Mills Family 6: Livestreaming Dinner Because That Is Totally Normal

[All About the Shekels]

What kind of woman is going to marry this schmuck? She can’t be smart or she would see right thru him and turn and run far away from him. He won’t marry a divorcee so that means a widow or younger woman. Why would a younger woman want him? Looks, he don’t have them. He doesn’t seem to be truthful. His nose picking and table manners would be embarrassing. He doesn’t work out or exercise. (I think he is gaining some of his grief weight back) Who can put up with a know it all? He has the maturity level of an 11 yr old.

A widow? If she had a great husband she won’t want him. If she had a bad husband she won’t want more of the same.

[Mom2Bubby]

I see in the last video that Tom made his friend Chad a mod. That must have Pissed off Rachel. LOL. From what I’ve seen in the comments from Chad, it’s no surprise he’s friends with Tom.  He doesn’t comes across as a Very nice person to me. 

[Itsjustme]

1 hour ago, Mom2Bubby said:

I see in the last video that Tom made his friend Chad a mod. That must have Pissed off Rachel. LOL. From what I’ve seen in the comments from Chad, it’s no surprise he’s friends with Tom.  He doesn’t comes across as a Very nice person to me. 

Chad is sarcastic and talks down to people. He's as pompous as Tom is. They are like two teenage boys making fun of the girls in school becasue they think they are smarter.  It irks me to no end that a man is relying on WOMEN to help him financially. That doesn't make him very smart.  Probably 90 percent of the channel is women who watched Andrea.  He plays to their mother instincts and controls them by asking  everyone "let's see how many likes we can get". It's so demeaning .

 

 

[formergothardite]

1 hour ago, Itsjustme said:

He plays to their mother instincts and controls them by asking  everyone "let's see how many likes we can get". It's so demeaning .

But they are active participants in this. These women have agency are are deciding to support a guy like Tim. This isn't mothering instincts because if so they would have dumped Andrea a long, long time ago, these are simply women who are fine with people who treat children like shit. He doesn't have to control them in any way because they like this sort of content. These are women who watched Andrea behave badly for years, so it makes sense they seamlessly transferred their support to Tom. 

[Itsjustme]

1 hour ago, formergothardite said:

But they are active participants in this. These women have agency are are deciding to support a guy like Tim. This isn't mothering instincts because if so they would have dumped Andrea a long, long time ago, these are simply women who are fine with people who treat children like shit. He doesn't have to control them in any way because they like this sort of content. These are women who watched Andrea behave badly for years, so it makes sense they seamlessly transferred their support to Tom. 

True but not all are just there to see children treated badly. We have a very nosey society today where people like to peek into other people's worlds and see how others live, or look for drama. I do believe that most are just naive and want to help the children, at least that's what I'd like to believe.  And by mothering instincts  I mean he plays to the women who have children like he's trying to create this fake bond with them and make them feel bad for him trying to take care of all his children alone.  It's like a cult following, he can do no wrong in their eyes.

[formergothardite]

3 hours ago, Itsjustme said:

True but not all are just there to see children treated badly. We have a very nosey society today where people like to peek into other people's worlds and see how others live, or look for drama. I do believe that most are just naive and want to help the children, at least that's what I'd like to believe.  And by mothering instincts  I mean he plays to the women who have children like he's trying to create this fake bond with them and make them feel bad for him trying to take care of all his children alone.  It's like a cult following, he can do no wrong in their eyes.

IMO it is long past time to hold the enablers accountable too. No justifications or excuses for these people. Tom is where he is now because people spent years enabling Andrea to make public vile beliefs and dangerous behavior. If Andrea had gotten backlash and people refusing to watch her channel, I really doubt she would have kept if up. If Andrea hadn't kept it up, I doubt Tom would have started vlogging like he is now. If people wouldn't give him views and money, he would stop. These people are a huge part of the problem. It took a very short time for us to find the nasty bits of this family on their first thread, it was all there in black and white, not hidden at all. That they turn a blind eye to it all really isn't an excuse. That they want to gawk at children isn't an excuse either. That they decide to play along with Tom and pretend like they are bonding with him also isn't an excuse. 

There is no real justification for the fans who keep this train wreck of child neglect going. Without them it would die, they are keeping it alive and they shoulder a lot of blame. 

IMO, without all the Youtube money and attention, I wouldn't be surprised if Tom would have been more willing to put the kids in public school and move to a more normal lifestyle. This Youtube life is a vicious circle because if he had started making drastic changes that show Andrea was completely wrong, her fans would have lost it. So he feeds into what they want and they want him to continue what he is doing now. 

[PotsPansPatriarchy]

Soooooooo! Tom was just live in Walmart manipulating for donations “looking for bread.” As he was walking out of the self check area a manager approached him and asked him to stop live-streaming because it was Making others uncomfortable. Tom proceeded to argue with and speak rudely to the manager and tried claiming he had a special arrangement “with David.” She told him she had spoken to David as Tom shut off the live. I immediately went back and took a screencap of the encounter because I’m sure Tom will edit it out since it shows him for what he really is. He should be ashamed of himself for arguing with a retail employee in the middle of a pandemic.

 

 

Edited March 31, 2020 by PotsPansPatriarchy
Added link to video

[Grandma D]

45 minutes ago, PotsPansPatriarchy said:

Soooooooo! Tom was just live in Walmart manipulating for donations “looking for bread.” As he was walking out of the self check area a manager approached him and asked him to stop live-streaming because it was Making others uncomfortable. Tom proceeded to argue with and speak rudely to the manager and tried claiming he had a special arrangement “with David.” She told him she had spoken to David as Tom shut off the live. I immediately went back and took a screencap of the encounter because I’m sure Tom will edit it out since it shows him for what he really is. He should be ashamed of himself for arguing with a retail employee in the middle of a pandemic.

 

 

Disgusting because no matter what David may or may not have told him the fact that people are not comfortable with him videotaping should be enough for him to stop. He already was asked not to continue but he acts like its his right. And it's all for greed. He just wants the money and to me that is awful. I deleted a previous comment because I felt bad pointing it out but during the cookout live one of the kids wearing the baggy pants went to stand up from sitting on the ground and their backside was in full view. a minor child on video for all the world to see. He is so busy with the video camera he doesn't know what's going on in front of him. Things cannot turn out well when greed is your motivation.

[PotsPansPatriarchy]

22 minutes ago, Grandma D said:

Disgusting because no matter what David may or may not have told him the fact that people are not comfortable with him videotaping should be enough for him to stop. He already was asked not to continue but he acts like its his right. And it's all for greed. He just wants the money and to me that is awful. I deleted a previous comment because I felt bad pointing it out but during the cookout live one of the kids wearing the baggy pants went to stand up from sitting on the ground and their backside was in full view. a minor child on video for all the world to see. He is so busy with the video camera he doesn't know what's going on in front of him. Things cannot turn out well when greed is your motivation.

I saw it before you deleted it and am glad you pointed it out. Also noticed it. Seriously sad situation for the kids. 

As far as Tom goes, hopefully reality will smack him in the face. If the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing then Tom will change. Maybe.

[MangoTango]

21 hours ago, All About the Shekels said:

What kind of woman is going to marry this schmuck? She can’t be smart or she would see right thru him and turn and run far away from him. He won’t marry a divorcee so that means a widow or younger woman. Why would a younger woman want him? Looks, he don’t have them. He doesn’t seem to be truthful. His nose picking and table manners would be embarrassing. He doesn’t work out or exercise. (I think he is gaining some of his grief weight back) Who can put up with a know it all? He has the maturity level of an 11 yr old.

A widow? If she had a great husband she won’t want him. If she had a bad husband she won’t want more of the same.

Unfortunately, there are women out there who would marry Tom. I mean, he found Andrea. Granted that was prior to the having nine kids, but I still think there are women out there who would be interested in him.  There are fundie women out there who were raised to be the kind of woman that Tom is into...

 

Edited March 31, 2020 by MangoTango

[can'tstopwatching]

2 hours ago, PotsPansPatriarchy said:

Soooooooo! Tom was just live in Walmart manipulating for donations “looking for bread.” As he was walking out of the self check area a manager approached him and asked him to stop live-streaming because it was Making others uncomfortable. Tom proceeded to argue with and speak rudely to the manager and tried claiming he had a special arrangement “with David.” She told him she had spoken to David as Tom shut off the live. I immediately went back and took a screencap of the encounter because I’m sure Tom will edit it out since it shows him for what he really is. He should be ashamed of himself for arguing with a retail employee in the middle of a pandemic.

 

 

Holy crap, how embarrassing. I could’ve sworn he said that the manager he knows (maybe David?) even told him he isn’t supposed to be filming, so that’s when he said he’d have to be sneaky about it. Terrible that it’s been so bad/weird that customers had to complain!

[PotsPansPatriarchy]

13 minutes ago, can'tstopwatching said:

Holy crap, how embarrassing. I could’ve sworn he said that the manager he knows (maybe David?) even told him he isn’t supposed to be filming, so that’s when he said he’d have to be sneaky about it. Terrible that it’s been so bad/weird that customers had to complain!

Right? You think he would’ve gotten the message when Walmart kicked him outta the store the first time.

Also, Tom previously said the mgr is his “friend.” While the mgr may have been friendly to Tom, taking video inside WM is against corporate policy. That mgr ain’t about to give up hits livelihood to give Tom the special treatment he thinks he has a right to. Tom thinks everyone owes him something... from the GFM to being allowed to film in WM when no one else is allowed to and everything in between.

[Itsjustme]

2 hours ago, formergothardite said:

There is no real justification for the fans who keep this train wreck of child neglect going. Without them it would die, they are keeping it alive and they shoulder a lot of blame

Yes, but if not his videos then someone elses. That's just one of the ways social media is bad.  It has created attention hogs and attention seekers. There will always be an audience for such nonsense. You have teenagers doing stupid dangerous stunts and they get millions of views. Everywhere you look people are posting things for attention.  Facebook pages full of people showing off their wonderful lives and their wonderful kids and they are just perfection. Mostly not reality but instead a life they can create in pictures for others to be envious of.  It's look at me and how great everything in my life is.  Or every bad thing that happens is dramatized like it's the end of the world. Anything to make people pay attention to them. 

[Itsjustme]

2 hours ago, PotsPansPatriarchy said:

om was just live in Walmart manipulating for donations “looking for bread.” As he was walking out of the self check area a manager approached him and asked him to stop live-streaming because it was Making others uncomfortable.

His videos have been looking for bread, looking for toilet paper, looking for ramen, and looking for flour. I guess he must do good on those type of videos. I can see why people would be uncomfortable becasue he videos full on showing people. He doesn't point the camera at the floor, he just walks around videotaping and people don't want to be on camera! I don't blame them for complaining I wouldn't want to be on some strangers video. You don't know what they are taping for and where it could end up. This guy HAS NO BOUNDARIES, he has a hard time putting himself in others places. He was condescending to that lady too, sounding like a little boy being told not to do something and he says "BUT, so and so says I could". 

 

 

 

[Mom2Bubby]

3 hours ago, PotsPansPatriarchy said:

Soooooooo! Tom was just live in Walmart manipulating for donations “looking for bread.” As he was walking out of the self check area a manager approached him and asked him to stop live-streaming because it was Making others uncomfortable. Tom proceeded to argue with and speak rudely to the manager and tried claiming he had a special arrangement “with David.” She told him she had spoken to David as Tom shut off the live. I immediately went back and took a screencap of the encounter because I’m sure Tom will edit it out since it shows him for what he really is. He should be ashamed of himself for arguing with a retail employee in the middle of a pandemic.

 

 

I’m sure he will go live later tonight and complain about it. And of course his fans will be  offended for him. Too bad they won’t boycott Walmart. That would mean less people shopping for non essentials and spreading the virus around. The sense of entitlement with this one is strong. 

[PotsPansPatriarchy]

[Fawn]

Hello, I've been a lurker for a while but decided to join in the discussion.

A month or so ago I was watching a live when a discord link popped up in the comments, it was for Toms' "superfans" and it was a chat with about 10 or so people including the infamous Rachel as well as Thomas as moderator. I haven't talked to anyone yet but every so often I go on and watch the chat. It's actually quite sad, these are grown women who are completely fawning over Tom. They have competition to see who can comment last before a live ends, they talk a lot about themselves, Tom, the family, nothing too interesting, they are about 40 years old and play online games with Thomas. I haven't seen Tom interact with them, they seem desperate. 

The other night I decided to go into the server when Tom was doing a live (I have myself set to offline mode so no one knows when I'm on) and someone brought up the comment Tom made about Rachel being a stalker, they also brought up this site. Turns out Rachel and Tom both read here and other people in the discord are even members. Rachel is a moderator in this discord as well as the leader of them and she very quickly ended discussion about everything but I took a few screenshots but couldn't get everything as Thomas deletes the chat every night. 

Another thing I learnt is that the person who posted the screenshots is a scorned women of Toms who he rejected, according to Rachel so she doesn't believe that he would say that about her. 

I've never had direct contact with Tom and wouldn't want to but from other bits and pieces I gathered is that Rachel is devoted to Tom in a scarier way than I thought. I don't think she has much contact with him on her real account but I believe from bits that have been said that there are fake accounts that have been created by multiple women in this group who are talking to Tom but are actually married and in this Discord group. Apparently the accounts also talk to Thomas and have been getting very close to him to help him with his depression. I can't be certain that these accounts are linked to Rachel and the group because they play it off as someone they know is talking to Tom but when they show the accounts it's newly created or has one or two pics and no friends or likes. Which makes me wonder how Tom, an IT specialist is being fooled by it all.

I have more information but I realise how it all doesn't mean much without much proof so I'll just leave it with what I have said as I don't want to speculate too much, rather stick to what I can prove. Considering Rachel, Tom and their minions read here I expect to be booted from the discord soon if they can figure me out, good luck to them ?

 

 

[Petronella]

5 hours ago, Fawn said:

Hello, I've been a lurker for a while but decided to join in the discussion.

A month or so ago I was watching a live when a discord link popped up in the comments, it was for Toms' "superfans" and it was a chat with about 10 or so people including the infamous Rachel as well as Thomas as moderator. I haven't talked to anyone yet but every so often I go on and watch the chat. It's actually quite sad, these are grown women who are completely fawning over Tom. They have competition to see who can comment last before a live ends, they talk a lot about themselves, Tom, the family, nothing too interesting, they are about 40 years old and play online games with Thomas. I haven't seen Tom interact with them, they seem desperate. 

The other night I decided to go into the server when Tom was doing a live (I have myself set to offline mode so no one knows when I'm on) and someone brought up the comment Tom made about Rachel being a stalker, they also brought up this site. Turns out Rachel and Tom both read here and other people in the discord are even members. Rachel is a moderator in this discord as well as the leader of them and she very quickly ended discussion about everything but I took a few screenshots but couldn't get everything as Thomas deletes the chat every night. 

Another thing I learnt is that the person who posted the screenshots is a scorned women of Toms who he rejected, according to Rachel so she doesn't believe that he would say that about her. 

I've never had direct contact with Tom and wouldn't want to but from other bits and pieces I gathered is that Rachel is devoted to Tom in a scarier way than I thought. I don't think she has much contact with him on her real account but I believe from bits that have been said that there are fake accounts that have been created by multiple women in this group who are talking to Tom but are actually married and in this Discord group. Apparently the accounts also talk to Thomas and have been getting very close to him to help him with his depression. I can't be certain that these accounts are linked to Rachel and the group because they play it off as someone they know is talking to Tom but when they show the accounts it's newly created or has one or two pics and no friends or likes. Which makes me wonder how Tom, an IT specialist is being fooled by it all.

I have more information but I realise how it all doesn't mean much without much proof so I'll just leave it with what I have said as I don't want to speculate too much, rather stick to what I can prove. Considering Rachel, Tom and their minions read here I expect to be booted from the discord soon if they can figure me out, good luck to them ?

 

 

The best are the comments about how weird it is that people on Free Jinger have the the time to waste on nitpicking Tom. Said the people who have the time to leghump Tom, and read Free Jinger too, apparently.

Is the Discord public before it’s deleted? FYI we’re not allowed to share screenshots or quotes from private discussions, only summaries.

 

 

[can'tstopwatching]

6 hours ago, Fawn said:

Hello, I've been a lurker for a while but decided to join in the discussion.

A month or so ago I was watching a live when a discord link popped up in the comments, it was for Toms' "superfans" and it was a chat with about 10 or so people including the infamous Rachel as well as Thomas as moderator. I haven't talked to anyone yet but every so often I go on and watch the chat. It's actually quite sad, these are grown women who are completely fawning over Tom. They have competition to see who can comment last before a live ends, they talk a lot about themselves, Tom, the family, nothing too interesting, they are about 40 years old and play online games with Thomas. I haven't seen Tom interact with them, they seem desperate. 

The other night I decided to go into the server when Tom was doing a live (I have myself set to offline mode so no one knows when I'm on) and someone brought up the comment Tom made about Rachel being a stalker, they also brought up this site. Turns out Rachel and Tom both read here and other people in the discord are even members. Rachel is a moderator in this discord as well as the leader of them and she very quickly ended discussion about everything but I took a few screenshots but couldn't get everything as Thomas deletes the chat every night. 

Another thing I learnt is that the person who posted the screenshots is a scorned women of Toms who he rejected, according to Rachel so she doesn't believe that he would say that about her. 

I've never had direct contact with Tom and wouldn't want to but from other bits and pieces I gathered is that Rachel is devoted to Tom in a scarier way than I thought. I don't think she has much contact with him on her real account but I believe from bits that have been said that there are fake accounts that have been created by multiple women in this group who are talking to Tom but are actually married and in this Discord group. Apparently the accounts also talk to Thomas and have been getting very close to him to help him with his depression. I can't be certain that these accounts are linked to Rachel and the group because they play it off as someone they know is talking to Tom but when they show the accounts it's newly created or has one or two pics and no friends or likes. Which makes me wonder how Tom, an IT specialist is being fooled by it all.

I have more information but I realise how it all doesn't mean much without much proof so I'll just leave it with what I have said as I don't want to speculate too much, rather stick to what I can prove. Considering Rachel, Tom and their minions read here I expect to be booted from the discord soon if they can figure me out, good luck to them ?

 

 

Ok so... I haven't said because I knew they read here, but I've been on that discord since very early on. The server seems to be deleted now, probably because they saw this. It really is quite a wild ride over there. Chad's and the various women's political opinions and thoughts on the virus were predictable but nevertheless alarming. Mostly though it was just a casual chat amongst some strange people lol.

I always thought it was weird how much Thomas was chatting with middle aged women who he doesn't know, imagine if the genders were reversed!

[Fawn]

1 hour ago, Petronella said:

The best are the comments about how weird it is that people on Free Jinger have the the time to waste on nitpicking Tom. Said the people who have the time to leghump Tom, and read Free Jinger too, apparently.

Is the Discord public before it’s deleted? FYI we’re not allowed to share screenshots or quotes from private discussions, only summaries.

 

 

It was a public discord and chat, the link was put in Tom's live chat by Thomas, it just seemed only the super devoted went there but you're right, the server is now deleted! That didn't take them very long at all, they must be refreshing this page a lot.

[formergothardite]

9 hours ago, Itsjustme said:

Yes, but if not his videos then someone elses. That's just one of the ways social media is bad.  It has created attention hogs and attention seekers. There will always be an audience for such nonsense. You have teenagers doing stupid dangerous stunts and they get millions of views. Everywhere you look people are posting things for attention.  Facebook pages full of people showing off their wonderful lives and their wonderful kids and they are just perfection. Mostly not reality but instead a life they can create in pictures for others to be envious of.  It's look at me and how great everything in my life is.  Or every bad thing that happens is dramatized like it's the end of the world. Anything to make people pay attention to them. 

But no need to have sympathy for these people who get thrill out of gawking at children and flirting with Tom. That was my point, They are a HUGE part of the problem. These are the people keeping Tom going and are behaving in really disturbing ways. If they send him money every time he makes some sort of woe is me video, well that is on them. They are getting as much out of this as he is. 

7 hours ago, Fawn said:

ther people in the discord are even members.

I'm not surprised. We've obviously had Andrea and Tom fans pop up, they don't last long or at least learn to stay quiet. Tom and Andrea are pretty damn hard to defend, so they tend to go off in a huff pretty fast. For those reading here including Tom, think about how you can't even defend the behavior of the parents. That is a red flag that you know on some level things aren't okay. 

31 minutes ago, can'tstopwatching said:

I always thought it was weird how much Thomas was chatting with middle aged women who he doesn't know, imagine if the genders were reversed!

It is disturbing, which is why I have zero sympathy for these women. They are damn creepy.

Edited April 1, 2020 by formergothardite

[SIngingforsupper]

1 hour ago, formergothardite said:

It is disturbing, which is why I have zero sympathy for these women. They are damn creepy.

Like minded people sticking together, Rachel Day is the creepiest of them all! It's clear that the kids don't have many friends. Thomas has a whole group of woman to make him feel important, just like Dad.

[formergothardite]

21 minutes ago, SIngingforsupper said:

Thomas has a whole group of woman to make him feel important, just like Dad.

The sad thing is that he has always moderated comments and had women saying inappropriate things to him, even back when 
Andrea was alive, so he has been groomed to think this is normal behavior. 

[PotsPansPatriarchy]

Ffs, the more I learn about this situation the weirder it gets.

So much cognitive dissonance and lying going on. On Tom’s part and that of the super fans. 

The whole situation is psychologically unhealthy; to say the least.

[Wash your hands]

The amount of people defending Tom on his channel for filming in Walmart is disgusting. I sure as heck wouldn't want some random person filming me while was shopping. Just because his minons see there was nothing wrong with it, doesn't mean anybody else does. Hey Tom and nosy Rachel. Maybe you'd like it if someone filmed you and your kids while they were out shopping and posted it on YT. ?

As for Rachel. Does that woman not have a family of her own ? That amount of time she devotes to Tom and his channel is downright creepy. Honestly I feel for her husband and children.