Rebuttal to KEN ALEXANDER of The Transformed Wife (thetransformedwife.com)

[Curious]

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1hhOEg7jEQNZmt-KLp5UgEHWwu8LMbRf9/view

@AlwaysDiscerning but together this rebuttal (complete with screenshots) of a post where Ken Alexander, husband of Lori Alexander, the blogger at thetransformedwife.com (formerly Always Learning) lost his ever-loving mind over a woman named Rachelle O’Neal daring to post some truths about Lori.

This started out on the facebook page of Matt Walsh, was later deleted by Lori Alexander (thus removing all the comments made in response to her post there) and eventually ended up on a satire page called The Transformed Wife 2.0

Ken Alexander eventually went to the satire page and proceeded to try and mansplain what Rachelle was doing wrong for a number of days (it might still be going on, Ken has some staying power when it comes to trying to convince the little wimmins they are wrong, unlike when he has sex which apparently only takes 10 minutes and some lube (according to his wife, Lori Alexander).

Enjoy

[formergothardite]

Ken. He really, really, really hates when women prove him wrong. 

[jerkit]

So far Ken has not responded. Maybe a horse of truth diatribe on the blog today?

[Curious]

I imagine this stuff is eating them up.  People talking SO many places they can't control the narrative by deleting selectively and people talking back to a man. 

Where are my pearls and fainting couch?

[formergothardite]

8 minutes ago, Curious said:

Where are my pearls and fainting couch?

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I bet it is driving them insane that they can't just hit delete on this all. Makes me smile a bit to imagine their anger. 

[jerkit]

5 minutes ago, formergothardite said:

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I bet it is driving them insane that they can't just hit delete on this all. Makes me smile a bit to imagine their anger. 

Prediction: Ken will say something like "it's so sad you scoured  the internet to persecute us. You hate God and His ways." And then they'll act like it never happened. Or they'll literally never address it. 

[SongRed7]

1 hour ago, jerkit said:

So far Ken has not responded. Maybe a horse of truth diatribe on the blog today?

I think someone said he was traveling/out of town on business for 3 weeks. Perhaps he hasn't seen it yet. 

[AlwaysDiscerning]

Thanks for posting this on a separate thread. I should have thought to do that. I also heard on 2.0 that he was going to be gone for weeks.  Yes, they are going to say how pathetic I am that I have nothing better to do than work on that that. 

[delphinium65]

I wonder if Lori has seen it.  Yeah, I know, she claims that she doesn't read this stuff, but does anyone actually believe that?   

[SilverBeach]

Oh I bet Lori has seen it and has had to take to her bed because of it. Too many facts for her tiny brain to deal with, and the horse is not readily available to ride in and save the day!

[Curious]

Well it will be in google by the time he gets back so he will be able to find it easily then

[jerkit]

21 minutes ago, Curious said:

Well it will be in google by the time he gets back so he will be able to find it easily then

I had forgotten for a long time about google tactics. LOLOLOL for days. 

[feministxtian]

2 minutes ago, jerkit said:

I had forgotten for a long time about google tactics. LOLOLOL for days. 

Shouldn't that be "GOGGLE" tactics? 

***feeling snarky as hell today...had a blast fucking with the neighbors last night. 

[Four is Enough]

So. Much. Verbiage. So. Little. Sense.

[Curious]

3 hours ago, jerkit said:

I had forgotten for a long time about google tactics. LOLOLOL for days. 

*whispers* it's indexed already

 

[SueEllenMishke]

6 hours ago, Four is Enough said:

So. Much. Verbiage. So. Little. Sense.

I do believe we have Ken's new business motto 

[mango_fandango]

Why would anyone take seriously the rantings of a man who’s got a 70’s pornstache going on?? Shame he doesn’t have a mullet, that’d be even better.

[Curious]

The first entry in my newest google alert

 

[Bretta]

WOW. Thanks for sharing the document, but I'm greatly disturbed at the moment.  That post about the woman who had 11 children is utterly, completely callous and cruel and the worst part is that it's not the only one. I feel for the women who read that.

Secondly, from my own theological view, the Pearls' idea that women must hate marital relations and only do it out of duty is ridiculous. If Christian sex was just about one party having fun, then honestly Eve would not need to have been created. Adam could have had all the fun by himself. Marriage is not about a selfish pleasurefest. Perhaps in a sense, women who do this try to put themselves on a "I'm better than you pedestal" - See, I hate sex SO much but I do it for my husband and I SACRIFICE myself on his altar every day. When two people get together, it's about TWO people, not one. 

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Lori, you probably read this page, so I thought to write a sincere appeal to you. Can you just stop and think about what effects words can have? Maybe you don't always mean for some things to be taken to extremes but that's exactly what people do. That's why we have to be careful about what we say and what we imply. Words can have terrible consequences. The Apostle James says that the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity. In fact, he suggested that not too many people become leaders and teachers because they have to be responsible to God for what they teach.

 

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If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body. (James 3:17)

No, disagreeing with you doesn't mean we hate God. I love Jesus, but I don't agree with your message because I feel that it is unbiblical and have no hint of the grace and love of Jesus, only the hate and judgmentalism Jesus specifically told us not to have.

I honestly  care about those who read your posts and who get this wrong idea about God, about salvation and about being a Christian. I hurt for them, because words hurt and can bring condemnation. Jesus never came to bring guilt and condemnation (John 3:12) , to put burdens on people that he never carried. Jesus was the opposite, in fact. He gave more than we can ever give back.

So please, I beg you, think about what you write. Maybe if you've  done damage, the best thing to do is stop doing more damage. I'm someone who has been hurt and damaged by similar teachings and it's a really hard thing to overcome.

 

[Curious]

I thought it might be fun for a little trip down memory lane.  Let us go back in time to 2014 (has it really been 4 years since @Ken visited us?!?!) when the horse of TRUTH rode into Free Jinger to tell us how we had it all wrong.

When his charms did not work on us and big mean me wouldn't do his bidding (remove a thread about Lori) he galloped off to Google (or Goggle in Ken's parlance) and tried to bully them into making me remove the thread (on threats of legal action LOL)

 

[Howl]

I don't follow LorKen, so don't know if this was posted in the past, but even the U.K. publication The Guardian/Daily Mail was on to the Lori/Ken gig in 2016: 

Blogger is blasted over her 'outdated' advice for a happy marriage as she urges women to 'do your housework cheerfully'

• Lori Alexander, from California, often offers her tip on marriage advice 
• In her latest post, she tells women not to expect their husbands to help out 
• Instead, she tells wives to 'do your housework cheerfully'
• Her post has gone viral with more than 75,000 shares in three days
• One wrote: 'The 1950's called, they want their sexist gender politics back.'

So it's not like FJ is the only one to criticize Miss Lori, Ken. 

[Loveday]

4 hours ago, Curious said:

I thought it might be fun for a little trip down memory lane.  Let us go back in time to 2014 (has it really been 4 years since @Ken visited us?!?!) when the horse of TRUTH rode into Free Jinger to tell us how we had it all wrong.

When his charms did not work on us and big mean me wouldn't do his bidding (remove a thread about Lori) he galloped off to Google (or Goggle in Ken's parlance) and tried to bully them into making me remove the thread (on threats of legal action LOL)

 

Whatever happened to OkToBeTakei? I almost, sort of, miss that canned chicken avatar!

 

ETA I feel like I've asked this question before and gotten a perfectly good answer. If so, just ignore me. 

[Howl]

41 minutes ago, Loveday said:

Whatever happened to OkToBeTakei? I almost, sort of, miss that canned chicken avatar!

Here ya go -- a can giving birth to dinner: 

[Loveday]

2 minutes ago, Howl said:

Here ya go -- a can giving birth to dinner: 

You are too kind, @Howl. No, really. Way. Too. Kind. 

[feministxtian]

@Howl thank you, sincerely, for that. You just don't know how much I appreciate that. It'll help with dieting today.