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BlackberryGirl

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well, MIL died Sunday, not unexpected. She was 90 and all in all had a good healthy long life.

bitch

that being said, I told BlackberryBoy that we need to write our obits now, to have them on hand so as to prevent the travesty that passes for obits in his family.

ONE paragraph. Nothing about her as an individual. Hell even I could come up with 4 or 5 sincere, kind, comments about her.

to add insult to injury 

they misspelled BlackberryKid1’s name when mentioning predeceased loved ones.

they misspelled BlackberryGrandKid2’s very common name

they left out our DIL after asking about her name and when they married

they misspelled 2 of MIL’s siblings names.

 

I noticed they didn’t make any errors about SIL’s family, kids, spouses, grands.

these are well educated people with 4 + postgraduate degrees among them, including 2 teachers ffs.

The funeral is in Chicago, 600 miles from us. we aren’t going. I figure they didn’t come to our daughter’s funeral, we can skip hers.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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OhNoNike

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Yikes.  I can’t believe they didn’t go to BB1s funeral. That’s just awful.  I realize not everyone can make it to everything that suddenly in particular, but it sounds like there was really no representation from them?

Misspelling all the names is such a slap in the face. 

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      3 minutes ago, Mama Mia said:

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      15 minutes ago, viii said:

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      Wow. That’s a really extreme reaction! I hope friend A got therapy or something. I could see not being able to handle throwing the baby shower, even explaining to friend B that it was just too raw and emotional for her to participate — but to completely cut her off as a friend and think it was insensitive for her friend to even celebrate? That’s showing some really deep issues. And if she already has a child, she’s bound to come across little girls at play groups, the park, school - she realistically can’t isolate herself from that….

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    • viii

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      True, we don't know what goes on behind the scenes, and perhaps I'm projecting a little.

      I had two friends that were best friends and had been since elementary school. So they had years of deep, solid friendship. They were both in each other's weddings, etc. Friend A got pregnant and Friend B threw her a massive baby shower. Everyone was so excited. Friend A gave birth at 39 weeks to a stillborn daughter. Entire friend group was devastated for her and did everything we could to support her. Two years after the loss, Friend A went on to have another child, this one a boy. Friend B threw another baby shower (this time after he had already arrived) and everyone was so happy. Two years later, Friend B gets pregnant. Friend A starts to get a little cagey. Doesn't know if she'll come to the shower, let alone throw it. Friend B finds out she's having a daughter and tells Friend A before the shower so she isn't surprised by it. Friend A is furious that Friend B is having a daughter and cuts her out cold turkey. Never speaks to her again. Removes herself completely from the friend group and tells everyone that we weren't supportive of her loss and it was incredibly insensitive for Friend B to have a baby shower for her daughter when Friend A never got to raise her daughter. 

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