinko just put it out on the net to get his rocks off.

[polecat]

http://www.mommyish.com/2014/07/15/spanking-a-teenager-for-breaking-curfew/

EEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW that was creepily sexual.

This is the post they were talking about.

My daughters are 16 and 18. The 16 year old has curfew times and the 18 year old does not. My husband and myself expected to be staying in a hotel overnight but we came back early as I was feeling a bit unwell. Our daughters went out together and came back in 90 minutes after the younger ones curfew time.

The next morning I decided that my younger daughter was going to get a bare bottom spanking and she did take her skirt off and put herself over my knee and took her punishment. I took her knickers down. It consisted of 32 smacks ( double her age ). To my surprise my older daughter then removed her skirt and placed herself over my knee and I gave her 36 smacks after taking her knickers down. I did think my older daughter needed punishment as she was the one who organised the night and I was pleased she took it without being forced.

I need brainbleach, lots of it.

I wonder what age fundies stop spanking their kids? With all the young adult (and older) SAHD's, who are pretty much considered children and in need of discipline and constant supervision, I wonder if any of them are still getting spanked. I imagine there is a bit of a double standard with boys and girls over this-I can imagine a fundie parent spanking their teenage daughter, but not their son, mainly because the average teenage boy is not far off being the same size as their dad and taller than their mom.

Do the Pearls or ATI/VF have any guidelines on when you should stop spanking kids?

I got my last actual spanking at 16 (clothed, thank god).

This, however, strikes me as someone's pervy fantasy. Bare-bottomed spankings are common to a point in fundy-dom, but they usually end before the kid is in double digits. Plus there's the graphic details re: skirts and undies, which just seem overdone.

[DGayle]

If it cheers anybody up, I can pretty much guarantee that this icky incident never happened. Some kinko just put it out on the net to get his rocks off.

That's what I'm thinking based on the 18-year-old supposedly asking to be spanked too. If it's not a fantasy, then this is a parent who sexually abused the kids into thinking this is normal.

[wayward]

What’s ironic is that adult kink forums might be less likely to tolerate posts like that than fundy parenting boards. I wonder if that could why one-handed typists sometimes show up on parenting sites and post that kind of crap.

[littleblueheathen]

That's just sick. My mother was of the spanking school,a tad bit too enthusiastically so, but even she never went in for the bare bottom variety, preferring to use a belt to punish me for largely made-up infractions when my father was out of town on business. The last time she attempted to spank me, I was 16, with a 9pm curfew. My dad was out of town that night, and I came in 10 or 15 minutes late. She was waiting for me with the belt and started thrashing at me and landed several blows before I relieved her of her weapon and gave her a good taste of her own medicine. The next morning at breakfast my father was there, listening to how she had waited up for me all night and I had come dragging in drunk at 4am. She was quite pleased with herself and my dad let her finish her tale before telling her he had decided to leave early, gotten home around eleven and gone to bed in the guest room after looking in on both of us. The look on her face was priceless when she showed him the stripes on her legs and he told her that she had earned them. She never forgave him for taking my side, and made his life a living hell until her death.

[Toothfairy]

I would whoop my kids ass if they got out of control. But I think spanking an 18 yo and 12 yo with spanks double their age is just shocking.

[It'sFunToRun]

That's what I'm thinking based on the 18-year-old supposedly asking to be spanked too. If it's not a fantasy, then this is a parent who sexually abused the kids into thinking this is normal.

If the sisters are really close, it would make sense to me. The exact same punishment is always less traumatic when you get it along with a group, the bigger the group the better, but two is better than one. For example, imagine a boss or drill sergeant yelling at a group of fifty vs five vs one person that they are incompetent, then forcing them to do the same task over and over in front of him or her. In the group of fifty everyone rolls their eyes and says "boss is angry again, what a prick" but no one gets their feelings hurt. Happened to me a lot.

Also since the older one supposedly planned it, by getting punished too, her sister would barely be mad at her, or not mad at all, so staying friends would be worth being punished by a sicko parent.

All this is theoretical, because I am 99% sure the story is made up.