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Maybe that's why she demands a man for whom grammar is a strong point. He can be her editor.

Can someone link to the disastrous mission trip?

Here's a thread discussing it:

viewtopic.php?f=8&t=24734

And some of her blog posts on it:

itsjustraquel.com/2015/01/i-have-returned-from-peru.html

itsjustraquel.com/2014/12/my-voyages-peru.html

itsjustraquel.com/2015/01/raquelinperutake2-christmas-with-family.html

itsjustraquel.com/2015/01/raquelinperutake2-part-2-yungay.html

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Maybe I should hook Raquel up with Mark, my MRA-ish ex. Because from some of the stuff she comes out with, she comes across uncannily like a female version of him.

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Here's a thread discussing it:

viewtopic.php?f=8&t=24734

And some of her blog posts on it:

itsjustraquel.com/2015/01/i-have-returned-from-peru.html

itsjustraquel.com/2014/12/my-voyages-peru.html

itsjustraquel.com/2015/01/raquelinperutake2-christmas-with-family.html

itsjustraquel.com/2015/01/raquelinperutake2-part-2-yungay.html

omg, I know someone involved in that mission. I can't believe the things she's claiming (and I'm only one page into it) really happened without anyone putting a stop to it asap.

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Didn't she date a guy who drank? There was an IG pic of her and a guy and guy had a beer.

Raquel claims she has never dated anyone. She just does stuff with guys that looks like dating but according to her standards isn't really dating. For her it isn't considered dating unless they eventually get married. Raquel admits that she drinks, so I don't think she is opposed to drinking.

For all those who are new to Raquel, you must read her love story with Jesus.

itsjustraquel.com/2013/07/my-love-story-with-jesus-testimony.html

And I have to mention Curious' favorite Raquel creation, the magical penis ferret.

http://freejinger.yuku.com/reply/105771 ... ply-105771

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omg, I know someone involved in that mission. I can't believe the things she's claiming (and I'm only one page into it) really happened without anyone putting a stop to it asap.

I read that thread back in March (came late to the party as usual) but it was the Scripture Union wasn't it? That surprised me. Did anyone ever contact them?

There is photographic evidence of inappropriate behavior with those boys/young men. It may be fine for Raquel to cuddle her male friends like that. But on a "mission" trip interacting with traumatized and possibly sexually abused teens living in an orphanage - No! Just, NO!

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I read that thread back in March (came late to the party as usual) but it was the Scripture Union wasn't it? That surprised me. Did anyone ever contact them?

There is photographic evidence of inappropriate behavior with those boys/young men. It may be fine for Raquel to cuddle her male friends like that. But on a "mission" trip interacting with traumatized and possibly sexually abused teens living in an orphanage - No! Just, NO!

That's what was linked. I'm not usually one for interfering in people's lives, but in this case, I think it needs/ed to be reported.

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I just read her post just before this one. itsjustraquel.com/2015/04/an-open-letter-to-three-guys-i-almost.html

She and Guy #1 She "Almost" Dated disagrees on something, then "mutually" agreed a relationship wouldn't work. Who wants to bet me? I say that what really happened is she said it's not going to work since Jar Jar Binks IS the best Star Wars character, and she can't be with someone who disagrees, and that guy realized she's a nutcase if something so minor is so important, and so agreed that it's not going to work.

Guy #2 She "Almost" Dated does sound like a dick. He had someone else, and she was the secret girl on the side. I've been there, and it sucked. So I feel for her on that one.

Guy #3 She "Almost" Dated told her he's a needy being, and that was the end, though she goes on to say we're all needy. She said he was pushy, possessive, and controlling before that, aka being a "leader," which she claims to want. he actually doesn't say she takes issue with those traits.

It sounds like she wants a pet, not a boyfriend. Her rules are so stringent that a mere disagreement is enough to end it with a kind, caring person she's attracted to. And she admits everyone's needy to an extent, but she doesn't want needy.

I think she doesn't really want a relationship, and this is her way of making sure it won't happen. At least right now Though she'll develop a bad rep that'll work against her if she wants a relationship later.

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It took me a minute to comprehend that this the mission trip was recent and the boys were not kids she was on the trip with. I thought it was a group of teens who were hanging out after they labored all day building houses, or wells or gardens or something. Do her parents read her blog?

I laughed out loud about the penis ferrit. My kids were asking me why. I'm sorry I just now discoverd her.

As far as her bucket list goes I think she was trying really hard to sound cute and charming. She sees herself as Elizabeth Bennet, but she is really Just Lydia Bennet. If she wants her Prince Charming she will have to really up her game. I'm not insulting her looks but her look. She does not look polished or sophisticated or well put together. She does not seem like she would be much of a conversationalist either. It's a skill a person can achieve. I read an excerpt somewhere from a woman who ran a very high end escort service. She mentioned that her girls did not have to be gorgeous but look well put together, and required them to read the newspaper everyday. I doubt she would keep up in the circles she seems to want to be in.

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Yeah, I'm thinking the reason none of your friends know you and this guy were a "thing" Raquel, is because you weren't. And that last line right there was him nicely trying to tell you he wasn't interested in you. You did not get the hint at all.

This sadly might not have been the way of it. The last guy I dated before my husband was like this, and I didn't know it. We were enough of a thing that we were open about dating at work (we were co-workers), and took trips together. I even met his family. At his girlfriend!

But he had a reason he wanted us to be a secret outside of the office and his house and anywhere other people who might know is could see us. He said that the other career he was working on (genuinely) relied on female fans thinking he's single. This about how girls go crazier when their crush is single, then back off if he's hooked up. There's a reason a lot of Hollywood A-listers keep their dating lives under wraps to the point that sometimes they're married years before fans know. My ex isn't an A-lister, but he's working on a music career.

Turns out he had another girlfriend all along. He was telling her the same things as me. They were even dating longer. He and I dated over a year.

Since that wasn't the first time I was the other person kept secret from friends, fool me twice, shame on me.

Long story in a nut shell: Raquel might really have been led on, and she was s foolish teen too taken up with dating a hot guy. I was in my 20's and still got taken. I'm going to take her at her word on that guy.

She is bitter about this. It doesn't seem like they ever dated and he made it clear from the beginning he wasn't interested in her. I don't think this is the bitterness of a broken heart, it is the bitterness of a bruised ego. Raquel is furious that he didn't like her and chose someone else.

I agree. I think she was hurt, but she clearly hasn't moved on. The first big cheaters I had and I almost got married. I met both of the cheaters' families. Far more intertwined than teen dating. It took less time than it's taken Raquel for me to get over the losers. It doesn't sound like she and the guy were remotely serious yet (though it sucks to be the girl on the side), and she's still bitter about it. Get over it. You break up with some, you get broken up with by some. And since you say this was only "almost dating," GET OVER IT.

With anyone else I would probably believe this, but this is Raquel, the girl who had a hysterical fit and made her parents go have a conference with another girl's parents claiming that the girl was spreading horrible lies about Raquel when all the girl had done was say that she thought Raquel like a guy. And when all her sexting stuff came out it ended up that the girl was right!

Oh my god! She really did that? Her parents sound like really crappy, push-over parents.

That entire blog post seemed like it was just trying to get back at these guys and make them look bad while she looked like a saint.

Taylor Swift is calling. She wants her schtick back.

This is what she says to her future boyfriend:

She would reject anyone who would challenge her and while she should have high standards she needs to make sure they aren't unreasonable. Her eleventy point list about what she doesn't like in guys shows that she is completely unreasonable.

So basically Raquel wants a robot who comes immediately when she wants him, doesn't ever need her when she doesn't want him around, puts up with her being childish, mean and selfish while never being those things and who says he is a leader while really letting her make all the decisions. There is no human who lives up to her expectations.

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It took me a minute to comprehend that this the mission trip was recent and the boys were not kids she was on the trip with. I thought it was a group of teens who were hanging out after they labored all day building houses, or wells or gardens or something. Do her parents read her blog?

I laughed out loud about the penis ferrit. My kids were asking me why. I'm sorry I just now discoverd her.

As far as her bucket list goes I think she was trying really hard to sound cute and charming. She sees herself as Elizabeth Bennet, but she is really Just Lydia Bennet. If she wants her Prince Charming she will have to really up her game. I'm not insulting her looks but her look. She does not look polished or sophisticated or well put together. She does not seem like she would be much of a conversationalist either. It's a skill a person can achieve. I read an excerpt somewhere from a woman who ran a very high end escort service. She mentioned that her girls did not have to be gorgeous but look well put together, and required them to read the newspaper everyday. I doubt she would keep up in the circles she seems to want to be in.

This is such an accurate description.

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Raquel claims she has never dated anyone. She just does stuff with guys that looks like dating but according to her standards isn't really dating. For her it isn't considered dating unless they eventually get married. Raquel admits that she drinks, so I don't think she is opposed to drinking.

For all those who are new to Raquel, you must read her love story with Jesus.

itsjustraquel.com/2013/07/my-love-story-with-jesus-testimony.html

And I have to mention Curious' favorite Raquel creation, the magical penis ferret.

http://freejinger.yuku.com/reply/105771 ... ply-105771

Oh, my sweet lord! How could I have forgotten the magical ferret! :lol: :cracking-up: :lol:

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I agree with FormerGothardite. Although I'd just boil it down to: Raquel is a spoiled, entitled, self-centered, boy-crazy little brat. But she loves God and should probably just stick to having Jesus as her boyfriend.

What does Raquel have to offer in any relationship? I suppose she's reasonably attractive looking (in terms of conventional ideas of pretty) and is in her child-bearing years (if potential boyfriends are interested in reproducing in the future.)

Other than that I'm stumped. Apparently she is too because she never seems to address ways in which she could improve herself. And there is a lot of room for improvement.

Weren't they the people who bought her the horse she neglected to death, or almost to death? Her parents fail so hard.

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From what I saw, her family all look pretty dark-complected, but I did come across this picture from her parents' wedding:

instagram.com/p/ucUhkqw4cb/

1) Am I the only one who thinks her mother looks a lot like Nina Dobrev in that picture?

I can see it a bit.

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In other news the band Raquel started didn't last long enough to sing their first song together. It wasn't Raquel's fault, it was the other people for not being dedicated like they should(or realizing Raquel is a crazy control freak). She is in another band now. No songs from them yet.

WHAT?! But... but... they were on their way to great things! They had official colors and everything!

ETA: And I was very distressed when I read about the horse. I had changed my avatar to pay homage to Miss Raquel and her god-given horse.

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WHAT?! But... but... they were on their way to great things! They had official colors and everything!

ETA: And I was very distressed when I read about the horse. I had changed my avatar to pay homage to Miss Raquel and her god-given horse.

It is hard to believe that with colors, coffee mugs and an intro video they didn't make it. They got the important things done first and left the minor things music till last. Can't think of why this didn't work. :shrug:

I sure hope Raquel's horse is living a happy life where his owner provides water and doesn't let him munch on poisonous plants.

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It is hard to believe that with colors, coffee mugs and an intro video they didn't make it. They got the important things done first and left the minor things music till last. Can't think of why this didn't work. :shrug:

I sure hope Raquel's horse is living a happy life where his owner provides water and doesn't let him munch on poisonous plants.

I have a perverse desire to acquire one of those coffee mugs. And I would use it for non-coffee related things, like holding pencils or vodka. But no coffee would ever darken its glossy, glazed interior. :nenner:

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Here's a thread discussing [the mission trip]:

viewtopic.php?f=8&t=24734

And some of her blog posts on it:

itsjustraquel.com/2015/01/i-have-returned-from-peru.html

itsjustraquel.com/2014/12/my-voyages-peru.html

itsjustraquel.com/2015/01/raquelinperutake2-christmas-with-family.html

itsjustraquel.com/2015/01/raquelinperutake2-part-2-yungay.html

I somehow missed that she had been to a home for boys and that she had loved-bombed several kids into allowing her to abuse the power and access she had been given.

Her actions regarding the teenagers; hugging and petting - maybe she does not understand boundaries.

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The thing about her list, besides the obvious snark value, is that very little of it is Biblically-based. And you would think that would be important to, um, God's daughter. I'll rewrite it for her so it can line up better with her professed beliefs.

"The guy who wants to date me must:

1. Love Jesus.

2. Have a sound understanding of theology/doctrine and be able to defend his faith.

3. Have some sort of job prospects/career plans.

4. Understand the importance of family.

I'd also prefer it if he didn't do drugs, smoke, drink or swear to excess, gamble, play video games constantly, stare at or otherwise disrespect other women. The rest of the things are totally negotiable because they are basically crazy and I need a reality check."

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Knowing that Raquel is a staunch Calvinist, I'm guessing that could be what she and that guy she "didn't date" disagreed over...just a thought. The way she talks about it makes it sound like it was a doctrinal issue. But then again, if it were a doctrinal issue, I don't think she would have obscured it at all. Perhaps it had something to do with kissing before the wedding day or her sexual purity b/c of all those nasty sexts...

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Raquel, its great to have standards, but there comes a point where youre excluding the entire population of the world and should probably just get a ton of cats instead. Or maybe knowing the neglected horse, just get a plant.

I think that she is quite vulnerable and lonely under all of her egotism, and pgenuinely doesn't understand that people don't like her because of the way she treats them. I see her as the sort of person who will easily jump into a relationship with a psychopath who has all that superficial charm and ability to act like they are her perfect guy. She is so desperate for love that she scares away all the decent guys, and will probably overlook some of this stuff on her list if a guy was nice to her.

Actually, she's had some nice guys interested in her. I don't think she likes the ones that are easy to get and seem too interested.

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Knowing that Raquel is a staunch Calvinist, I'm guessing that could be what she and that guy she "didn't date" disagreed over...just a thought. The way she talks about it makes it sound like it was a doctrinal issue. But then again, if it were a doctrinal issue, I don't think she would have obscured it at all. Perhaps it had something to do with kissing before the wedding day or her sexual purity b/c of all those nasty sexts...

I think that Guy 1 was that guy who she used to hang out with all the time and whose blog was The Anonymous Antagonist. I think he was a Calvinist too, but he wasn't homeschooled. I can see it being a huge deal to Raquel if he wouldn't admit that homeschooling is always superior to public/private school. He also was huge action movie fan and I bet that would annoy her. He was really into Raquel.

I just realized that she doesn't have a link for her "Guy's Point of View" posts. I know he was one of the first guys she interviewed and I was trying to find it and I can't it.

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She doesn't want a real guy. She wants a toy that will boost her ego when she needs it and that she can stick in a box in her closet when she doesn't.... So, basically, she wants a vibrator that grants self-esteem boosting affirmations along with orgasms.

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She doesn't want a real guy. She wants a toy that will boost her ego when she needs it and that she can stick in a box in her closet when she doesn't.... So, basically, she wants a vibrator that grants self-esteem boosting affirmations along with orgasms.

Can you imagine the fortune that would be made if someone actually invented something like that? :cracking-up:

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Can you imagine the fortune that would be made if someone actually invented something like that? :cracking-up:

There's this: iheartchaos.com/post/9100301287/my-little-secret-talking-vibrator-yes-its-a

I haven't watched the video included at the link in a long time, but it's nsfw and hilarious, iirc.

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There's this: iheartchaos.com/post/9100301287/my-little-secret-talking-vibrator-yes-its-a

I haven't watched the video included at the link in a long time, but it's nsfw and hilarious, iirc.

Am I the only one who's seriously creeped out by this?

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