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Putting on my Dale Gribble hat for a moment. I've got a wee theory for y'all. Thinking about her fascination with pain & suffering, adding in what someone up thread mentioned about it being a religious ideology... It makes me think of the wackos who flagellate themselves. 

It brings to mind a mixture of that practice & perhaps Munchausen syndrome. Maybe she did have issues, but instead of following physicians advice & get better, keep the suffering going, make it worse under the guise of natural medicine. (I still call bs on the parasites)

A. It gets you out of housework & childrearing. 

B. Suffering makes you more Godly aka, suffering as Christ suffered.

C. It garners massive attention & makes you popular. 

I mean she really thought that heart burn was heaven sent to keep her from overeating. And she's totally convinced that she's blessed & favored by God, from the martyrdom gained by her awful blog to all the grandchildren she takes credit for. She's absolutely a sadist & at this point a masochist as well, believing that her pains & issues sanctify her. 

 

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Lori it’s this kind of shit that gets people killed. People in abusive relationships tend to not know just how bad it is. The scripture is refusing to a women married to a non believer not someone who is abusive. 7975AEDD-76F5-4471-81B6-011B09C0177F.thumb.png.427dddd7c6ecf425335b808306b3ec67.png
Oh no she did not just use God and Christianity to minimise DV ...!

Lori Alexander is a fucking monster.
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2 minutes ago, hollyfeller said:

I don't get the obsession with suffering

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That’s not suffering for Christ though. God never called anyone to put up with abuse. Real martyrs, the ones who were killed because they didn’t denounce their faith, would agree. Unless he is beating her because she is Christian it’s not for Christ. 

I love how everyone acts like people always know who they are marrying. Most of the time they do but people change or sometimes hide who they are. My mom dated a guy, who she wanted to marry, for a few months. She thought he loved her and god. Turns out everything he told her was a lie. Some people are good liars. God would never want anyone to stay in a relationship like that. 

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Re: feminine, pretty clothes. What legalistic rule is this pray tell?

Meanwhile I'm sitting here wearing muddy rubber boots, long underwear and a torn tye-dye hoodie, because I'm waiting to feed our sled dogs. We got 8 inches of snow last night but it's wet and sloppy and at 34 degrees, it's not cold enough for me to gear up in anything warmer. As I was getting the food ready, my nearest neighbor drove by on his ATV and smiled and waved. He's probably just glad I was actually wearing clothes this time. LOL

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Going a little OT and recalling Lori’s hard-on for the blissful good old days, when everybody was in a constant state of ecstasy because of SAHMs:

I just finished reading Beverly Cleary’s memoir, “A Girl from Yamhill.” Cleary was born in 1913, and gives specific details of her childhood and teen years, including the crash of 1929 and the Depression. Her family did not become destitute as many others did, but they had to scrape by after her father lost his job, lucky enough to have a car to sell. The major tragedy of the Depression to her family was an emotional one: Her father was miserable, first unemployed and then in a job he hated, and her mother essentially checked out on an emotional level. The ill effects lasted years. 

Many of us here grew up on stories of the ways our parents or grandparents suffered through the Depression. I’m astounded that Lori seems to have no clue about what people endured back then.

 

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I think Lori needs to read up on serial killers. Quite a few were charming, well-liked men. They got a way with horrible crimes because people liked and respected them. In the same way, many abusers are charming and the wife will sometimes down play abusive behavior. I've seen abuse victims downplay behavior as a form of personal gaslighting, influenced by their abuser. It's almost an attempt to reconcile the idea that a person who is supposed to love you is actually hurting you. Therefore, "It's not really that bad right? I'm just being  dramatic like he says I am. Silly driven by emotions woman that I am". 

Lori is an abuser so of course she wants women to stay in abusive situations. It's beneficial to her as it plays to her kink. I believe she enjoys gaslighting women. 

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3 minutes ago, Sarah92 said:

I think Lori needs to read up on serial killers. Quite a few were charming, well-liked men. They got a way with horrible crimes because people liked and respected them. In the same way, many abusers are charming and the wife will sometimes down play abusive behavior. I've seen abuse victims downplay behavior as a form of personal gaslighting, influenced by their abuser. It's almost an attempt to reconcile the idea that a person who is supposed to love you is actually hurting you. Therefore, "It's not really that bad right? I'm just being  dramatic like he says I am. Silly driven by emotions woman that I am". 

Lori is an abuser so of course she wants women to stay in abusive situations. It's beneficial to her as it plays to her kink. I believe she enjoys gaslighting women. 

If a woman stayed with her violent husband because of the disgusting shit she writes and get's killed, Lori would wash her hands free of any guilt in no time. She would heavily blame the victim and tell the other readers submit harder, so you don't end up like the death woman.

 

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One thing I've noticed on Lori's page is that it appears that a large number of the men commenting are single fathers/ divorced. I wonder why? They're aggressive towards women and openly mock the ones that disagree. Lori gives them free range on their behavior as well. It creates an overall very negative atmosphere on her page. Now if it was women politely discussing beliefs that would be one thing. But her page is just sooo toxic. I've seen Ken scold women for their slightly less that charitable tone but men? Nah, let them call women useless, clueless, sluts. It doesn't matter to Ken or Lori. 

Also someone mentioned Ken talking about Islam, or at least his perception of it. Soo let me get this straight, Islam is supposedly awful towards women but somehow they also teach how marriage is supposed to be like? Do those things really got together? No, no they do not. 

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On 4/23/2019 at 12:46 AM, Pink Muffin said:

Here is the latest doodle from the godly mentor. I highlighted the part that perfectly sums up Lori's ministry

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Lori may be the least self aware woman to ever walk the earth.

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I honestly can't believe someone like Lori is married and I am single. But hey....I'd rather be single than married to Ken ?.

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27 minutes ago, Timetraveler said:

I honestly can't believe someone like Lori is married and I am single. But hey....I'd rather be single than married to Ken ?.

Especially when you consider that they both admit they were miserable for most of their marriage. I firmly believe Lori only had her “transformation” into super submissive Titus 2 woman because the last kid was almost grown up and she could see that Ken would be out the door the moment he wouldn’t have to pay child support. So she suddenly decided to stop being an utter bitch to him and, because she’s incapable of understanding nuance, decided that meant she must submit to him in everything and that every other woman in the world must too, despite the fact she spent the vast majority of her married years fighting with him, denying him sex, lying to him (birth control sabotage) and, again by her own admission, bitching about him to her father, her female friends, her children, and whoever else would listen.

She admits their marriage is transactional and he was close to fulfilling the most important part of his side of the contract (supporting Lori and the children while she (and the nanny and housekeeper) raised the kids).

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On 4/20/2019 at 10:42 PM, delphinium65 said:

I still want to know what Lori thinks about the rabies vaccine.  She's antivax, so she should refuse rabies shots if she's ever bitten by a rabid animal. I'd ask, but I've already been banned. 

This is such an excellent point/question.

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18 hours ago, SuperNova said:

I know I'm a little late to the UTI convo but I wanted to add my two cents. UTI test strips are only checking for the presence of white blood cells NOT infection. I had a situation with a doctor who kept prescribing antibiotics because my test strips kept coming back positive. Eventually I had a urine culture that had to be done at a lab and took several days. I had zero sign of infection except the white blood cells. After seeing a specialist it was found that I have interstitial cystitis. It basically feels like a bladder infection that doesn't go away. The crazy thing is because IC is an irritation (and sometimes ulcers!) of the bladder wall, anything acidic like cranberry can make it so much worse. It feels like pouring lemon juice on a cut. I wanted to mention this yesterday but I was having a bad flare up of IC and the UTI talk was freaking me out a little. I'm always worried that I'll get a UTI, not be able to tell the difference, and end up with a kidney infection. I'm much better today and wanted to share.

Take care of yourself @Curious ! I'm glad you're on the mend.

Thank you for sharing.  I'm sorry the posts were hard on you.  I'm glad you are feeling better today and could share :)

I saw my gyn yesterday and he thinks I might have <something I've forgotten the name of> that might be causing problems so he took cultures to test for whatever it was and he also took a urine sample to test as a precaution since I haven't had one to "clear" me after the hospital.  I did have blood cultures that came back negative, but he said it was good to retest urine as well just to be positive nothing is lurking and will eventually grow and cause problems.   He gave me a different kind of meds to take until the cultures come back to try to fix the whatever I can't recall the name of.

He also told me that it's a real problem in seniors because they will go to the ER or dr. and they will think it's dementia or a stroke so the UTI doesn't get treated as soon because they are thinking of other problems.

I go to drs. enough that I think I'm just going to start having a urine culture done every 6 months with my regular check ups to be on the safe side.

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1 hour ago, TeddyBonkers said:

Place your bets, ladies and gents- how long will this post stay up?

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Which post is this on? If its the abuse post from yesterday its gone already. 

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Today Lori is again assuming God is like her.  She doesn't give a damn if women are happy, so her god doesn't either.  

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I was out of town for a couple of days and I see Lori is doing the same crap again. But, I find it interesting that yesterday's post regarding men and careers has over 500 comments. I'm guessing Lori and her fangirl mods like the fun. Did anyone see if she deleted comments yesterday?

There are some new comments that I could see being deleted. A few comments mention husbands walking out in their wives, having disabled husbands who can't work and widows. 

This comment pissed me off.  My mother worked and I felt loved constantly. Also,  Ashley is just like Lori's other idiot fangirls who don't get that some mothers work to keep a roof over their family's heads, food on the table, and much needed resources like health insurance. It's always not about material items.  I'm pretty sure from looking at Ashley's FB page that she has plenty of nice things in her life and it doesn't appear she's a housewife.  I don't know if she's married. But, she works as a gospel singer and according to her website she also owns an event planning business. She has other comments saying that working women have driven down wages and men have to compete for jobs. 

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Ashley J. Wright- Christian -The battle is always material vs. maternal. Once you purchase the nice home, apartment, cars , tech and other debts it takes you down the debt spiral. Each expense makes it harder to afford staying home. I’ve seen children in my family flourish from being at home with mom. They may not have all of the material things (that fade away) in order to afford that lifestyle but they do feel loved constantly. The secret is teaching your children to be more pleasant to be around (then working wouldn’t seem like a better option). From experience the winning combo is showing them constant attention. They simply want to know you care.

 

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4 minutes ago, delphinium65 said:

Today Lori is again assuming God is like her.  She doesn't give a damn if women are happy, so her god doesn't either.  

God is love, is loving, "the greatest of these is love", etc. The main emphasis of Jesus' teachings (as I understand it) was basically "love one another as God loves you".

Lori cannot comprehend love. She's shown this time and again. She says she had to "learn to love" her children. She married Ken because he ticked off all the boxes on her checklist, not because she loved him. She never shows herself treating others in a loving way - she's always passive-aggressive about everything. She tried to kick her CAT hard enough that she injured herself when he moved and she kicked the wall instead. She beat a toddler, her own child, for several hours for spilling "raisans". She consistently ignored her children's wants/needs when it came to food, to the point that they begged Ken to share HIS food with them. She sat on vacation while her mother was dying. She seems to actively enjoy causing other women to suffer. When her own daughter was dealing with infertility, Lori posted things about "barrenness" and replied to her daughter's new puppy with "a baby would be better."

If Lori can't understand love, IMO she cannot understand God either. 

I'd be willing to bet she has some sort of personality disorder, and always has. 

Whatever is going on with her, Lori Alexander has no business whatsoever "mentoring" anyone at all, especially not with a religious emphasis.

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14 hours ago, wallysmommy said:

Queen of hypocrites admitted she wears skinny jeans!  

and has a pair of leggings...but she doesn't like them much, so they are OK> 

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14 minutes ago, SongRed7 said:

and has a pair of leggings...but she doesn't like them much, so they are OK> 

Well Ken has admitted that he can’t look away from leggings, maybe she wears them in the bedroom for him.

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11 minutes ago, lilith said:

Well Ken has admitted that he can’t look away from leggings, maybe she wears them in the bedroom for him.

Lustful Lori, Queen of Leggingland.

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13 hours ago, freealljs said:

I believe that you are right:  Ken has his own room.  I hope that Ken's room is full of color, pictures, decorations, a little messy, because Lori's room is sterile and (like her personality) boring.

And more evidence from this IG post a while back: https://www.instagram.com/p/Bud2zq5hl9z/

This post has Ken's name written all over it. 

I'm sure Ken's room isn't nearly as sterile as Lori's and his "stuff" bothers her.   Separate rooms work because she can simply the close the door and not have to see his messy room, etc.   And they certainly have lots for room. Their house has 6 bedrooms I seem to recall.  Sounds like one is turned into Ken's office.  That leaves 5 others. 

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there isn’t proof that all men think long term and all women think short term. Every person is different. I’m always letting long term goals for myself while my bf only thinks about today. His five year goal is to be at home lol. Before we started dating he bought an expensive car and didn’t have much of a savings. I always had a savings and I’m always planning for my future. Always trying to figure out how to better myself and figure out where I want to be, career wise. 

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1 hour ago, AlwaysDiscerning said:

Which post is this on? If its the abuse post from yesterday its gone already. 

It was on yesterday's abuse post. God forbid women have information that would save their lives.

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