Lori Alexander 77: Back in Door County Again

[Fallgirl30]

I went on her blog to read the entry inspired by Trey.  The message is that if the woman is withholding sex, she is in grievous sin, period.  If the man withholds sex, the woman should think about the following-is she fat?  Let herself go?  Does he maybe have low T?  She needs to be more understanding.   The Bible makes it very clear-Sex is mutual submission.  How they try to get around this is disgusting.

[Fallgirl30]

On 11/14/2020 at 10:20 AM, Red Hair, Black Dress said:

Is is just me or does anyone else think that Our Friend Flicka is ........ how shall I put this nicely...... a fabulist (or as I prefer a crazy liar)?

Her stories of her life and her farm are just... completely unbelievable.  She writes of this pioneer life she lead as if she lived in the 19th c. -- hauling water, no electricity, washing clothes in a tub with a washboard, raising all her food. She's Lori's age, that is not even 60 yet. Her wonderful farm stories are so much the ideal gauzy romantic picture of farm life.

Then there are all the men who have been after her since her husband died -- and all of them came to a bad end. Because ... uh... I guess Our Friend Flicka is so godly and God was punishing these men for .. uh... being interested in Flicka or something?

And now today on Lori's FB her comments give us more details of this wonderful adventurous, life and let us know she was a housekeeper for a "United States Ambassador Diplomat" in Michigan.    Um ... Flicka ... dear..  there is no such specific job title as "United States Ambassador Diplomat." And how would this "United States Ambassador Diplomat" be doing this in Michigan and not overseas?

Seriously you all -- I don't believe a single word she writes.  Read her posts.  She. Is. Not. On. The. Planet.  She reminds me of Lady Lydia.

She also said she put a sign in her window saying ‘no visitors’ so the neighborhood ladies wouldn’t come round and gossip.  My friend Flicka was too busy gathering eggs, learning how to can and shear sheep.

[KDA]

Who is Flicka? I haven't seen her on the blog. Is she on facebook?

[Sarah92]

On one of her posts people are asking what women will do if violence erupts. And really I think the question should be why is there violence in the first place in this dumb scenario? Most likely men are going to be the ones starting violence as historically it’s been the case. So that doesn’t really present a great argument for respecting men more. 

[Caroline]

Maybe Flicka is Lady Lydia in disguise?  That would be fun

[brittbratkittykat]

Does anyone else think Lori’s recent content is going to majorly effect Alyssa’s ability to adopt?

[HoneyBunny]

Ken has ridden in on his White Horse of Truth again to point out all the many flaws in the thinking of anyone who voted for Joe Biden. Please, someone read his wall o’ text (I can’t bear to even look at it, but I’m certain that’s what it is) and summarize it for us.  My mental state is slightly fragile today, and I can’t bear to subject myself to his preaching, which has me wanting to fling my iPad against the wall on the best of days. 

[Lgirlrocks]

1 hour ago, HoneyBunny said:

Ken has ridden in on his White Horse of Truth again to point out all the many flaws in the thinking of anyone who voted for Joe Biden. Please, someone read his wall o’ text (I can’t bear to even look at it, but I’m certain that’s what it is) and summarize it for us.  My mental state is slightly fragile today, and I can’t bear to subject myself to his preaching, which has me wanting to fling my iPad against the wall on the best of days. 

Here we go:

how many women voted to disrespect their husbands wisdom and leadership? Gods will will be done no matter how we vote. 
how can any Christian vote to undo the godly things trump has done?

dems shut down pastors from teaching parts of the Bible. (Lies of course and he has no proof) dems are forcing abortions and same sex employees (maybe he means employees married to the same sex?) into Christian companies. 
dems love to support abortion, have no support for Israel, they support rioting in the streets which cause crime rates to go up, and they want to defund police. (Most MAGA and white supremacy groups show up at peaceful protest and riot/loot. And defund police doesn’t mean get rid of them/ not pay them.) dems love socialism. Will cancel you if you use your right to free speech to support conservative ideas. (Right to free speech only exist if you aren’t hurting anyone or promoting hurting anyone.)

BLM allows for looting in black owned businesses (see above for why it’s not them but MAGA/white supremacy groups.) they do little for black on black crime( this has to do with the poverty cycle and they are trying to work on it but the movement was created for police brutality against black people ?‍♀️). Abortion. 
dems control the media. Censoring conservative views. Trump put three conservatives in the Supreme Court. Ken doesn’t understand why some people don’t like trumps ego. With dems running things girls will be forced to not only play sports with boys but shower with them too. (If he is talking about trans then trans boys will play on boys teams and trans girls will play on girls teams. Pretty sure they don’t group shower and wash each other down.) 

finally he wants to know if it was your college education that forced you to vote dem?

why did I vote dem? The lesser of two evils made me do it. Trump is a horrible human being. For Christ sakes he has been on camera saying him and Ivanka have sex in common. He has also called her sexy. And said he would date her if she wasn’t his daughter. Wtf! Gross. He is a failed business man who has no business running this country. His wife had covid and voted in person without a masks. If she got anyone infected and they die she will have killed them. The Bible says though shalt not kill. True pro life people would be doing everything they can to prevent others from getting the virus from them. 

Edited November 17, 2020 by Lgirlrocks

[Sarah92]

Lori spends way too much time on celebrity gossip. Latest thing for Christians to be in an uproar about? Harry Styles in a dress.I want to say to people, Harry Styles is not a conservative Christian so stop acting like he has to believe the same as you do. It’s not hurting anyone. But y’all raising your own blood pressure. 

[brittbratkittykat]

2 minutes ago, Sarah92 said:

Lori spends way too much time on celebrity gossip. Latest thing for Christians to be in an uproar about? Harry Styles in a dress.I want to say to people, Harry Styles is not a conservative Christian so stop acting like he has to believe the same as you do. It’s not hurting anyone. But y’all raising your own blood pressure. 

Of all the things to get your panties in a twist Harry in a dress doesn’t seem like the place to do it. I’m kinda shocked that’s the hill people wanna die on. 

[Sarah92]

1 hour ago, brittbratkittykat said:

Of all the things to get your panties in a twist Harry in a dress doesn’t seem like the place to do it. I’m kinda shocked that’s the hill people wanna die on. 

For real. I mean maybe its my skewed sense of  masculinity but I thought he looked quite fetching. Definitely suited him. But if men can wear kilts (it’s different they cry) they can wear a dress. Jeez it’s another case of you’d make fun of Jesus for wearing a long tunic 

[Lgirlrocks]

clothing is a Societal construct. What is deemed as feminine or masculine is determined by we the people. A man isn’t any less of a man for wearing a skirt or a dress just like a women isn’t any less of a women for wearing pants or shorts. To much emphasis is placed on clothing. During the Bible men and women wore robes. No indication if they were gender neutral or not. Gender is on a spectrum and for the first time in years people are allowed to come out as who they are and get support, by most people. We need to quit focusing on gender and focus on the person themselves. Gender doesn’t define anything. 

Spoiler

 

I will take my dogs shit over trump for president any day. He sexualizes Ivanka. Had covid and didn’t take it seriously. His wife voted in person without a mask on. She had covid as well. Biden is not who I would have picked for president, feel the Bern, but he is the choice the people made. That’s the wonderful thing about this country, people get to vote who they want. 
pro choice does not mean pro abortion. Legalized abortion keeps the abortion rates down. Through using the internet to learn I found out that abortion was legal in the us until slavery was abolished. They decided to make it illegal because they no longer had “free” labor so they needed all of the kids they could have. 

[SongRed7]

On 11/16/2020 at 6:33 PM, KDA said:

Who is Flicka? I haven't seen her on the blog. Is she on facebook?

Shes been around for  a while. she pops in from time to time on FB  and is basically harmless.. although I agree her stories are pretty fabulous (read: hard to believe they are all true).

Most read like an Aesop fable and there is always a moral to the story and a sinner usually dies some horrid death (falling off ladder, car accident, simply drops dead). Flicka is always the heroine and her mother (wicked feminist) is always a villian.  She LOVED her father..who was wronged by his wife and otherwise wonderful.

I am entertained by Flicka as she is like a pet in many ways.  Not really toxic like some of her self-righteous fangirls and proud boys who hang out on Lori's page. 

Edited November 18, 2020 by SongRed7

[Jackie3]

On 11/17/2020 at 6:44 AM, brittbratkittykat said:

Does anyone else think Lori’s recent content is going to majorly effect Alyssa’s ability to adopt?

Why would it? Having a crazy mother doesn't stop you from adopting. It's Alyssa who is adopting, not Lori. I'd hate to think that having a crazy parent would mean someone couldn't adopt.

Anyhow, usually social workers don't ask anything about the grandparents, other than generic questions like, "Are your parents alive?" and "Do they live in the area?"

Edited November 18, 2020 by Jackie3

[brittbratkittykat]

25 minutes ago, Jackie3 said:

Why would it? Having a crazy mother doesn't stop you from adopting. It's Alyssa who is adopting, not Lori. I'd hate to think that having a crazy parent would mean someone couldn't adopt.

Anyhow, usually social workers don't ask anything about the grandparents, other than generic questions like, "Are your parents alive?" and "Do they live in the area?"

I asked cause if her social media following. It’s  possible expecting parents who you thinking about placing their child for adoption do a massive look at social media. I wouldn’t want my child anywhere near Lori. 

[HoneyBunny]

Poor LazyLori. She had no friends and was bullied as a child. She feels this was God’s preparing her for the abuse she endures because of her current ministry teaching bullying.  
 

Lori, to the rest of the world, it’s crystal clear that you were a bitch when you were small and have only honed your skills in the decades since. 
 

[Red Hair, Black Dress]

I guess that picture Lori posted of her on the high school Homecoming Court is proof positive that she had no friends. (I think it was posted on the old "Always Learning" blog) 

I guess those stories about all those dates with fresh boys who tried to get in her pants showed no one liked her.  I  just have to ask why every boy she went out with thought Lori would "let him".  What kind of reputation did she have?

Now in this latest post Lori has upped the number of years she's been sick from 25 to 30 and whines she still in bad health. But ... not bed-ridden and in horrible pain like she was. 

When before has Lori ever said she was bed-ridden?  I swan every time she re-tells the story about being so so so so sick for all those years she just gets sicker and sicker and sicker. 

I expect in a short while we'll read how she was resuscitated and brought back from the dead a number of times.  And all this from parasites!!!!!

10,000 X this

1 hour ago, HoneyBunny said:

Lori, to the rest of the world, it’s crystal clear that you were a bitch when you were small and have only honed your skills in the decades since

 

and n this new post Lori has uppe

[brittbratkittykat]

32 minutes ago, Red Hair, Black Dress said:

I guess that picture Lori posted of her on the high school Homecoming Court is proof positive that she had no friends. (I think it was posted on the old "Always Learning" blog) 

I guess those stories about all those dates with fresh boys who tried to get in her pants showed no one liked her.  I  just have to ask why every boy she went out with thought Lori would "let him".  What kind of reputation did she have?

Now in this latest post Lori has upped the number of years she's been sick from 25 to 30 and whines she still in bad health. But ... not bed-ridden and in horrible pain like she was. 

When before has Lori ever said she was bed-ridden?  I swan every time she re-tells the story about being so so so so sick for all those years she just gets sicker and sicker and sicker. 

I expect in a short while we'll read how she was resuscitated and brought back from the dead a number of times.  And all this from parasites!!!!!

10,000 X this

 

and n this new post Lori has uppe

This is why Lori has zero actual credibility. The friends story has changed 192372 times. Her being sick has changed. It never ends. 

[Sarah92]

I also hate the excuse of “I was never taught submission to my husband”. Soooo? You can still be a decent human being without it? It wasn’t a huge thing in my home growing up and I still turned out okay. And I can treat people like they’re human beings. So it doesn’t give you an excuse to be an ass to your husband 

[SongRed7]

17 hours ago, Jackie3 said:

Why would it? Having a crazy mother doesn't stop you from adopting. It's Alyssa who is adopting, not Lori. I'd hate to think that having a crazy parent would mean someone couldn't adopt.

Also -- sometimes adoption agencies don't use last names and they don't give specifics about the address.  It will say things like "couple fromm North East US city" or "southern California family Bob and Mary"   That way they can maintain some privacy and people are less able to google crazy relatives. 

Not all agencies are like that, but some are (my SIL and BIL adopted twins..and this was how it was... they met the birth mother and was in the delivery room with her, bu she only ever knew their first names and general idea of where they lived --they had a"book" like Alyssa describing their family, etc)

I know other agencies might be more candid.  Alyssa did say inn one of her IG posts/stories a while back that they were open to open adoption...which I assume means having a relationship with the birth mother. Interesting for sure.

[Lgirlrocks]

12 hours ago, Sarah92 said:

I also hate the excuse of “I was never taught submission to my husband”. Soooo? You can still be a decent human being without it? It wasn’t a huge thing in my home growing up and I still turned out okay. And I can treat people like they’re human beings. So it doesn’t give you an excuse to be an ass to your husband 

My mom did not submit to my dad. They were a team. If he put his foot down about something she would go with it. This was because he hardly ever did it so if it was important enough for him to do it she complied. My mom also worked outside of the home, part time and home schooled us. My dad did not want my mom to have to work but he didn’t make that much money and worked two jobs. Biblical submission, if you want to call it that, had to do with the times. Women were treated as meat and property. Men being over the wife was to protect her. Paul talks about mutual submission, Lori and her kind conveniently forget about that. Something about Lori not being able to teach men. The scriptures pertaining to women being silent in church have to do with a specific church not all of them. And if Lori tells women men are to submit as well it’s not teaching men but teaching women how they are to be treated and what to expect. I like to think of Titus 2:5 as instruction for a mom or grandma teaching women things that their mom or grandma would but they don’t have a living one. 

[feministxtian]

15 minutes ago, Lgirlrocks said:

My mom did not submit to my dad. They were a team. If he put his foot down about something she would go with it.

THIS!! My parents were pretty much the same way and me and Mr. Xtian were also. I think I can count on one hand the number of times Mr. Xtian put his foot down about something in 20 years. Yes, there were times I didn't do something because I knew he wouldn't like it, but that's not "submission", that's respect. He did the same. 

This "submission" bullshit that Lazy Lori "teaches" comes from a place of hate...I truly think she hates herself. 

[FiveAcres]

7 minutes ago, feministxtian said:

THIS!! My parents were pretty much the same way and me and Mr. Xtian were also. I think I can count on one hand the number of times Mr. Xtian put his foot down about something in 20 years. Yes, there were times I didn't do something because I knew he wouldn't like it, but that's not "submission", that's respect. He did the same. 

This "submission" bullshit that Lazy Lori "teaches" comes from a place of hate...I truly think she hates herself. 

Once every couple of years I have told my partner: "this is very, very important to me" and then explained the issue and what I wanted him to do. The first time I did so was when we started dating when I was 19 and he was 22 and just out of the Navy. He was pretty lackadaisical about punctuality and keeping appointments. I told him if he ever forgot he had an appointment with me, that was it. And, he never did. 

He rarely says anything like the above, but on those rare occasions when he does, I try to respect his views. 

[feministxtian]

I think we both recognized we were adults and knew enough to discuss things. Our mantra was "divorce, never...homicide, maybe". I don't remember any "power struggles" between us either...he was pretty easygoing 99% of the time. I was the brains of the operation. Neither one of us were the type who always had to have our own way. Unlike some we know...getting "my" way was never really that big a deal. Then again, it was us vs. the kids...the unholy spawn who could conspire to make life utterly insane. 
It was fun, we laughed a lot (at ourselves, each other and the kids). I don't think the Alexanders ever had that sort of thing where someone said something goofy and it ended up causing serious, gut-busting, tear producing, breath losing laughter. 

[HoneyBunny]

14 hours ago, Sarah92 said:

I also hate the excuse of “I was never taught submission to my husband”. Soooo? You can still be a decent human being without it? It wasn’t a huge thing in my home growing up and I still turned out okay. And I can treat people like they’re human beings. So it doesn’t give you an excuse to be an ass to your husband 

This. And its corollary...she never learned to be a giver instead of a taker until she was “spanked” by Debbie Pearl’s book. Really?  Most normal people, even those who are practicing heathens, learn that lesson sometime before they turn 18.  Early 20s at the latest. 

Respect, for others and for yourself. Unmandated respect. This is a concept that is foreign to LazyLori Alexander.