Look, Lori, just because you were apparently incapable of grabbing important items and leaving in natural disaster doesn't mean the majority of women would sit in their homes burning to death without a man. What do you think most women who husbands are frequently gone on business or with sick family or in the military do? Sit at home unable to deal with issues or problems because their spouse isn't there? My soon-to-be husband's father is not well, so there are periods where he's probably going to have to be overseas with his ill dad and I have to be here. What am I supposed to do while he's overseas? Have a breakdown because I can't cope if there's a water leak or other issue while he's thousands of miles away?
*His job allows him to work remotely so he can travel easily for long periods and it's not an issue. Mine doesn't and I cannot just leave on a whim unless it was really serious. I know, doing it wrong because I'm an evil Jezebel working woman. Shouldn't be working and magically would fix all issues somehow. Of course, I'm a college-educated atheist in what would be a "mixed race" marriage so you know her and her racist commenters think I belong in the pits of hell anyway.