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Learning to Ask For Help


clueliss

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I was raised to be independent.  I will tell you oftentimes I am independent to a fault.  I hate being a bother.  I don't like asking for help.  I want to do it on my own.  

So I sometimes have to make myself ask for help.  Or remind myself of limitations.  Or accept limitations.  

i'm not there yet, not 100%.  Nope.  I'll probably fight it to my dying breath.  Heck, I can see it in my own mother even in her state of dementia.  

So with my recent acceptance of foot and ankle issues (meaning I got tired of hurting and at long last hauled myself to a doctor (podiatrist).  Doc put me in a boot for 2 weeks.  I talked my way on Wednesday into an ankle brace - mainly because a) I hate answering questions (Oh, what did you do to your foot) and b ) I loathe wearing shoes at home.  Ever.  And with the boot I had to have the right foot in a shoe.  But then a need to be out in the plant - manufacturing environment with lots of equipment and lots of ground to cover and the warehouse and fork trucks and - well you get the idea.  And for a  change I delegated (which needs a better term here because in this case I didn't move it down I moved it up) to my boss.  I asked him to take care of it (I need to do this more often with scrapping requests - he loves getting out there and seeing stuff).  He is happily taking care of that right now.  And I am at my desk, ankle in a brace and accepting that in this instance i shouldn't be limping all over town with a bum ankle/foot.  

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