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There’s no way in hell this sudden desire to show himself bike riding isn’t because the woman (oh sorry - “chick”) he’s interested in, Holly, cares about health and often says she exercises.  Feels like he spends half the lives these days talking to just her.

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3 hours ago, can'tstopwatching said:

There’s no way in hell this sudden desire to show himself bike riding isn’t because the woman (oh sorry - “chick”) he’s interested in, Holly, cares about health and often says she exercises.  Feels like he spends half the lives these days talking to just her.

I don't think she is real. Maybe, but just a feeling. If he got catfished maybe that would get him off the internet. But he does love the fame. If he took his kids on the bike ride that would mean he would have to talk to them. Then what would all his fans do? I also wonder what happens if Rachel Days kids need something while she is online for hours with Tom. You know she doesn't look away for a minute while he is on because she always has the correct answer. his ego is getting so big Its going to explode one of these days. he even admitted he thinks he knows everything and then said it is because he reads and researches so many topics.. But who is he researching? Experts? 

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18 hours ago, How Pathetic said:

I have been reading here since shortly after Andrea's death, but never planned on signing up and never dreamed of commenting.  However,  I have been watching the slideshow and it put me over the edge. I have always found Tom very off-putting but just ignored him because it was HER channel and he was only on it minimally. I disagreed with many of his actions after her death, but chose not to criticize him because of the difficulty of the situation.  But he absolutely disgusts me at this point and I can't hold my tongue any more.  

I agree so much with this! I had only watched a few minutes of their videos before Andrea was in the hospital. I was appalled when he made the video moments after she passed and the final seconds of the video were of her heartbroken children and then her body! I feel terrible for those children; they had just lost their mom and their father made a live YouTube instead of attempting to comfort them in what was the worst moment of their lives! He is more concerned with making YouTube videos, letting us all know how busy and amazing he is, instead of giving them his attention to help them adjust. If he is as busy as he claims, he wouldn't have time to make hours of videos. I'm disgusted by his greed and selfishness.

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2 hours ago, Grandma D said:

I don't think she is real. Maybe, but just a feeling. If he got catfished maybe that would get him off the internet. But he does love the fame. If he took his kids on the bike ride that would mean he would have to talk to them. Then what would all his fans do? I also wonder what happens if Rachel Days kids need something while she is online for hours with Tom. You know she doesn't look away for a minute while he is on because she always has the correct answer. his ego is getting so big Its going to explode one of these days. he even admitted he thinks he knows everything and then said it is because he reads and researches so many topics.. But who is he researching? Experts? 

I wonder if he isn't doing some catfishing as well. That would be so deliciously ironic, if there weren't needy children involved. I just spent some time on my IG app getting rid of attractive looking middle-aged men who have no posts but want to follow me on IG. I just roll my eyes and report them as spam. I have no idea of IG actually does anything about them. 

It also occurs to me that the money he purportedly has in savings would make a nice little honeypot for some enterprising swindler who wants to invest a little a time. What is the saying "You can't con an honest man?"

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17 hours ago, Mom2Bubby said:

So I was reading the comments on the latest live. It’s amazing how ignorant Tom is. I just can’t even believe how stupid his response to this person is. What a major moron!!! Does he not realize how stupid he is? OMGoodness!! It would be funny how smart he thinks he is if it wasn’t so sad for those poor kids. SMH.  Just can’t get over his response to this person. I’ve only watched part of the live so far and not sure I can get through it all if he comes across as this ignorant throughout the whole thing. (I can’t remember how to add screenshots but if I can figure it out I will add it) 

Edited to add: I can’t remember how to add screenshots. The comment with his response is in the comments section if anyone would like to add it. I’ve only ever added one or two screenshots before. 

Sorry for quoting myself. I think I figured out how to add screenshots. 

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So what  does  he *think* processed food is??
Im really confused. He thinks pop tarts and ramen are healthy?? 

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6 minutes ago, WhatAlife said:

So what  does  he *think* processed food is??
Im really confused. He thinks pop tarts and ramen are healthy?? 

He is probably like Gwen Shamblin(Lara) who claims "real" food is diet coke and fritos. And she managed to make millions and start a whole damn church based on only eating tiny bits of junk food that she calls real food.

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5 minutes ago, WhatAlife said:

So what  does  he *think* processed food is??
Im really confused. He thinks pop tarts and ramen are healthy?? 

He repeatedly uses the example of a food processor, and says that cutting up a carrot makes it a “processed food”. If he wants to be that ignorant to how the term is actually USED, instead of what it may literally mean, he’s just being stubborn. He clearly hasn’t even googled it. It can also include filling food with unnatural preservatives and chemicals, but instead of admitting that’s what people mean by the term, he insists it’s a useless concept just because cutting up a vegetable can count as “processing” it.

How someone can’t see that a whole food that has been meddled with as little as possible is healthier than a modified and manufactured factory product is beyond me. Everything in moderation of course, but you can’t deny that one is healthier than the other. 

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4 hours ago, Grandma D said:

I don't think she is real. Maybe, but just a feeling. If he got catfished maybe that would get him off the internet. But he does love the fame. If he took his kids on the bike ride that would mean he would have to talk to them. Then what would all his fans do? I also wonder what happens if Rachel Days kids need something while she is online for hours with Tom. You know she doesn't look away for a minute while he is on because she always has the correct answer. his ego is getting so big Its going to explode one of these days. he even admitted he thinks he knows everything and then said it is because he reads and researches so many topics.. But who is he researching? Experts? 

That would be spectacular if he is being catfished!   He needs to be taken down.

It would be nice if karma bit him in his arrogant narcissistic butt....except there are 9 innocent children/prisoners trapped in the middle of the chaos that madman has created.   Nine innocent children, his own flesh and blood, who are his props and pawns. 
 

 

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Nothing like sitting there talking to your minions while your dead wife's hair is just hanging in the background. ? I find that absolutely disgusting. Instead of spending hours online talking to your sheep Tommy, spend the time with your children.

The fact this greedy sob is well off, he continues to sit there with his dirty hands out asking for more. I said this before in another comment. There are people who lost their job and have no income and are worse off than this greedy family. Yet he continues to want want want.

He could donate some of the GoFundme $$ and donate it to a local food bank. He makes me sick. Along with his sidekick Rachel. Who has her own family yet spends more time with his family. I feel for her children. Taking food and clothes away from her own children just to win brownie points with Tommy Boy. 

And don't even get me started on the $500 donation. The amount of other families that could've helped instead of The Mills. The food bank or a shelter could've used the cash. Instead we'll see Tommy Boy buy more junk to add to his dump.

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2 hours ago, Wash your hands said:

Nothing like sitting there talking to your minions while your dead wife's hair is just hanging in the background. ? I find that absolutely disgusting. Instead of spending hours online talking to your sheep Tommy, spend the time with your children.

The fact this greedy sob is well off, he continues to sit there with his dirty hands out asking for more. I said this before in another comment. There are people who lost their job and have no income and are worse off than this greedy family. Yet he continues to want want want.

He could donate some of the GoFundme $$ and donate it to a local food bank. He makes me sick. Along with his sidekick Rachel. Who has her own family yet spends more time with his family. I feel for her children. Taking food and clothes away from her own children just to win brownie points with Tommy Boy. 

And don't even get me started on the $500 donation. The amount of other families that could've helped instead of The Mills. The food bank or a shelter could've used the cash. Instead we'll see Tommy Boy buy more junk to add to his dump.

I can't imagine his new wifelet being happy about that pigtail pinned behind their purple playpen.  Nor with the handpainted decor imitating brickwork.  There are written "Rules" on the bedroom door, facing their sitting area.  Not sure what those rules are but I'm sure there's a video to enlighten us!

Is Tommy ever going to replace that nasty furniture.  I wouldn't sit on that filthy couch and doubt that anyone visiting the Loveshack wouldn't be concerned about what they might pick up. 

The table is never cleaned but wiped with a dirty rag even after the baby had peed herself or when she had been walking up and down. 

Amazon packages are also all opened on the table top. 

The same table that Tommy boy is happy to throw handfuls of cheese onto for the kids and he prepares his cinnamon rolls on that table. 

A pinch of dirt? Industrial strength cleaner would be needed to cut through the muck and bacteria in that house. 

The carpet at the entrance to the main bedroom, the rugs and tiles, the stair carpet to the basement; all are filthy and probably held together by the matted dirt, mold and fungus. 

Showers are once weekly which makes me wonder how often the bedding and night clothes are changed!

Tommy's neighbour did a "3 hour deep clean" which he should keep on top of but of course he won't.  Is she going to undertake to clean regularly and is he paying her?  

HOLLY Dolly - Tommy seems to like her and she said she lives not too far from where he lived in Cali.  She may or may not be real but as she indicated that she's vegan how would a relationship with Gutboy pan out? 

His adoring fan club attack anyone whom they feel is not 100% in support of that nutjob. Because his wife died does not make him right on every subject and does not mean that his antics should be accepted when they are clearly wrong.

He's an arrogant, loud mouthed, bullying POS.  It's questionable whether he will find anybody willing to marry him and move into that shithole!

He is dizzy with freedom, despite claiming to be busy with the kids. On his cycling video he even spoke about getting the proper gear and a sleeping bag so as to go further afield and camp out. Alone.  More work for Asher while Tommy does Tommy! 

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19 hours ago, Ekaterina said:

It's incredibly weird!  To say nothing of the fact that Tommy and Andrea were looking to have a house full of grandkids eventually. 

Imagine if each spouse's parents had also bought a plot for their offspring!  It just doesn't make sense. 

The first loyalty of anyone is to their chosen (by them) life partner.  Dictating where each of his kids will be buried indicates that they are mere pawns in the game of happy families and that Tom and Andrea have "ownership" of them.

I wonder how much say he will expect to have in the choosing of wives and husbands for his kids.  I can't help but also wonder how the kids are ever going to meet someone? 

They don't seem to have friends and only mix with relatives.  Maybe they will each marry a cousin.  Are there enough cousins to go round? 

One of the things that I always wondered about was how Andrea expected her kids to find a spouse given their isolation.  The other thing I always wondered about was how Andrea expected her boys (I say only boys since the girls would be housewives of course) to be able to support a family with the type of jobs she envisioned them working.  I guess her thought process didn't reach that far. 

I don't think that Tom ever gave much thought to any of this in the past and probably isn't now.

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2 hours ago, Wash your hands said:

Nothing like sitting there talking to your minions while your dead wife's hair is just hanging in the background. ? I find that absolutely disgusting. Instead of spending hours online talking to your sheep Tommy, spend the time with your children.

That brick wallpaper makes him look like he's begging in a subway. You would think he would consider the bedroom a private area because he shared it with his wife but we know he lacks empathy. I really don't feel he misses her because of love, he misses her becasue of how his life was when she was there. That's what he misses. He seems to be getting more arrogant as his wallet fills up. 

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45 minutes ago, sdjp123 said:

One of the things that I always wondered about was how Andrea expected her kids to find a spouse given their isolation.  The other thing I always wondered about was how Andrea expected her boys (I say only boys since the girls would be housewives of course) to be able to support a family with the type of jobs she envisioned them working.  I guess her thought process didn't reach that far. 

I don't think that Tom ever gave much thought to any of this in the past and probably isn't now.

I wonder if it was an Arndt safe at home type thing where she may talk about her kids growing up, but she never actually planned on them leaving. She had planned some jobs for the boys, but I can't help but think the reality would be that she wouldn't take the change of a child leaving and starting their own family very well. She micro-controlled every single aspect of their lives and suddenly letting her children become adults who make decisions isn't something I see her being able to have done. 

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Was Lover Boy Andrea's first boyfriend or had there been others?

With such a low population, eligible males probably aren't too thick on the ground which is why Tommy was destined to be her mate. 

I don't think it was a love match because of the lack of options and because they each had their own pragmatic (to them) agenda.

Andrea wanted to be the old woman who lived in a shoe and Tommy wanted to be the waited upon man-child. Both achieved those ambitions.

Andrea and Gutboy both touched on the subject of grandkids in the far off future. Yet there was no facilitation to socialise the kids; they can't marry each other and doubtless there's a law against cousins marrying.  

Even now it would be nerve wracking for the older kids to be thrown into the melee of public school or social activities to meet their peers. A lot of damage has been done. 

Continued pregnancies were incredibly selfish.  Tommy says he was always worried about money (up until now).  So why keep having babies?  Why use lotions and potions to increase the chances of pregnancy if their belief was that each "blessing" was ordained by God? 

Andrea's body was physically wrecked by continued pregnancies, terrible diet, lack of healthy exercise and a reliance on her own brews and concoctions for whatever ailed her.  

Hardly a thought given to the kids they already had when planning for the next new addition.  

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I hardly watch these days as I just can't stand him, but I did watch Hannah's birthday video. Poor little mite, she looked absolutely exhausted through the entire thing :( I feel so sad for all the kids but Hannah, Solly, Eden and Claudia make my heart break, even more so Justus, he seems to be the forgotten child, rarely mentioned, he wasn't even in the line up for the pinata.

Rachel Day (Hi Rachel!) makes my blood boil, she has to be neglecting her own children (and husband) to spend the amount of time that she does on Tom's lives, it's not like she just pops in and out, she's there as a constant, doesn't miss a question! Not to mention spending so much money on children she doesn't even know, to try and look like the big I am and climb up Tom's backside. Rachel love, I seriously doubt you'll be chosen as the next mrs mills, you'd be better off paying attention and spending your money on your own family!

How can he constantly say he doesn't have time to cook healthy meals for the kids, do this, that or the other for the kids yet he can spend hours on lives on his own, while his poor teenagers bring up their younger siblings on top of taking care of the house. He is a disgusting human being ? 

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52 minutes ago, formergothardite said:

I wonder if it was an Arndt safe at home type thing where she may talk about her kids growing up, but she never actually planned on them leaving. She had planned some jobs for the boys, but I can't help but think the reality would be that she wouldn't take the change of a child leaving and starting their own family very well. She micro-controlled every single aspect of their lives and suddenly letting her children become adults who make decisions isn't something I see her being able to have done. 

I think you may be right as this is consistent with how she treated the kids.

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1 hour ago, Sloth said:

I hardly watch these days as I just can't stand him, but I did watch Hannah's birthday video. Poor little mite, she looked absolutely exhausted through the entire thing :( I feel so sad for all the kids but Hannah, Solly, Eden and Claudia make my heart break, even more so Justus, he seems to be the forgotten child, rarely mentioned, he wasn't even in the line up for the pinata.

Rachel Day (Hi Rachel!) makes my blood boil, she has to be neglecting her own children (and husband) to spend the amount of time that she does on Tom's lives, it's not like she just pops in and out, she's there as a constant, doesn't miss a question! Not to mention spending so much money on children she doesn't even know, to try and look like the big I am and climb up Tom's backside. Rachel love, I seriously doubt you'll be chosen as the next mrs mills, you'd be better off paying attention and spending your money on your own family!

How can he constantly say he doesn't have time to cook healthy meals for the kids, do this, that or the other for the kids yet he can spend hours on lives on his own, while his poor teenagers bring up their younger siblings on top of taking care of the house. He is a disgusting human being ? 

Yes Hannah did look exhausted and very pale. That poor child has learned that crying does not get her anywhere.  Put to bed not wearing jammies or having been washed and snuggled, possibly hungry but usually with a bottle provided by Asher. 

Claudia is a feisty kid and reminds me of my own daughter, a bit of a handful and inherently bright!  Claudia is instinctively aware that Daddy has his favorites.  Nothing will change that.

Little Sophia has learned to grab Daddy's attention without too much difficulty. Solly needs extra help with school and a bit more one on one time but will he ever get that? I doubt it. 

Justus is a sensitive boy who also yearns for attention. His 3 older brothers are more self reliant.

It's good that Justus and Eden are close and can support each other. 

As for Rachel Mills, ooh, I mean Day, it really is appalling that she is taking away from her own beleagured husband to give to Tommy the beggar man.

Taking also from her own 3 kids to give to Tommy's 9 kids.  Taking in terms of both money and time. 

She is a disgusting person who needs to wake up and invest in her own marriage and family.

I actually DID automatically type Rachel Mills rather than her own married name!  LMAO!  

Rachel, your husband is not inferior to Tommy and to say he is not even10% of the man you're obsessing over is a deeply injurious sin in the eyes of the Lord.  Ask Tommy why don't you?

One day Rachel, you might reflect and regret this adolescent passion you present but by then it may be too late.  Mr 10% might have found himself a real woman who will place her own husband (him) and family (theirs) above any other! You will be out on your ass!   

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2 hours ago, Ekaterina said:

 

Rachel, your husband is not inferior to Tommy and to say he is not even10% of the man you're obsessing over is a deeply injurious sin in the eyes of the Lord.  Ask Tommy why don't you?

 

Did she actually say that?!

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55 minutes ago, Conundrum said:

Did she actually say that?

I'm pretty sure she did but does anyone remember whén or where it would be to read it again? She does weird you tube videos showing what she buys and how much it costs after she gets home. She is obsessed with Tom and his family in a very unhealthy way and he encourages it. 

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She said it on Tom's mom's facebook page (Grandma Kitty) I saw it. 

 

 

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Do we know for sure that she is still married? I’ve wondered that, even with the 10% comment whether it may have talked about him in the past tense as if they divorced? Another thing, I’m not sure she is even religious. She’s never said anything suggesting she is and I’ve never noticed her participate in the Bible parts of the Bible study, although she is there. I believe she does do ACE now that I think about it, but even that I could see her doing because of Tom and not actually practicing the religion.

To me she doesn’t give off the impression of wanting to marry Tom, I think she just likes obsessing over him and the kids and inserting herself into their lives as much as she can. It’s pretty sad the time and financial commitment she makes to them, it’s definitely not normal behavior.

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6 hours ago, can'tstopwatching said:

To me she doesn’t give off the impression of wanting to marry Tom, I think she just likes obsessing over him and the kids and inserting herself into their lives as much as she can.

ITA. She doesn't seem to want to actually marry him, she just wants to say she is deeply involved in his life. Right now she gets the joy of acting like she is a part of his life without really having to be a part of his life and put up with him or his children. 

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I think the Mills family live streams are a place where Creepy Rachel Day feels important. That is why she is willing to sacrifice family time. It seems as if everyone on live chat defers to her and thinks she is wonderful. I am assuming her home life is miserable. 

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I love seeing those snapshots of his comments - he was so HATEFUL and arrogant.......Wow.  I'm not surprised tho.  He's so insecure, he can't stand for a woman to tell him he's wrong and knows nothing about nutrition!  

 

 

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