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Adventures in Cat Fostering


RabbitKM

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Hey All!  Back before the fancy new FJ update, I had posted a thread asking for some advice on getting a cat.  Fast forward a few weeks, and I became a cat foster mom!  I have been so happy with this decision, because it allows me to care for a cute little furbaby without the long-term life commitment of true pet ownership.  I also get to help out more than one cat, because I am now on foster cat number 2! 

My first foster kitty was indeed a handful.  First off, she meowed constantly from the moment she got here.  It really was just her personality, because even once she was comfortable in my apartment, she seemed to talk to herself.  She was an absolute angel, though, and I was really bonding with her.   She was super affectionate, always rubbing up against me and wanting me to pet her.  She also followed me around the apartment, and even played chase games with me.  :) I think she was definitely someone's pet, and she either got out or was abandoned, because she was super comfortable around me from the beginning.   Here is a picture of little Kelly for reference.

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I was so sad when she moved on to her new family, but she now has a French bulldog to play with!  I had her about six weeks before she was adopted by a great couple in the neighborhood.  What was interesting, though, were the people who visited her but ended up not adopting her.  The first lady who came to see her appeared to be really set on an orange cat.  Well, orange Kelly is not.  That was a little strange.  She also didn't seem to be sure of her decision to adopt a cat in general.  I was a little relieved that she didn't adopt Kelly.  The next potential adopters were this cute couple who were super cat savvy, but ended up adopting another cat that they connected with a little better.  Finally, the people who ended up loving her came and saw her, and immediately knew she was for them.  

After I brought Kelly to her new apartment, I had to force myself not to beg for too many pictures from the adopters.  She is just as adorable as ever and seems to be doing great.  A few weeks went by, and now I have a new angel baby to take care of!  Enter foster cat number 2!

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She has no name as of yet, and has just been rescued off the streets a few days ago.  Actually, she hasn't even seen the vet, so I don't know her sex (but I just call her "her" for now).  Her nickname is Heidi, because she hides behind the toilet.  I only got her yesterday, and she still is very scared and wary of her new situation.  However, I am excited for the opportunity to get to know another kitty!  I am currently focusing on getting her to eat and socialize with me.  I give her her space, but I also want her to get used to my presence and see me as a friend.  If anyone has any tips or tricks to getting a little foster to trust them, I would be glad to hear them.  I didn't really have this situation with Kelly, as she was happy-go-lucky from the get-go.  They think she is around 3 months old, so I am a little worried that she is slightly over the hump for trusting humans.  Regardless, she is cute as a button, and even looks like she could pass as Kelly's little sister :) .  

That's all for now!  If you have any advice at all, I would love to hear it.  Otherwise, thanks for reading! :) 

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Season of life...

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There is so much sad news regarding animals, especially strays, and it gives me a lift when I hear about somebody giving these little guys some extra care and love.

It's so hard to give them up once you get attached. We were adopted by a five month old pregnant Siamese kitten. She was so young she didn't take to being a mother, but we had an older male Maine Coon who stepped up and raised the kittens. He was wonderful. I found good homes for 3 of the 4 kittens with people I trusted, but the mother cat and runt had really bonded so we kept her. Although I knew they were going to good homes, it was still wrenching to say goodbye to them.

I'm glad Kelly didn't get adopted by the woman who wanted an orange cat. It sounds to me like she just wanted an accessory since she was so hung up on color and was waffling about her decision to adopt.

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What cuties! We have three lil beasties that were brought to our garage by their mama that we had been feeding. We've been trying to socialize them as much as we can, and have about two of the three ready to go to their permanent homes. Well, assuming we can find them a home. Anyway, I've found with skittish kitties "thing on a string" toys work well, since you can play, but at a safe distance. Oh, and chicken baby food. It's like kitty crack. That way they associate you with really good things. I hope that helps. If you haven't ever read http://www.love-and-hisses.com/ or http://www.kittyblog.net/ they've got some great advice, and cute kittens. 

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RabbitKM

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@Season of life... there are soooo many strays where I live.  Unfortunately, it is really common for landlords to get some cats to hunt rodents, which is not only unhealthy (not to mention if they ingest rodenticide), but contributes to the unwanted cat pregnancies since most of these cats aren't fixed.  There are many cat colonies in this city that form because of this.  The group I am fostering with primarily focuses on TNR, which stands for Trap-neuter-release.  They basically get to know where the cat colonies are, trap the kitties, get them fixed and vetted with shots and stuff, then release them back to their territory, and continually feed and care for the colony.  This is much more humane than the alternative way of dealing with strays, which would be euthanasia.  Also, euthanasia doesn't really help solve the problem, because usually more cats just move into the old colony.  So the group I foster with does TNR, but when they find little ones or friendly older ones, they adopt them out. :) 

It is hard to give them away, but in the end, I knew it was better for Kelly to find a permanent home, and I am grateful to have gotten to spend so much time with her.  

@NerdyHil, I will have to try the string toy! That actually seems like a good idea, once she is more familiar with the space.  She has been eating better now, thankfully.  I mixed her wet food with some warm water, and she seemed to like that.  And thank you for the blog recommendations, I will definitely check those out!

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purple_summer

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Ahh they're super cute! I agree with the toys on a string suggestion. Also we used to give our cat tuna (the kind that comes in water, not oil) as a treat and it broke the ice really quickly.

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SpoonfulOSugar

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<3  Thanks for sharing.

Be patient - my semi-feral demon cat gets held almost every day (she's so not impressed.)  But when I am asleep or just waking up, she thinks I am safe and clambers all over me!!!

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