In which CM "refuses to engage" FJ

[jerkit]

Today CM rails on Sheila (again) and says even we have some truth.

I think someone felt a little sad about his lack of comments.

[polecat]

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when you consider the shit he's done to her including locking her up in a cabin it's shocking she is terrified of US!

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I don't find it all that shocking. He's systematically broken her down, gaslighted her and drilled into her that she is crazy and he is her only ally. He's messed with her mind so much that she doesn't know which way is up and would believe him if he said the sun was made of strawberries. So of course when he tells her that some rabid feminists on a message board were out to get her, she's going to believe him.

Or, and this is also a real possibility, her fear is about as authentic as the move to Alaska. iow -- he pulled it out of his ass.

[FJismyheadship]

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There was a message board I belonged to. One of the members claimed to live near me, and it was kinda creepy. I googled their username, and found their facebook page. I didn't do anything with the information, just kept it stored in the back of my mind in case I ever saw that person. I never saw them, so thats probably a good thing.

I love hidden posting.

[usmcmom]

Robert,

I think it's very interesting how you smack the hands of your readers about speaking against the Alexanders, then proceed to specifically call out Sheila. Aren't you the one who has repeatedly said "if we were neighbors, I'd treat you with love and respect." Is this how you treat your neighbor, Robert? By shaming them?

What, exactly, is the purpose of bringing up Sheila's relationship with her husband? It's like you are trying to "slut shame" her. Is her past somehow more shameful than your own porn addiction? Because she doesn't believe exactly as you do, is her "sin" greater than yours and worthy of public shaming? Are you implying that her past makes her unqualified to give sound marriage advice?

Because I'd much rather take advice from someone like Sheila than a porn-addicted wife abuser like yourself.

It really is unbecoming, Robert, for you to be so threatened by another blogger - a female one at that - that you have to be so vile. It's not the behavior I'd expect from the strongest man in the world who has wrestled bulls and won. Your insecurity is actually quite pathetic.

[jerkit]

Robert,

I think it's very interesting how you smack the hands of your readers about speaking against the Alexanders, then proceed to specifically call out Sheila. Aren't you the one who has repeatedly said "if we were neighbors, I'd treat you with love and respect." Is this how you treat your neighbor, Robert? By shaming them?

What, exactly, is the purpose of bringing up Sheila's relationship with her husband? It's like you are trying to "slut shame" her. Is her past somehow more shameful than your own porn addiction? Because she doesn't believe exactly as you do, is her "sin" greater than yours and worthy of public shaming? Are you implying that her past makes her unqualified to give sound marriage advice?

Because I'd much rather take advice from someone like Sheila than a porn-addicted wife abuser like yourself.

It really is unbecoming, Robert, for you to be so threatened by another blogger - a female one at that - that you have to be so vile. It's not the behavior I'd expect from the strongest man in the world who has wrestled bulls and won. Your insecurity is actually quite pathetic.

She went from a woman who encouraged christian women to have sex with their husbands and see if it wouldn’t turn their marriage around, and would occasionally talk to women about other ways they could be a better wife, to a blogger who then began tell women for the last couple of years how to run (rule) their family (um..husband), household and fix their sinful husbands. Where three times a week we would pick apart husbands.

I've read Sheila's blog off and on for two years now and have NEVER seen what CM is describing. He's really a bold-faced liar. I still don't really understand why he's latched onto Sheila and continually tries to "bring her to repentance." It makes zero sense.

[church_of_dog]

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I love hidden posting.

Me too!

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And now I think I will log out and peruse this thread just to see what these posts look like from the general public's perspective :lol:

[JillsFlowerHeadband]

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I don't understand how he's still claiming his wife is scared after he outed them.

I don't think CM is the sharpest in the drawer, but I don't think he's an idiot. And even if he'd deny it, I think he knows that FJ posters aren't either. So,

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:wtf:

At least he's trying to tone down the language. :wink-kitty:

I've decided that CM isn't just a , he's the entire flippin' toolbox.

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*insert obligatory hidden comment here* :P

[Grimalkin]

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I never claimed to not be creepy. But I've only ever spoken to or at him on this board. I've never PMed him on FJ, I've never contacted him outside this board in any fashion and I've never shared any of his information publicly. I've also never spent any money or used any professional tools to get more information- even though if you have money or contacts, you can get a TON more on a person than I've gotten.

Here's why his claims are totally fucking bogus: showing up to his house and stalking him isn't just very illegal, it would involve considerable time and expense on an FJer's part. If we were going to BREAK THE LAW to harass him... I'd think there's lots of stuff we'd do first. So we're sitting here making fun of his chip-snorfling ass and he can't handle it, but he also doesn't want to look like a whiny baby in front of his followers. Because he's SO whiny and useless he can't even admit to himself that he's whiny and useless.

Cry more, Cabinetman.

Edited to remove specifics because I don't want to get Curious sued.

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"I never claimed to not be creepy" is one of the best lines I ever read here LOL!

[thoughtful]

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"I never claimed to not be creepy" is one of the best lines I ever read here LOL!

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It sounds like a great first line for a Halloween-themed Country-Western song.

[nelliebelle1197]

newsflash, cm: you are not a speshul snowflake. we snark on a lot of fundie blogs. we're not about to hop on a plane and stalk them irl, much less your pathetic ass. you're far from the most discussed blog anyway, so stop feeling so sooper speshul you fucking arrogant dipshit.

also,

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suck a dick

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People here have not even tracked down and physically confronted wack job abusers like Michael Pearl. Why would we track down LRC? If he didn't argue back and have to have the last word, interest in him would be long dead

[church_of_dog]

Me too!

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And now I think I will log out and peruse this thread just to see what these posts look like from the general public's perspective :lol:

That was a totally worthwhile and funny thing to do! :lol: :lol:

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I recommend it!

[Tiger Lily]

I've read Sheila's blog off and on for two years now and have NEVER seen what CM is describing. He's really a bold-faced liar. I still don't really understand why he's latched onto Sheila and continually tries to "bring her to repentance." It makes zero sense.

Agreed! I've only read Sheila for a little over a year and if I'd gone by what Robert has said, I would have believed she is a raging feminist with a rotten marriage. In fact, the opposite is true. While looking through an older post, I was shocked to learn that despite a degree in Women's Studies (or something similar), Sheila said she does NOT consider herself to be a feminist. In addition, she seems to have a healthy marriage (I've seen a video of how she and the hubs interact). I've also seen videos of her girls who seem to have their heads screwed on right. That, to me, says a lot about the parents. Finally, Sheila has too much class to retaliate against others or brag about her own accomplishments. And honestly, she doesn't need to since she's not the needy, insecure one. Robert, otoh, needs to put others down to build himself up as pathetic as that is. I feel sorry for Amanda who deserves so much better.

[Firiel]

Agreed! I've only read Sheila for a little over a year and if I'd gone by what Robert has said, I would have believed she is a raging feminist with a rotten marriage. In fact, the opposite is true. While looking through an older post, I was shocked to learn that despite a degree in Women's Studies (or something similar), Sheila said she does NOT consider herself to be a feminist. In addition, she seems to have a healthy marriage (I've seen a video of how she and the hubs interact). I've also seen videos of her girls who seem to have their heads screwed on right. That, to me, says a lot about the parents. Finally, Sheila has too much class to retaliate against others or brag about her own accomplishments. And honestly, she doesn't need to since she's not the needy, insecure one. Robert, otoh, needs to put others down to build himself up as pathetic as that is. I feel sorry for Amanda who deserves so much better.

Probably because Sheila posts things like this guest blog post: tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2014/10/peek-inside-bloggers-marriage/

In this post, a husband deals with his wife's emotional/mental issues (anorexia, for one) by taking a time out and going for a drive himself when she was out of control instead of locking her in a cabin.

Tut tut... there goes Sheila, promoting women's sins again! :roll:

[lawfulevil]

There are a whole lot of ladies on Weddingbee who wish their boyfriends would "refuse to engage" the way Cabinetman is with us.

[usmcmom]

He's got a new post up and I have two things to say about it:

1) I wish my internet service was as good as his. Maybe I should move to Alaska

2)

[FJismyheadship]

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Does anyone ever feel like using this when your in Chatter even though you KNOW nobody who isnt a member can't look in there? Although I suppose thats just the paranoia that whoever I might be talking about also has an FJ account. Wait, can Ken or Box Boy see Chatter?

[Firiel]

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Does anyone ever feel like using this when your in Chatter even though you KNOW nobody who isnt a member can't look in there? Although I suppose thats just the paranoia that whoever I might be talking about also has an FJ account. Wait, can Ken or Box Boy see Chatter?

Ken can, but only if he's logged in, which he hasn't been in AGES.

[Firiel]

I hope he's not literally snipping the goats.

I'm pretty sure standard practice is to (essentially) rubber band the testes and wait for them to fall off.

That's how my dad did it with our cattle growing up, anyway. Once, he only got one in the band, so we had a one-balled steer/bull that year.

[salex]

I hope he's not literally snipping the goats.

I'm pretty sure standard practice is to (essentially) rubber band the testes and wait for them to fall off.

That's how my dad did it with our cattle growing up, anyway. Once, he only got one in the band, so we had a one-balled steer/bull that year.

Back in the day we used elastration for the lambs, img]http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/d/d9/Elastrator_rings.JPG

We clamped the calves and cut the pigs.

I am sometimes curious where CM hangs out that he knows all these neutered men. It must be more common around where he lives than here.

[Mango]

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Banding is one method but most of the folks I know raising goats prefer burdizzo- it basically is using a special tool to crush the spermatic cords. Or something. I am eating homemade meatballs for dinner as soon as the timer goes off so I decided not to google for useful links...

eagerly awaiting the next installment of crazy.

[lawfulevil]

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Today's post is just a bunch of Cabinetman trying to "prove" I'm wrong about him- notice there's references to how much he shells out in business insurance (and calls having insurance the "neutered way", of course). He's also trying to "prove" they don't just have a couple horses and therefore it's a-okay for him to be taking farm write-offs and subsidies in his taxes.

Except if he's really got all the insurance required, why NOT pay the $60ish a year to have a contractor's license? If nothing else, you're automatically saying "no" to a lot of opportunities by not having one. You're also not continuously licensed, which is going to show up if you ever start installing again, and customers will probably wonder why. I know if I were hiring someone to do something as expensive as build me custom cabinets, I'd seriously reconsider hiring someone who casually told me they just quit doing their own installs for years on end. I'd wonder why, wouldn't you? I don't believe that he's just fabricating anyway, nothing on his business website implied that in any way. Lots of pictures of gorgeous INSTALLED cabinets, though.

And goats seem like a weird livestock pick, unless you just want something to hang out with the horses. Goat meat isn't that popular, and I can't see Cabinetman milking ANYTHING, let alone a goat. It doesn't look like their property gets enough brush to warrant keeping a herd for pasture management. So assuming he even HAS goats, wtf is he doing with them? I don't know enough about goats (unlike gold panning) to definitively say he DOESN'T have any, but suddenly going on about your "goat herd" when you're called out about fibbing on your taxes seems suspect to me.

Also dumbfuck, "pink" has not always coded for girly. It's just a color. It's not sapping the testosterone from manly man football players. Get real. My god, how fragile men are in your world!

[salex]

I don't know where he lives, but goats are becoming ever more popular. Driving through Texas we see quite a few where they weren't 10 years ago. My youngest sister and her family in KS raise and show goats... the meat has become more popular over the last 5 years. It is interesting how much they have taken off for cheese and for meat.

[RosyDaisy]

Goat stew is delicious! YUM!

[lawfulevil]

I can't wait for the next thread- "In Which CM Shows Goats".

[bionicmlle]

MOAR FETA!