When we sacrifice a girls innocence

[Aurora rising]

I love this article. He really nailed it. Thanks. :clap:

http://natepyle.com/when-we-sacrifice-a-girls-innocence/#sthash.UYmNxPzq.dpbs

[Flossie]

Yes, he did. He flat out said that women shouldn't be blamed for being attractive to men, and they shouldn't have to cover up to avoid drawing a man's attention.

He said that men should learn to control themselves and stop blaming women for being women.

[Coco]

You won’t be able to control every situation. There may be a time you end up in a room by yourself with a woman. Since you can’t control every situation, control what you can. Your mind. The only thing any of us can be responsible for is ourselves... Everyone knows that objectification of women by men is a problem. But simply avoiding women doesn’t solve the problem. It actually does just the opposite by reinforcing the objectification and implying that men cannot ever see women as humans, and therefore must avoid them like a dangerous object.

Amen. Besides, modesty is about demeanor too. We can train our daughters to be modest without making them feel dirty or bad.

About controlling the mind, when i'm alone with a really attractive guy i just imagine him with his family at Thanksgiving or Christmas :lol: