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Blogger AztecQueen has called out the so-calling "dating advice" that is actually an instruction book for rape:

http://aztecqueen2000.blogspot.ca/2013/ ... anual.html (not breaking the link because she's not a fundie blogger)

Of course, the guy's feelings are hurt that bloggers are calling this a rape manual. He posted this is response:

http://pastebin.com/zwHYzCZe

He still doesn't get it, does he? Who cares that he's not advocating that men jump random strangers? A woman still has the right to say no after she goes on a date.

A woman saying "STOP" or "GET AWAY FROM ME" or physically shoving you away is saying no loud and clear. No does not mean "try this again later".

He also wrote:

Even when a girl rejects your advances, she KNOWS that you desire her. That's hot. It arouses her physically and psychologically.

and

All that matters is that you continue to try to escalate physically until she makes it genuinely clear that it's not happening. She wants to be desired, but the circumstances need to be right. With some experience, you will learn to differentiate the "No, we can't... my parents are in the next room... OMG FUCK ME FUCK ME HARD" from the "SERIOUSLY GET THE FUCK OFF OF ME, YOU CREEP" variety of resistance.

from here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comme ... ation_sex/

I'm thinking that nothing short of being served with a restraining order would make it "genuinely clear" to this sicko, since apparently "stop" and "get away from me" just mean "try again later" to him. In the above scenario, he doesn't seem to consider that a woman's refusal could be taken seriously until he actually starts to have sex with her and has her scream at him to get off of her.

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I'm thinking that nothing short of being served with a restraining order would make it "genuinely clear" to this sicko, since apparently "stop" and "get away from me" just mean "try again later" to him.

I bet the restraining order would simply make him think that she is "playing hard to get" and doesn't really mean it. I doubt his social skills are advanced enough to allow him to understand that no means no. I don't think he gets verbal or nonverbal messages, except for yes, later, of course, yes, now!, I want you, You are the best, yes, etc.

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Maybe Lori's onto something with the whole concealed carry thing. This asshole might require the use of force... :whistle:

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Even when a girl rejects your advances, she KNOWS that you desire her. That's hot. It arouses her physically and psychologically

Ewww This is so not true-- for both sexes. That old creepy guy down the hall who tells you how hot you are? Still creepy, not arousing. The fat sweaty girl with greasy hair who rubs up against you every chance she gets? Still repulsive, not arousing.

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from here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comme ... ation_sex/

I'm thinking that nothing short of being served with a restraining order would make it "genuinely clear" to this sicko, since apparently "stop" and "get away from me" just mean "try again later" to him. In the above scenario, he doesn't seem to consider that a woman's refusal could be taken seriously until he actually starts to have sex with her and has her scream at him to get off of her.

So, apparently committing sexual assault is just part of the learning curve? And "genuinely clear" is the stuff of nightmares. This guy is never going to get it.

How about the word "yes" for genuinely clear, asshole? Better yet, "Yes!" Is that so very difficult?

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