Duggars And Sex

[Duggor]

Do you think the duggars (Jim Bob&Michelle, Josh&Anna and Jill&Derrick) only are having sex to make babies or they also do it for fun?

 

I have the feeling Jim Bob&Michelle do it for the fun and the babies, but I think the other two couples only do it for the babies, because I have the feeling that their parents never told them about the fun of having sex and it can be really fun

[Mrs.Right]

I get the feeling that Derick wouldn't allow their sex life to be all about baby making. :dance:

[HarryPotterFan]

Derrick and Jill FULL-FRONTAL HUGGED while courting, clearly they're hot for each other :lol:

[doggie]

As horny as jimhump acts he may not be getting what he needs.

[frugalitymom]

I think Derick will show Jill sex is more than for maiking babies. With as crazy as Michelle acts lately about wanting number 20 she might only let Jim Bob have it when she thinks she is ovulating. As for Josh and Anna I don't think they are doing it for fun.

[It'sFunToRun]

Pretty sure they're all doing it for fun. They are human after all, and masturbation is probably forbidden, so those urges have to be fulfilled.

[SuffolkNWhat]

How do fundie women find out how to achieve the big O? It's not as if they can easily explore their bodies (unless they do so in the shower etc?) I doubt Smuggar is very interested in making sure Anna enjoys herself too.

[Mama Mia]

How do fundie women find out how to achieve the big O? It's not as if they can easily explore their bodies (unless they do so in the shower etc?) I doubt Smuggar is very interested in making sure Anna enjoys herself too.

Probably the way the vast majority of the world does, trial and error. Pretty sure most people don't read up on it first.

As to the original question, Michelle and Jim Bob have made it very clear that sex isn't just for pro-creation, but also for mutual pleasure, and if they are conveying that message in articles and interviews and their general demeanor on television, I don't see how their kids could possibly not get that message.

I know people like the stereotype of fundamentalists treating all sex as a necessary evil only for making babies-- that really isn't the impression the Duggar's give at all. They certainly don't believe in sex outside of marriage, but once someone is married they seem to really think sex is great.

[hollywood]

I get the feeling that as long as the guy had fun, that's all that matters (to Michelle..)

but from Derick I get the feeling it's more than baby making

[ModestisHottest]

Long time lurker first time poster!

One of the books Jim Bob gave Josh before his wedding was Intended for Pleasure: Sex Technique and Sexual Fulfillment in Christian Marriage which talks (in a lot of detail) about making sure both partners are sexually satisfied. I have to agree with Mama Mia; these people are super repressed before marriage but after the wedding it's ON.

[itsnotmeitsu]

Jim Bob and Michelle weren't raised to look at sex just for procreation, so I would think they would teach their kids that. They would just make sure they knew it was only acceptable in marriage.

[freethemall]

Long time lurker first time poster!

One of the books Jim Bob gave Josh before his wedding was Intended for Pleasure: Sex Technique and Sexual Fulfillment in Christian Marriage which talks (in a lot of detail) about making sure both partners are sexually satisfied. I have to agree with Mama Mia; these people are super repressed before marriage but after the wedding it's ON.

Congrats on a great first post! I still wonder how much allowing sex for pleasure also includes going outside of simple P-in-V with maybe some oral, fun positions & locations, etc.. I feel like a sicko wondering about those things, but hey I know the rest of you are just as sick as me :twisted:

[ILoveJellybeans]

Michelle and Jimbob were pretty much dry humping on a golf course in front of her mortified daughter and her boyfriend. I don't think there is a surface in the house that hasn't been splattered with bodily fluids (if Michelle didn't scoot over them naked afterwards to mop up all the baby juice so not a single sperm is wasted)

OH GOD WHYYYY DID MY BRAIN GO THERE :pink-shock: :ew: :o

[Fluffypaws]

:brain-bleach:

[ariel9]

I mean has anyone seem the way Anna looks at Josh!

[BeccaGrim]

Long time lurker first time poster!

One of the books Jim Bob gave Josh before his wedding was Intended for Pleasure: Sex Technique and Sexual Fulfillment in Christian Marriage which talks (in a lot of detail) about making sure both partners are sexually satisfied. I have to agree with Mama Mia; these people are super repressed before marriage but after the wedding it's ON.

OMG. That episode. Where Josh said Anna was going to be his real life leggo or something. And Jim Bob said the book explained what okay sex was. Does anyone know what that is? Is oral okay? What isn't okay? Other than homosexual love.

[EmeraldPickle]

Some people are just naturally good at sex from the very first time. My best friends husband was a virgin,she was not and she said that he is the best lover she has ever had. So who knows, these people may know what they are doing without ever having anything more than a birds and bees talk.I mean that's the only place they don't allow cameras...where they don't have to keep up an image or hide their true selves.It think the old saying goes it's the good boys and girls you have to watch out for, they are freaky and kinky behinds closed doors.

[HarryPotterFan]

There is not enough brain bleach in the world for me to deal with this thread. :brain-bleach: :brain-bleach: :brain-bleach:

[SPHASH]

There is not enough brain bleach in the world for me to deal with this thread. :brain-bleach: :brain-bleach: :brain-bleach:

We are all bigger prudes than any typical fundie.

[pennsatuckey]

Long time lurker first time poster!

One of the books Jim Bob gave Josh before his wedding was Intended for Pleasure: Sex Technique and Sexual Fulfillment in Christian Marriage which talks (in a lot of detail) about making sure both partners are sexually satisfied. I have to agree with Mama Mia; these people are super repressed before marriage but after the wedding it's ON.

Apparently, the book frowns upon oral sex and suggests women use tampons to control the "after-sex mess".

Dr. Wheat, the author, views oral sex as a crutch for men who cannot discipline themselves to pleasure their partner. :doh:

[ADoyle90815]

Michelle and Jimbob were pretty much dry humping on a golf course in front of her mortified daughter and her boyfriend. I don't think there is a surface in the house that hasn't been splattered with bodily fluids (if Michelle didn't scoot over them naked afterwards to mop up all the baby juice so not a single sperm is wasted)

OH GOD WHYYYY DID MY BRAIN GO THERE :pink-shock: :ew: :o

:brain-bleach: :brain-bleach: :brain-bleach: :brain-bleach: :brain-bleach:

[Phoenix]

Apparently, the book frowns upon oral sex and suggests women use tampons to control the "after-sex mess".

Dr. Wheat, the author, views oral sex as a crutch for men who cannot discipline themselves to pleasure their partner. :doh:

DR WHEAT, the guru writing fundie sex books is named DR. WHEAT... ROFL! :lol: The irony of visions of amber waves of grain.... :cracking-up:

[HarryPotterFan]

DR WHEAT, the guru writing fundie sex books is named DR. WHEAT... ROFL! :lol: The irony of visions of amber waves of grain.... :cracking-up:

I hope none of Dr. Wheat's suggestions result in a yeast infection.

[Mama Mia]

That's an unusual stance on oral sex. Does he mean nth at men shouldn't give oral sex because it's too easy a way to get the woman to achieve orgasm? Or does he mean that that women shouldn't give oral sex cause it's a lot easier for th guy to just get off quickly that way and not have to deal with pleasing his partner during intercourse? The second makes a little more sense.

[ModestisHottest]

That's an unusual stance on oral sex. Does he mean nth at men shouldn't give oral sex because it's too easy a way to get the woman to achieve orgasm? Or does he mean that that women shouldn't give oral sex cause it's a lot easier for th guy to just get off quickly that way and not have to deal with pleasing his partner during intercourse? The second makes a little more sense.

I realized I still had the book on my Kindle so I consulted the FAQ section:

"Dr." Wheat is really into ladies having orgasms during vaginal intercourse. Basically he thinks that if you start relying on oral you'll never learn to please your wife the way God intended, which he thinks is P in V. He thinks the reason men can't bring their wives to orgasm during P in V sex is because they're finishing too quickly. If they rely on oral they won't ever "develop the discipline and skillful control" it takes to satisfy her during "regular intercourse." (His words)

He makes similar points about vibrators and "self-stimulation during sex." He's okay with "self-stimulation" but "as soon as she is consistently able to reach climax, the couple should resume regular sexual intercourse." He's also very clear that he is approving "self-stimulation by the wife, in which the husband is also involved." So he's not okay with her "self-stimulating" when her husband's not there.

Wheat is super invested in making sure both partners are satisfied which is great (and also talks pretty normally about birth control!!!) but his ultimate goal is that every couple is ONLY having P-in-V sex. So if that doesn't work for you, too bad, try harder, according to Wheat. UGH!