If you date, you'll kiss a bunch of frogs

[OnceModestTwiceShy]

I met my "prince" at an orgy. True story.

[TMS]

I liked a guy a lot, went out with him a few times. Then we kissed. It was just....yucky. And the attraction was over. I'm so glad I didn't decide to marry him and wait to kiss him on our wedding day.

[Visionoyahweh]

I met my "prince" at an orgy. True story.

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[SisiL78]

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Ya, seriously please include details. I need to live vicariously through other people with more exciting lives :-)

[OnceModestTwiceShy]

Hahahaha, well, I'm too paranoid to reveal *too* much, but let's just say I had quite a....rambunctious and experimental sex life in my early 20ies. I did the poly thing and had more than a bit of group sex. In that setting I met the man I am still with - in a monogamous relationship - 5 years later. :D

[CrazySister]

Hahahaha, well, I'm too paranoid to reveal *too* much, but let's just say I had quite a....rambunctious and experimental sex life in my early 20ies. I did the poly thing and had more than a bit of group sex. In that setting I met the man I am still with - in a monogamous relationship - 5 years later. :D

Wow. Here I was about to post on what's the big deal kissing a buncha frogs, but all I can say now is :dance:

[freejoytoo]

That sounds awesome!

I once went out with a wealthy Brazilian guy and when we split up I was told by my parents I had thrown away a lot of holidays. Never been on even a day trip with a British guy but I've never had a British boyfriend!

[CrazySister]

I liked a guy a lot, went out with him a few times. Then we kissed. It was just....yucky. And the attraction was over. I'm so glad I didn't decide to marry him and wait to kiss him on our wedding day.

My first BF was a horrible kisser. Didn't know it at the time; all I knew was I didn't like kissing him. Can't imagine 50 years of "hm, is this really what people are going on about? I don't even like it"

[Visionoyahweh]

Hahahaha, well, I'm too paranoid to reveal *too* much, but let's just say I had quite a....rambunctious and experimental sex life in my early 20ies. I did the poly thing and had more than a bit of group sex. In that setting I met the man I am still with - in a monogamous relationship - 5 years later. :D

This should be FJ's courtship model.

You could go around giving stump speeches about the value of double penetration, and waiting until after you're married to have vanilla sex.

[bananacat]

Hahahaha, well, I'm too paranoid to reveal *too* much, but let's just say I had quite a....rambunctious and experimental sex life in my early 20ies. I did the poly thing and had more than a bit of group sex. In that setting I met the man I am still with - in a monogamous relationship - 5 years later. :D

I honestly think this is a good way to meet someone. I've never been in an orgy, but I have been hooking up and dating casually for 12 years now. I think it's just more efficient that way. If I date just one guy at a time and he's not the one, then I have to start all over at the beginning. If I date several men at once, I'm more likely to meet the right one and in the meantime I get to have lots of fun. And although I would like to have an open marriage (if I ever get married), I am perfectly willing to be monogamous for the right man.