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Truly, Lawfully, Evilly Yours

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Loveday

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This story is making the rounds of all the genealogy pages on FB this week. Some people are panicking, others are saying it's nothing, it's just info you can find anywhere online. My problem with it is that, unlike Ancestry or FamilySearch, it links living people to your name. Not to mention all the places you've lived for the past thirty years or more. Yes, that's all available somewhere online, but not generally all in one spot. And genealogy sites tend to be pretty careful about publicly showing living people. Except for the living people on your own tree on Ancestry, for example, you can't see any other tree's living members, they just show up as 'private.' You have to get permission from that tree's owner to see those people. 

There's an opt-out feature on this thing; I used it, and seem to have disappeared from the site, for now, at least. They're going to have to change the way they do things if they want to be a viable, useful genealogy site.

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nausicaa

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As a woman who is single, lives alone, and is dating, I am terrified that they list my address. I rent and therefore could typically keep my address under wraps pretty easily until now. I went on the site and opted out. 

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clueliss

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I heard about this through a group I belong to that involves writing about public safety (police, fire, etc) and there was much concern about them that people could find out the contact information for those type of folks.  

http://www.familytreenow.com/optout

That is the link to their opt out page.  I just opted myself out (and Mom, hers isn't up to date but I'm taking it off anyway)

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WhatWouldJohnCrichtonDo?

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Thanks for posting this, @lawfulevil. :) And thanks for posting the direct link for opting out, @clueliss. :) I just opted out. I wasn't surprised to see my info, but it was much more accurate and detailed than "white pages" type listings I've found of myself.

Ha! A bunch of those "white pages" list me with my mom's birthday. That explains all the calls and mailings I get for hearing aids, medic alert systems, retirement centers, and home delivery of my Medicare approved medical supplies. :pb_rollseyes: By the time I'm old enough to qualify for Medicare (if it still exists), I'm going to be so cranky about all the stupid marketing and all-out fraud that is aimed at seniors. It's so debasing and cynical.

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clueliss

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I made sure to opt out my mom even though that was out of date post move to nursing home because her mail comes to me.  

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    • Red Hair, Black Dress

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      I think she unenthusiastically said yes to the first man Scotty Brown (not/never father of the year) convinced/ coerced to take her and the 6 step kids.

      Hope she is happy, but intuition tells me no, and that she believes the unhappiness is normal married life.

      Really really really hope she wasn't "convicted" to have more children.

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    • JermajestyDuggar

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      20 hours ago, zimona said:

      Childless semi-old catlady here. I don't hate kids. I hate parents who don't bother to teach their kids (age apropriate, of course) about boundaries. I'm quite happy to let kids be kids. But if they start to actively pester me and intrude on me (like trying to drink from MY lemonade in a Café, or wiping their chocolate covered fingers on my backpack during train rides...) then I will speak up and tell them to stop, and I'm fully aware that to the innocent bystander I might come across as 'hating' kids, especially since I might be a bit worked up at that point. I'm not blaming the kids, they don't know better. I'm blaming those parents who shy away from putting a brake on their kids' (sometimes) too exuberant behaviour. 

      What’s funny is I often say this about dogs! 🤣🤣🤣 Every time I find myself hating a dog, I realize I just hate how horrible the owner is. It’s always someone who lets their dog get away with the most horrific behavior at the expense of other people. 

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    • 4boysmum

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      I have a bunch of kids and as much as I love them they also drive me nuts.  They can be loud and messy.  The younger ones are still figuring out where their personal space ends and other people's (mostly mine!) begins.  But I can't ever imagine them doing something like drinking someone else's lemonade.  And if they ever took leave of their senses long enough to try, I would deal with it ASAP and also buy you another lemonade.

      My kids are my responsibility and if they act up in public it's my job to correct them or take them somewhere else so they aren't disturbing others.  

      But I have also occasionally come across people who do seem to resent children being present in public at all.  Don't think they should be brought to restaurants, etc.  I couldn't say what percentage of the childfree population feels that way, but people like that do exist.  And I think it's a shame because (a) how do you teach kids to behave in places like restaurants if you don't take them to practice, and (b) if I've put in the work to teach my kids how to behave in various places and they are not being disruptive, they really do have just as much right to be there as any other segment of the population.

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    • CarrotCake

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      It makes me wonder: would these modesty-fundies be okay with swimwear on girls-only trips?

      In this case it is filmed and published so the same standards as public places would apply but what if it was a private moment between friends and family?

      For instance, Muslim women do not dress with the same modesty standards in the private of their household.

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    • EmiSue

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      3 hours ago, CarrotCake said:

      There is also a toy rabbit with a pink ribbon in the picture.

      Either they use it to honor Isla or it’s an announcement for a girl. 

      My guess is to honor Isla, since she'd be a few months old now if she made it, but could be both.

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