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Where do I put this fear and sadness.


onekidanddone

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Really I don't know.  Just don't know. I'm Jewish.  My daughter, brother-in-law, two nieces, many of my cousins and extended family are people of color. Where is this madness going? Where will it end? I've been listening to music songs which make me cry. Why you ask?  Because I need it as a cathartic release. Crying my eyes out right now to 

 

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Nikedagain?

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It's overwhelming right now.

I am so angry. SO ANGRY.

Last night "protestors" pulled down a confederate statue here and even though we are this little progressive haven in the midst of all this red hate, all the crazies have come out today.

I wish I had words of wisdom. I'm sorry.

This has definitely been one of the worst days since 11/9. 

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Beermeet

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All of this is disheartening,  sad, scary, embarrassing, horrifying......  so many sleepless nights.  I feel like my shirts should say " I'm not a trump loving racist asshole, and you?".  I don't know where to put it either.  I'm having a hard time in personal family matters the last two years.  Under President Obama, I didn't have this extra backwards racist running my beautiful country into the depths of a hell I don't believe in thing though.  With 45?  I have so much worry and fear for my fellow humans as well as everyday personal worries.  Like we all do.

Idk.  I'm rambling.  And it truly is 45's fault.  FN nazi love, really???!!!

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