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She's one of my favorites too. I love to go back and read old posts. She loves to drop crazy information right in the middle of her posts and then keeps writing as if everything is normal. For example:

"At 4:30 this morning I encountered extreme contractions and cramping. I sat on the toilet in the bathroom and moaned my way through them. I can understand how a woman feels that she must go to an emergency room to help her relieve herself of miscarriage pain. However, I knew in my spirit that entering an ER room would 0nly make my experience worse and take the peace and spirit out of the situation. A time where mom and unborn have time alone and undisturbed.

I was dripping lots of blood and felt as if my body was trying to get rid of everything. I felt like I was dry heaving.... By 5:15 or so I felt extreme pain and took some Tylenol. I decided to walk around outside to keep my mind off of the cramping that I was experiencing. I walked around the block and also walked down to the river on the other side of our dike. I could still feel the sharp pains.... I returned to our apartment. My husband and my son still sleeping through all the menace I was experiencing.... cramping was not present so I fell asleep again....

At 9:00 in the morning I awoke. The cramping had ceased. I sat on the toilet. Some bleeding occurred and then right as I was about to leave the toilet a plop came out and into the toilet. I knew instantly that this was indeed the contents of placenta and baby. I PICKED UP A POKING STICK, OLD YOGURT CONTAINER AND RUBBER GLOVES TO RETRIEVE THE CONTENTS. I looked at it and all I could see was a small amniotic bubble containing the contents where the embryo should have been.

I called my husband on the telephone telling him about what had just happened as he was at church practicing some music. He knew that I had been cramping in the early morning. When he returned home he looked at the displeasing contents and had a little cringe in his stomach knowing that the pregnancy had failed because the baby simply did not properly develop. I PUT THE CONTENTS INTO THE FRIDGE WHILE WE WENT TO CHURCH. I somewhat surprised my self that I was brave enough to enter the church building after recently releasing miscarriage material.

We did not mention anything to anyone in the church about a pregnancy or a miscarriage. We felt in our hearts that it would be best to keep it to our selves and not stir up strife. After the service, I went to Wal-mart and picked up a small craft box that would hold the undeveloped baby we named Sam. I also picked up a string of flowers. My husband and I plan to bury baby Sam later today. IT IS ALMOST AS IF WE ARE BURYING A SECRET PET. "

raggedycottagegarden.blogspot.ca/2009_03_01_archive.html

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179. Visit a woman's shelter and encourage the women to forgive and pray for the men whom they left.

I have not actually been in a woman's shelter, but have worked on committees with several women who work hands on or on their boards. First off, most of the women's shelters around here don't just let anyone off the street come to their facility, as they try to keep their locations secret or at least hard to find to keep angry, violent husbands/partners from showing up. I can donate goods, but I drop it off at a collection point.

190. Volunteer at a local daycare. Encourage the women who leave their children at the daycare to find ways to stay home with their children.

Again, local daycare facilities don't just take walk up volunteers. Private facilities have specific staff, on the payroll, who have been screened, as do the ones in churches, etc. My mom was a youth leader and sunday school teacher and had to have a background check at her very small church in a very small town, even though none of these were paid positions. No local daycare is going to have some stranger show up and let that person around children in their care. If she harasses people in the parking lot, chances are she'll be asked to leave.

WTF is it with people who seek out ways to try to force other people to live just like themselves. Misery loves company???

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190. Volunteer at a local daycare. Encourage the women who leave their children at the daycare to find ways to stay home with their children.

Um, but wouldn't that mean that you're not home with your children?

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Yes, I know that women's shelters and daycare centers have security and don't allow random people in, and that if they ever had a volunteer talk like that they'd toss her out in a second, but she apparently doesn't know that. Instead, she's telling SAHDs to harass people in their spare time.

More of her ideas about daycare:

I have three children and I DO NOT want the government to raise my kids for me, because I know it is completely secular and lost. There is too much risk of child predators in day cares and public schools.

from her July 1 entry.

Guess what? Day cares and public schools actually screen employees, and do background checks. In other words, they do a more responsible job than you did with your husband, who apparently has multiple criminal convictions. There are some checks and balances, since there are multiple eyes on the children and supervisors for the staff. Your children are isolated. You have described your husband as someone who has verbally and financially abused you. Sounds like a regulated daycare or public school would be a safer environment for them.

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Here's some more gems:

From May 3, 2013 : "psychological thinking about it stopping can stop bleeding. (learned that from unassisted childbirth and miscarriage experience)".

or this comment about feminists who insist on getting paid more for working more than her (April 19, 2009): "I am still working at the local nursing home as a nursing assistant part time however. Unfortunately the "money hungry" nursing home where I work is NOT sympathetic at all simply because it is filled with "feminist" 40 hr. work week type women"

or this about ectopic pregnancy (March 16, 2009): "Ectopic Pregnancy – Dangerous – Caused by BCP!! "

or this post where she blames the shootings in CT on divorce (December 19, 2012): "The first problem in the situation is that the mother and father of the child had a serious sin problem as evidenced by divorce. "

I don't know if I should be banging my head against the wall, laughing or making a tin foil hat to wear when I read these posts.

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I PICKED UP A POKING STICK, OLD YOGURT CONTAINER AND RUBBER GLOVES TO RETRIEVE THE CONTENTS. I looked at it and all I could see was a small amniotic bubble containing the contents where the embryo should have been.

I somewhat surprised my self that I was brave enough to enter the church building after recently releasing miscarriage material.

Ok, I've not read her before, but is English her second language, as her sentence structure / word choice is a -- different.

raggedycottagegarden.blogspot.ca/2009_03_01_archive.html

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DIY healthcare, yo!

raggedycottagegarden.blogspot.com/2013/06/informtaion-about-freedom-in-healthcare.html

We always need added wisdom in these situations about "why" political persons and religious superiority seem to intervene on things God has given us the ability to discern on our own. Christ is sufficient in all these issues and I like to read 5 psalms and one proverb per day according to the day of the month to help me understand what the nature of the people happens to be. We need only fear God when socialists attempt to cause guilt or illegal stipulations on the innocent and independent. That gives me the "mental health care" or psychology and sociology studies that I need.

Um...wat? :confusion-scratchheadblue:

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Girlfriend has issues :shock:

raggedycottagegarden.blogspot.com/2013/06/suffering-and-truth-behind-human-life.html

I hate facing my feminist MIL and GIL. They dance and prance in utter disbelief of the verbal words and abuse Ive had to hear come out of their mouths! They enjoy tieing their tubes and making the dollar bill easily without children to bear any longer. They enjoy their death of pleasure. They enjoy television shows while I aim to train my children to clear the table.

I've had two unassisted births that were healthy and good. It only cost 300$ for first one and under 150$ for a second birth at home! Had there been a problem, I would have had to go to prison as woman who have birthed unassisted and baby dies have been known to end up prison.

I hate the fact that my worries about $ and paying for the miscarriage are causing me to get angry. I wish I would have just suffered and possibly even DIED while in the process of miscarriage just so I wouldn't have to leave the mark of anger over financial worries!

Suffering will come your way and you MUST suffer through it! Why make a husband pay a 10,000+ dollar medical bill for a process YOU can figure out with ones own two hands! Home birth is very simple and safe as long as your mind is in line with what you are doing.

So who is ready to be married? The woman who is willing to suffer! The woman who is not willing to suffer is not ready to get married......ever.
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