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like therapy without leaving my house...


HerNameIsBuffy

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Here's a something not everyone knows...

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So...

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Why?

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That's very deep.  Why else?

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i mean...

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so ...

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I know I sound hard to like and maybe I am but...

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look...people im passive aggressively snarking at ....

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Also...

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and I know my making a run for the exit right now is complicating things but..

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@HerNameIsBuffy, this is so true for me and my eldest brother.  You have described the final end of our relationship so incredibly well.  It really hurt for a long time, but cutting him off was best for both my family and I.  

My father said it less eloquently than you - sometimes you give and give and give but you just get shat on one too many times.

 

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Destiny

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You DO deserve so much better B. Things will work out. <3

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    • MamaJunebug

      Posted

      5 hours ago, Blue said:

      Wait, she ACTUALLY said that? 

      Because for YEARS our family and friends insisted that the whole "prophet" thing was something made up by outsiders to make them look like a cult, and that even if some people thought she was a prophet, it certainly was not the majority of the congregation (don't look at or listen to the testimonies that say "prophet" on a loop... 🙄).

      It’s late in the day for me but yep, I’m 99.99% sure that’s what I heard. Liz says “prophet” but then corrects herself. HetselfESS ;) 

    • Jackie3

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      53 minutes ago, Natalie22 said:

      Brenda stopped all publicity and worked to focus on her children's wellbeing, including fully cooperating with law enforcement.

      I think you could argue that she didn't focus on their wellbeing until people were watching to see if she was focused on their wellbeing.

      While Toby seems like a scary dude, there was no evidence that he abused his wife. No evidence Josh did either. I mean, it wouldn't surprise me if Toby did, but there's never been any evidence of it (there is evidence he hit his kids, though). 

      I also think that if you walk into a police station and tell them your husband is raping his daughters, that man will be arrested and is no longer a threat. The children's honesty could easily be confirmed by a doctor.

      Honestly, if my daughter told me something like that, I'd pack up the kids and move to a hotel so my child wouldn't have to have one more night under the roof of her rapist. If I couldn't pay the hotel bill, oh well. Better than my kid being harmed. 

      Since Brenda had over ten years of denial, I think one can excuse Anna's denial, since she only learned of the CSA charge a couple of years ago. Even if you include the earlier scandal, it hasn't been 10 years. 

      I honestly think if (God forbid) one of Anna's daughters were being sexually assaulted by Josh, she would protect that child.

       

      3 hours ago, AprilQuilt said:

      Jessica tried to tell her when she was 9 years old, but apparently was unable to articulate exactly what her father was doing to her (and surely this is the perfect example of why children need to be given the vocabulary to talk about their own bodies, and not be ashamed to do so).

      Exactly. However, any mother who hears "Dad got into my bed while I was sleeping and took off his pajamas." is going to ask more questions. Brenda was a grown woman and knew what that could mean. Very few young children have the correct language, yet pedophiles are caught and convicted.

       

    • FrumperedCat

      Posted

      I believe there was some talk on here several threads ago suggesting Erin Shamblin, Michael's wife, was someone of high regard for taking a senior role in leadership at minimum upon Gwen stepping down / passing on. Interesting regardless that she seems, based on comments, to be having no prominent role now.

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    • QuiverFullofBooks

      Posted

      Wasn’t the scammer who set up a fake registry for an earlier Duggar wedding also in Florida? Not sure if it could be the same person.

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    • Blue

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      3 hours ago, finacial ice said:

       

      no all members believed she was a true prophet, including herself.

      Oh I know, but when we looked we struggled to find "official" statements on it... They even challenged us to find a video or writing of her calling herself a prophet. 

      In the end we found SO MANY instances that, IMHO, we had proof that it was a widespread belief, but they seem to be careful with what they post and write publicly.

      Then they tried to turn it around and redefine "prophet," at which point I was just exhausted.

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