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Help Interpreting Dreams?

HerNameIsBuffy

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The last 3 nights I've had 3 separate dreams.  Nothing remarkably good or bad, just moderate surreal to normal stuff.  But in each there was one man.

I didn't see his face.  In the context of each dream we were together in a long term relationship.  I loved him and felt he loved me in that settled and secure ltr way.

In each dream there was softcore erotic activity, think Cinemax.  Each time I thought the same thing, this is pleasant...I don't mind this.  It wasn't that I was putting up with sex, but I didn't crave it either...it was fine.  As far as it went it was certainly adequate.

I never knew his name, nor did I see his face.  But from the more intimate parts of him I did see in the dream he's not a past partner.  I didn't see anything I recognized.

I'm not seeing anyone.  There is no one he reminded me of, no one I've been thinking about.

So who is this guy?  And if I'm going to have sex dreams why can't it be better than merely pleasant.  

My subconscious is letting me down ... but it's trying to tell me something.  But what?

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Maggie Mae

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It's telling you that the next section of Flowers in the Attic are about Cathy's dreams, and you are very excited for my next chapter! 😂🤣

Seriously, though, was it the same guy in all three dreams? 

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HerNameIsBuffy

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6 minutes ago, Maggie Mae said:

It's telling you that the next section of Flowers in the Attic are about Cathy's dreams, and you are very excited for my next chapter! 😂🤣

Seriously, though, was it the same guy in all three dreams? 

Yep - same guy.  

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Maggie Mae

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11 minutes ago, HerNameIsBuffy said:

Yep - same guy.  

Maybe you are going to soon meet a very boring fella. 

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HerNameIsBuffy

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7 minutes ago, Maggie Mae said:

Maybe you are going to soon meet a very boring fella. 

Well, since the only part of him I'd recognize isn't visible in pants I won't know when I meet him.  will save us both a lot of misery.

 

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AnnaSofia

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Sometimes elements in our dreams are stand-ins for something going on in our waking life (like job/school/home/social life/etc.). The dreams could be about deciding whether you're getting adequate fulfillment (and making peace with the idea of keeping things as they are), or if you need to make a change.

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Cartmann99

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I agree with @AnnaSofia. When I interpret my own dreams, I always focus on the emotions that were brought up in the dream and then think about where I'm feeling those same emotions in my waking life. 

 

 

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Lisafer

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Also agree with @AnnaSofia. Are you perhaps feeling a dissatisfaction with some aspect of your life? Something that is not bad, but could be better? 

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HerNameIsBuffy

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Thanks everyone - it hasn't happened since.

Actually the only thing I'm fine with like that is being single.  I'm truly fine with it but at times I miss some things about a relationship.  Everything else in my life is pretty much shitting the bed except my family which is great.  

I have been looking inward though, and it spooked me a bit.

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