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An article in US Weekly quotes the Jslaves book: "G-d has created us to have natural physical desires towards men. We thank G-d for making us normal." - Jill. Or maybe Jessa. It's unspecified.

 

Not that this is any kind of shocker, but I threw up a little in my mouth nonetheless.

 

(Note about the dash: it's a thing some Jews do. I'm one of them. It's about sacred names, etc. More about it if you ask.)

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i'd heard about this and like you said it's not surprising but it is horrible and makes me feel bad for Michelle's sister and any other LGBT people that have contact with the Duggars.

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Normal is a redundant statement. We really can't base it on anything.

If these girls had the opportunity to discover language and deep thought... they may realize saying stuff like this is horrible!

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Normal meaning what?? Only physically desires? That's not what normal should mean
plus most people will have some kink or other if he

They explored

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An article in US Weekly quotes the Jslaves book: "G-d has created us to have natural physical desires towards men. We thank G-d for making us normal." - Jill. Or maybe Jessa. It's unspecified.

Of course they would be thankful. How terrifying it would be to be any form of LBGQT anywhere near the Duggars and their kind.

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Im a lesbian......but I am really not surprised they are glad they aren't gay. Growing up in a family like that, being gay would be another thing stacked against them to make their life miserable. Even with the stupid courtship rules, being straight at least means theres a chance of Daddy finding a compatible stranger, if youre gay, not so much. Its either a miserable marriage and sex with a man whether you want to or not, or having your family hate you.

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An article in US Weekly quotes the Jslaves book: "G-d has created us to have natural physical desires towards men. We thank G-d for making us normal." - Jill. Or maybe Jessa. It's unspecified.

Not that this is any kind of shocker, but I threw up a little in my mouth nonetheless.

(Note about the dash: it's a thing some Jews do. I'm one of them. It's about sacred names, etc. More about it if you ask.)

If I give them the benefit of the doubt, they might not have been thinking of homosexuality at all when they said that, and what they meant was "Sexual desires are normal and not something to be ashamed of, and we even thank G-d that we have them." As opposed to other fundies who think that sexual desire is based in sin.

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I took the comment as reassuring girls that feeling an attraction toward a guy and having sexual desires are normal and not sinful. There is so much NO in their world, and so much emphasis on purity, accountability, and avoidance of sin and lust, that I thought they were just attempting to tell readers that the Duggar girls are like anyone else. Having an interest in sex is not bad, it's normal. It just needs to be handled in the right way-their way-but it isn't bad to have the feelings. Simply channel them into a 3 month courtship/engagement/wedding and you're all set!

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An article in US Weekly quotes the Jslaves book: "G-d has created us to have natural physical desires towards men. We thank G-d for making us normal." - Jill. Or maybe Jessa. It's unspecified.

Not that this is any kind of shocker, but I threw up a little in my mouth nonetheless.

(Note about the dash: it's a thing some Jews do. I'm one of them. It's about sacred names, etc. More about it if you ask.)

I do it too, but I'm not really sure why. I know that you're not allowed to deface the Hebrew name of G-d, but I'm not sure why that transfers over to the English word which sounds completely different. The way "G-d" is pronounced sounds exactly like the Hebrew name "Gad" which is just one of the 12 tribes and that name is fine to deface. So why do we do it?

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I do it too, but I'm not really sure why. I know that you're not allowed to deface the Hebrew name of G-d, but I'm not sure why that transfers over to the English word which sounds completely different. The way "G-d" is pronounced sounds exactly like the Hebrew name "Gad" which is just one of the 12 tribes and that name is fine to deface. So why do we do it?

I'm interested in this. I have a basic understanding of the dash, but I'm wondering about capitalization. I've seen some use all lowercase, and some capitalize the way that a Christian would capitalize any word pertaining to the supreme being. Is capitalization/lower case part of different schools of thought on this, or is it basically up to the individual? TIA!

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Im a lesbian......but I am really not surprised they are glad they aren't gay. Growing up in a family like that, being gay would be another thing stacked against them to make their life miserable. Even with the stupid courtship rules, being straight at least means theres a chance of Daddy finding a compatible stranger, if youre gay, not so much. Its either a miserable marriage and sex with a man whether you want to or not, or having your family hate you.

Well, I think it was kind of a dig against lesbians. But, I think they don't really know better. All their life, they've been thaught that being gay is something horrible and sinful. And yes, they can be indeed very glad if they are straight, cause in a family like that I don't wish for anyone to be born gay.

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What if gothard were gay? Would it still be considered sinful?

hell he is a pedo and he is not considered sinful he is a profit after all.

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What if gothard were gay? Would it still be considered sinful?

Probably. Even though he is a wacky pedo and that's still okay. :angry-banghead:

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hell he is a pedo and he is not considered sinful he is a profit after all.

The Duggars sure have profited because of him.

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So does that mean that they think God makes some people "not normal"?

Since we seem to agree that they mean gay, does that mean being gay is not a choice? Blasphemy!!!

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I think that if one or several of the Duggar children are gay they basically would not know it for themselves just because they are not represented with the possiblity. They have no reference at all and were not raised to have insight to their deepest needs and emotions.

I'm a lesbian and I know that if had grown up in the 50s without internet and without any representation of gays in the media I would not have known that I'm gay even if I had fallen in love with a woman I wouldnt have known that it is love.

I imagine that the Duggar children are not tuned in to their emotions because it's not usefull to their family structure. So even if they fell in love someone of the gender they would not know.

Does that make sense?

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