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The Shaw family doesn’t have a thread so I’ll just make a new one here. 3 things single girls should/shouldn’t do according to Justus Shaw with his sisters approval. I figure this will give you all a big laugh at the ridiculousness. 1) wear ball caps on bad hair days because they are cute. 2) don’t wear big Hoka brightly colored tennis shoes if you aren’t exercising. 3) don’t bring up any medical issues when you first meet a guy. Like if you’re gluten free. Because he will just think of all the medical bills. https://www.instagram.com/reel/C4dU2ZqrQUx/?igsh=a2N5ZmY1MzlmdzJl
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I’m just curious, so many families have dropped the skirts only requirement for women—I thought the Maxwells would be the last holdouts and was shocked to see that they too had changed. Are any families on this site still exclusively skirts only? I’m not counting the Duggars or Bateses since at least some of their daughters have switched to pants.
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While looking at Lady Lydia’s blog, I found this treasure trove belonging to “Feminine Belle”. This gal is happy her “80/20” rule is gaining popularity (somehow). https://femininebelle.blogspot.com/2019/09/8020-rule-of-femininity-continue.html?m=1 “Her ensemble covers 80% of her body and shows 20% skin.” Even if something covers your shoulders and knees, that would be less than 80% - stupid fundies with pissing contests of who can be more modest. “Her speech is 80% silence and 20% conversation when meeting others for the first time.” Ok, but it would also be the other person’s first time having a conversation with you, so if they too are a maiden who should follow the same rule... *does LITERALLY not compute* “Her actions are 80% of doing things for others in love or charity and 20% of receiving” Different seasons in life would dictate this... As far as a day-to-day basis, my personal belief is to always put others above myself, but I certainly need to “receive” more than 20% of the time in order to effectively do this. But also, most of my “receiving” is mere self-care, so it almost always costs anybody else absolutely zero. Some other random atrocities from this post: ”Girly and childlike speech and actions provokes warmth and good feelings from others unlike being childish and immature making others feel uncomfortable around her causing drama. She infuses peace in her speech.” Just, gross. “Importantly she may not know it, an elegant lady isalways watched by her actions. What she does has lasting implications on her character as well as other viewing her. Actions are important to her as her brand she is displaying or acting on” What a grammatical clusterfuck. Circular reasoning, errors, etc.....