Webster4Eva 12: It's Webster5Eva Now!

[Jackie3]

7 hours ago, Tangy Bee said:

Is John the type that wouldn't mind getting the "snip"? If Alyssa has been too ill to care for her family, then that means he has been having to step it up a bit. All girls are still too young to bathe thoroughly and this is my personal opinion. Hopefully Alyssa has easily prepped meals or Webster relatives helping out until next baby is born.

Allie turns 8 soon and has probably been showering independently for a while. Do you really think John is helping her in the bath or shower? 

It's likely that 6-year old Lexi can manage to clean herself in the shower as well.

 

5 hours ago, Tangy Bee said:

@LanaBananaare you serious?!? That fart went skiing and left a sick, pregnant wife home? Of course Alyssa probably didn't mind because he is the head of the household, pays the bills, & is an excellent provider, etc. Guess he deserved a break 🙄

Why is John considered an excellent provider? I mean, he has a job, but it probably pays around $50,000. 

Sorry, but $50,000 for a family of almost 7 people? Hardly an "excellent provider."

[WatchingTheTireFireBurn]

5 hours ago, JermajestyDuggar said:

He went skiing with ALYSSA’s family. Not even his own family! He’s one of my least favorite Bates husbands. And let’s remember Evan’s hat when I say that. 

Evan's hat is very annoying. But it's not a competition. We can hate equally across the board.

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[GuineaPigCourtship]

I ultrasounded myself (externally) at work several times.  I'm not a neonatal specialist or anything, but I could find the heartbeat and then the head/body/limbs with it as she grew.  My husband was not allowed at any of my appointments due to covid so he wouldn't have been able to see her at all until birth (and we weren't sure if he'd be allowed in for that at some points).  I remember reading that excessive ultrasounds were frowned upon because they might be bad for the baby but I couldn't find any evidence to back that up at the time.  I figured 5 minutes once a month or so wouldn't hurt.

[Keys]

Wow, going on a ski trip alone with your wife’s family while leaving her at home very pregnant, sick, and caring for 4 kids (presumably) without help is a *really* POS thing to do. That would not be okay with me. I don’t know how Alyssa isn’t resentment central against him. 

[TaraJade7]

On 2/20/2023 at 4:45 PM, Mrs Ms said:

What really gets me, is that up until Alyssa became pregnant with the holy penis, John was such an outwardly proud girl-dad (for a fundie) Heck, it was even his Instagram tag/blurb thingy before Alyssa took over his account. Plus he and Alyssa have always seemed incredibly well suited.

To see all the fundie leaking out so bad is so sad.

"Holy penis" made me chuckle!  It is a suiting term, as they act like this pregnancy is the #1 end all, be all.  I know they're excited to finally be having a boy after four girls in a row.  But they have just been OTT about everything to do with this new male pregnancy.  I can't help but wonder how this is going to play out.  Will he get his way with Alyssa versus her strict upbringing of the girls?  If I was one of those little girls I'd be happy about getting a baby brother but would almost feel weird in a way noticing all the attention it has gotten and will get.  You are right about John being vocal about how happy of a "girl dad" he really is.  I mean they had nice gender reveals, showers, etc.  for the girls, but they've really knocked it out of the park in regards to baby boy coming soon.  You could just see how Alyssa was beaming over this news (gender reveal).  I'm not trying to be a "debbie downer" but I can't help but see how the girls could be taking this.  

On 2/28/2023 at 8:06 PM, JermajestyDuggar said:

I really really hope that never happens in a fundie family. Because they will handle it very poorly.

 

[JermajestyDuggar]

Ok since this thread has talked a lot about penis worship and the holy penis, I have to post this pic I just saw on Instagram. The Collingsworths are like fundie royalty. So when I saw this birthday cake, I was like, “are those penises on that cake?!”

[Fundielandobserver]

14 hours ago, Keys said:

Wow, going on a ski trip alone with your wife’s family while leaving her at home very pregnant, sick, and caring for 4 kids (presumably) without help is a *really* POS thing to do. That would not be okay with me. I don’t know how Alyssa isn’t resentment central against him. 

I also wonder that does Alyssa even realize how useless he is or she doesnt or has accepted the fact ! Zach and Whitney took the kids to legoland and vacations and are genunly happy but Websters wouldnt be able to without Addie/Ellie or a nanny( DC trip)

[AussieKrissy]

On 3/13/2023 at 6:15 AM, Tangy Bee said:

@LanaBananaare you serious?!? That fart went skiing and left a sick, pregnant wife home? Of course Alyssa probably didn't mind because he is the head of the household, pays the bills, & is an excellent provider, etc. Guess he deserved a break 🙄

But does he sweep crumbs? 

[gobucks]

No baby yet according to YouTube. KJ and Ellie stayed after Jackson's engagement and are on baby watch. Ellie and (Addee, flying in soon) will watch the kids while she is in the hospital. 

[Sk8ter]

1 hour ago, gobucks said:

No baby yet according to YouTube. KJ and Ellie stayed after Jackson's engagement and are on baby watch. Ellie and (Addee, flying in soon) will watch the kids while she is in the hospital. 

Is Addee flying alone? The horror! 

[JDuggs]

And this is when the Clarks chose to visit TN, when Kelly, Addee and Ellie won’t even be there.

[Mrs Ms]

3 hours ago, JDuggs said:

And this is when the Clarks chose to visit TN, when Kelly, Addee and Ellie won’t even be there.

When missing your two sisters that would probably do the most helping with your baby is worth it to miss your mother… Mother/Grandmother of the year Kelly!

[CanadianMamam]

Kelly is advertised to be at BSB today, so I wonder if she was flying back last night and hanging out in Tennessee and then flying out with Addee. 

[SassyPants]

Isn’t Alyssa in labor? I saw a photo on Reddit with AW in a hospital bed with IV fluids and a pump used for epidurals. I wouldn’t be surprised if RAW has already been born.

[justmy2cents]

From Alyssa’s instagram story from 2 hrs ago, she is in labor and Kelly is in the hospital room with her and John. 

[AussieKrissy]

Is Alyssa on time? Or early? Thes fundie pregnancies are so frequent and go so fast (well except Jill duggars first…) that I loose track. 

[CanadianMamam]

29 minutes ago, AussieKrissy said:

Is Alyssa on time? Or early? Thes fundie pregnancies are so frequent and go so fast (well except Jill duggars first…) that I loose track. 

Early. She was due April 4th. But the Bates girls always go early. 

I am glad she avoided Lexie's birthday.

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[Jackie3]

9 minutes ago, CanadianMamam said:

Early. She was due April 4th. But the Bates girls always go early. 

I am glad she avoided Lexie's birthday.

I thought Lexi had a birthday in January?

[BullyJBG]

46 minutes ago, CanadianMamam said:

Early. She was due April 4th. But the Bates girls always go early. 

I am glad she avoided Lexie's birthday.

Actually it would be Allie, whose birthday is in April. I think the same day as Carlin? And also avoiding sharing a birthday with Zoe, whose birthday is on March 28. Eeek; she's exactly 2 years younger than my nephew.......

[CanadianMamam]

1 hour ago, BullyJBG said:

Actually it would be Allie, whose birthday is in April. I think the same day as Carlin? And also avoiding sharing a birthday with Zoe, whose birthday is on March 28. Eeek; she's exactly 2 years younger than my nephew.......

I mean Zoe. I always mix Lexie and Zoey up.  I figured she wasn't going to go a week late, so I figured Allie was safe. 

And yes, Allie and Carlin share a birthday and Lydia is the day before them.

[JDuggs]

Poor Alyssa. No one on FJ cares enough to mention the birth of her newest blessing.

[marmalade]

The Golden Penis was born at 7:03 pm. No stats given in her IG post.

Kelly was probably outta there after the photo op, 9 at the latest. 

[Dbm]

Praying for the girls, I wouldn't want to live at that house after the golden boy is born, they will probably be treated as second class citizens from now on ... 

[EmiSue]

7 hours ago, JDuggs said:

Poor Alyssa. No one on FJ cares enough to mention the birth of her newest blessing.

She revealed the gender and name already--what else is there to mention?

[JermajestyDuggar]

10 minutes ago, EmiSue said:

She revealed the gender and name already--what else is there to mention?

It’s funny how so many of these births are of little consequence. There are so many I can’t imagine Kelly or Gil being that excited about it. There was already a grandchild born a month ago. There will be another in August and then one in September. I bet one more (Tori) will have one by the end of 2023. It’s ridiculous.