Andrea Mills 3: Still Buying Junk Food

[ViolaSebastian]

A really, really excellent way to spend that money would be to have a part-time nanny or dad's helper come in twice a day to help with wake up and the bedtime routine, or even assist with dinner. It could be as simple as a like-minded 18-year-old from the local church or the teenager of a family friend who pops in before and after school. That way, the little ones get assistance with grooming and get a loving bedtime routine, but it doesn't overly interfere with family time during the day. This small thing would make such a huge difference in those kiddos lives--just a bit of help with the activities of daily living. Once or twice a week, he or she could do a couple of extra hours and scrub down the bathroom and help with laundry. That would make such a big difference, especially in the littlest ones' lives.

[Daisybear85]

On 11/8/2019 at 12:40 PM, justlooking said:

  I also wish I could find where Tom said he had been addicted to Porn early on.......THAT would have been interesting too!  UGH!!!  I'm totally not surprised about that.  At all.

It’s part of the video where he talks about his dream 

“random live stream-chat via FB” October 20th around the 1:41:00 mark

 

[Sloth]

Lurker, first post ? 

 

Tom on live talking about making Thomas the only mod again, I bet Rachel Day is fuming! ???

[under siege]

32 minutes ago, Sloth said:

Lurker, first post ? 

 

Tom on live talking about making Thomas the only mod again, I bet Rachel Day is fuming! ???

There has been so much backlash about Rachel that it's not surprising.
She way way WAY overstepped the mark when it came to responding to comments. So many people were asking 'who is Rachel Day'. Tom's devoted cluster may accept her presence but there are far more people who remain subscribers out of care/concern/love for the kids and/or out of respect for Andrea. The majority do not want a random stranger responding to questions said random stranger should not be answering. Rachel knows way too much about the Mills family for someone who does not know them personally, lives in a different state AND has a family of her own (even though she doesn't seem as devoted to her own husband as she is to Tom)

If Rachel's been discussed here, there's a high chance she's been talked about elsewhere too. Just because Tom and his devoted cluster accept her, it would be more damaging than not to keep her as a moderator. No doubt it will be put down as 'harassment/stress' if she does stop or limited in what she continues to do.
Rachel, if you are reading this - make up for that lost time by focussing on your family. I hope you can repair the damage done when you said that your husband was 10% the man Tom is. Maybe your husband needs to find someone 90% more the woman that you are.

[SIngingforsupper]

Rachel sent Tom some birthday presents, she did that annoying wrapping difficulty Tom used to do to Andrea. He was annoyed by it! Then he says Thomas will be the only mod. Creepy Rachel Day must have a bee in her bonnet.

 

 

[Jamie]

On 11/6/2019 at 2:15 PM, Queen Of Hearts said:

I can't imagine publicly fawning over a man whose dead wife's body is barely cold yet.  So disrespectful to anyone who cared for Andrea.  I have to think those women are beyond desperate.  

Take my picture off this site. I gave a man a complement. Did you screen shot where I said Andrea is beautiful? You can message me on facebook if you have a problem with name is Jamie Nicole. Or I can give you my address so you can talk crap to my face. FYI I look nothing like Rachel.

[under siege]

On 11/7/2019 at 5:34 AM, can'tstopwatching said:

I had to share this hilarious exchange from the chat in the beginning of the last game night lol

(I've never done an image before, I hope I did this right!)

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To save any confusion, this is the post @Jamieis referring to. Her 'compliment' to Tom sparked some conversation here a few days back.

[Justsum1twothree]

3 hours ago, Jamie said:

Take my picture off this site. I gave a man a complement. Did you screen shot where I said Andrea is beautiful? You can message me on facebook if you have a problem with name is Jamie Nicole. Or I can give you my address so you can talk crap to my face. FYI I look nothing like Rachel.

You posted on a public platform as you are here. “Your picture” is within a screenshot. This is the internet. Get a grip. What do you think Andrea would think by you calling her husband hot? I have a feeling she wouldn’t have liked it. She hasn’t even been in the ground that long, you should be ashamed of yourself. Anyway, it’s funny that you found us here, and what you have to say, internet tough guy.

[can'tstopwatching]

I would have covered up the personal photos in that picture if I had thought about it, but since it was all public I didn't think I'd need to.

[Queen Of Hearts]

First, Jamie, the internet is forever dear. Demanding we take your picture off a public page after you posted it on a public page is kind of silly and naive.

Second, regarding Rachel Day, I can't help but wonder if even Tom is beginning to get creeped out by her obsessiveness. Maybe she is reacting badly to him appearing to have a new lady in his life? Regardless, good for Tom for trying to reign in the craziness.

Oh, and P.S. Jamie, you brought a lot more attention to yourself by bringing this up now. I think it is safe to say everyone here had long forgotten about you and your fawning over Tom. Now you've just thrust yourself back into the spotlight. 

Edited November 10, 2019 by Queen Of Hearts

[Olivia Marie]

1 hour ago, Justsum1twothree said:

You posted on a public platform as you are here. “Your picture” is within a screenshot. This is the internet. Get a grip. What do you think Andrea would think by you calling her husband hot? I have a feeling she wouldn’t have liked it. She hasn’t even been in the ground that long, you should be ashamed of yourself. Anyway, it’s funny that you found us here, and what you have to say, internet tough guy.

Justsum1twothree, Standing Ovation ??????

Jamie P, blah blah blah.   Get over yourself.   Your Shepherd  “Hot Tommy Boy” is  beckoning you back into his fold.    You are NOT any better than Rachel Zippedoda and the rest of Tom’s Sheeple.   Desperate chicks of a feather, flock together.   Getting yourselves all worked up into a flippin’ fenzy over a guy who is not worth two cents.    I cannot wait to see which one of you end up with that loser.  Good luck with that.  Whoever it is will need every ounce of luck.  That chick will be a cook, baker, laundry girl, house cleaner, school teacher, babysitter, seamstress, errand runner, etc etc etc.  Last but not least, the most important things to Tom are that she be 100% subserviant,  100% bowdown in adoration and praise, and 100% a good “depository”.....available at all times. 

5 hours ago, SIngingforsupper said:

Rachel sent Tom some birthday presents, she did that annoying wrapping difficulty Tom used to do to Andrea. He was annoyed by it! Then he says Thomas will be the only mod. Creepy Rachel Day must have a bee in her bonnet.

 

 

Awwwwww Rachel.   That was so precious of you.  I have never known of a stalker to be so kind.  

Edited November 10, 2019 by Olivia Marie

[Jasminfetty]

1 hour ago, Queen Of Hearts said:

First, Jamie, the internet is forever dear. Demanding we take your picture off a public page after you posted it on a public page is kind of silly and naive.

Second, regarding Rachel Day, I can't help but wonder if even Tom is beginning to get creeped out by her obsessiveness. Maybe she is reacting badly to him appearing to have a new lady in his life? Regardless, good for Tom for trying to reign in the craziness.

Oh, and P.S. Jamie, you brought a lot more attention to yourself by bringing this up now. I think it is safe to say everyone here had long forgotten about you and your fawning over Tom. Now you've just thrust yourself back into the spotlight. 

I'm actually a subscriber and I considered it disturbing, especially since his kids are moderators. Those kids just lost their mothers they dont want to see that. 

[formergothardite]

5 hours ago, SIngingforsupper said:

Rachel sent Tom some birthday presents, she did that annoying wrapping difficulty Tom used to do to Andrea. He was annoyed by it! Then he says Thomas will be the only mod. Creepy Rachel Day must have a bee in her bonnet.

 

 

That was really, really disturbing. But I find making his teen son moderator, like Andrea used to do, just as disturbing. These kids should have never been shouldered with reading awful Youtube comments, but now they have lost their mom and Thomas will have to be the one to moderate comments. Tom needs to have no comments if he can't find an adult to deal with them. 

The women fawning over him is creepy. I never understood the Andrea fawning, but telling a man who is neglecting his kids and whose wife just died that he is hot is just way over the line of sanity. In what world is that okay? 

[Olivia Marie]

58 minutes ago, formergothardite said:

That was really, really disturbing. But I find making his teen son moderator, like Andrea used to do, just as disturbing. These kids should have never been shouldered with reading awful Youtube comments, but now they have lost their mom and Thomas will have to be the one to moderate comments. Tom needs to have no comments if he can't find an adult to deal with them. 

The women fawning over him is creepy. I never understood the Andrea fawning, but telling a man who is neglecting his kids and whose wife just died that he is hot is just way over the line of sanity. In what world is that okay? 

On every level, all of it is just so wrong.......

[formergothardite]

I thought that Youtube made it so channels that feature children didn't have comments? I really feel like if Tom didn't have the comments he would drop Youtube. He would probably go to FB but at least he couldn't get ad money for exploiting his kids there. 

[Olivia Marie]

I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing, but I’m going to attempt to upload a screenshot I took from Tom’s video.   It was pretty close to the end.  They had dinner at a Chinese restaurant.  If this is against the rules and regulations, please delete.  Thank You ?

This is  what many, myself included, have been thinking.   He is beginning to pave the road so everyone will be ready when the new Madame is introduced.   Whenever that happens, let the scrappy cat fights begin.  Rachel Day will be the Leader of the Pack.  

4 minutes ago, Olivia Marie said:

I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing, but I’m going to attempt to upload a screenshot I took from Tom’s video.   It was pretty close to the end.  They had dinner at a Chinese restaurant.  If this is against the rules and regulations, please delete.  Thank You ?

This is  what many, myself included, have been thinking.   He is beginning to pave the road so everyone will be ready when the new Madame is introduced.   Whenever that happens, let the scrappy cat fights begin.  Rachel Day will be the Leader of the Pack.  

 

Edited November 10, 2019 by Olivia Marie

[mollysmom]

Rachel Day must be seething to lose her lofty position as moderator ? which makes my evil heart so very happy!!!

 

[Olivia Marie]

1 minute ago, mollysmom said:

Rachel Day must be seething to lose her lofty position as moderator ? which makes my evil heart so very happy!!!

 

It’s so fabulous  ???

[Renee]

Someone asked him during last evening's live when he stopped wearing his wedding ring.

Neither he nor Rachel answered.

[can'tstopwatching]

2 minutes ago, Renee said:

Someone asked him during last evening's live when he stopped wearing his wedding ring.

Neither he nor Rachel answered.

He has said before that he took it off pretty much immediately, maybe because it made him sad, I can't remember the reason

[Sloth]

8 hours ago, SIngingforsupper said:

Rachel sent Tom some birthday presents, she did that annoying wrapping difficulty Tom used to do to Andrea. He was annoyed by it! Then he says Thomas will be the only mod. Creepy Rachel Day must have a bee in her bonnet.

 

 

Did you notice he seemed gutted when most of it was magnets with pictures of Andrea and not toys/gadgets/more candy!

[mollysmom]

1 hour ago, can'tstopwatching said:

He has said before that he took it off pretty much immediately, maybe because it made him sad, I can't remember the reason

That's one of the few things that I just can't snark on him for. I honestly have no idea what I would do in that situation but I truly don't think there is a right or wrong as far as when to take off your wedding ring after your spouse dies. 

 

Sweet baby Jesus I can't believe I just defended him. Lol

[Justsum1twothree]

I can’t imagine wearing a wedding ring for almost twenty years then taking it off within the first few months of them passing. 

But then again he spoke of remarrying before she even died...

[WhatAlife]

In his latest random live he is sick with whatever virus the kids had. He seems astonished that he got it. He claims he never got kids’ sicknesses in the past. 
Makes me think he was physically distant from his kids in daily life before Andrea’s passing whenever she wasn’t filming him. 

[Giraffe]

29 minutes ago, WhatAlife said:

In his latest random live he is sick with whatever virus the kids had. He seems astonished that he got it. He claims he never got kids’ sicknesses in the past. 
Makes me think he was physically distant from his kids in daily life before Andrea’s passing whenever she wasn’t filming him. 

I’m convinced he’s spent more time with his kids since her death than he ever has before. Correction: he's spent more time physically present with his kids than before. He’s just as absent as he was but his neglect of them is obvious now.