Jump to content

Little House in the Big Woods Recap: Sundays


Maggie Mae

3,256 views

Sundays

I remember reading about Sundays in Farmer Boy! They sounded awful and boring. 

Regardless, Laura and Mary also find Sundays to be long, since they have to stay inside and be quiet. They get to take baths on Saturday night, which is nice for them. In the winter, Pa and Ma (the text says Pa, but let's just be historically accurate) melt snow for bath water. They have a screen made out of a  blanket hung over two chairs. Laura goes first, then Mary, then Pa has to empty and refill the bath tub for Ma, then Pa. I guess Carrie doesn't have to be clean on Sundays? Or maybe Carries gets bathed as needed. 

On Sundays, they sit quietly and listen to stories. 

Spoiler

1532824626_GrumpyLaura.PNG.9da04f96d489e616d0d9253c8d1df6b7.PNG

Laura likes to look at the pictures in the Bible, and learns that Adam didn't have clothes to wear on Sundays. Laura wishes she had nothing to wear but skins. Eventually she acts up and instead of getting  a spanking, she gets a story from Pa. 

Grandpa's Sled and the Pig 

Pa's story is about Grandpa and how Sundays used to begin on Saturday night, and no one was allowed to work or play. Everything was solemn.  I did some independant research trying to figure out what religion Grandpa was but it's not really known. Maybe if I had an Ancestry.com account, i'd be able to figure out where and when they came to the states and figure it out from there. But it's just generic Christianity. Laura ends up at a Congregational Church, which is interesting to me for personal reasons. 

Old Timey Grandpa Christian rules include going to bed on Saturday night immediately after the after-dinner prayer, sitting up straight, walking to Church (Which also led me to just delete a long, judgmental story about my Conservative Jewish college teammate) and a prohibition on smiling. I thought prayer and Jesus was supposed to bring comfort and joy? NO SMILING! (Also no working, so no horses or cooking. Cold food only.) After dinner on Sundays, they sat in a row on a bench, studying their catechism until Sunday was over. 

Grandpa's house was on a hill, so they liked to sled. Grandpa and his brothers made a new sled. They had 2-3 hours on Saturday to play. But their father kept them longer on Saturday and they missed their chance due to chores. So during church, they thought about the sled. Then at dinner, they thought about the sled. Eventually, they hear their father snoring and they sneak out to try out the sled. Just once. Be back before he wakes up. (We've all heard this story!) The sled goes faster and faster and I just realized that there was no mention of a mother :(. The sled speeds out of control and they go right under a pig, which sits on James (one of the brothers). The three boys and the squealing pig sled past the house, where the father (this would be Charles' Grandfather) is watching them from the doorway. The pig runs off without goring anyone, the sled gets put away, and the boys go back to sitting and studying. After Sundown, the father takes them out to the woodshed and "tanned their jackets" which I am going to say is a euphemism for "beat them with a stick or some plumbing line." 

Laura asks if little girls had to be good like that, and Pa said it was harder for little girls, because they were never allowed to sled.  They could only stay in and stitch. 

Much like Laura (and Arya Stark), I'm very happy to not be restricted to that. Pa brings out his fiddle and plays. Laura falls asleep to the sound, then wakes up and Pa says it's her birthday and she needs a spanking. She gets six. (Soft, not hard) She's actually five, the last one was to "grow on." I wonder how long he does this. It's weird. 

Laura is given a stick person to keep Charlotte company. Ma has five cakes for her, one for each year. Mary made her a dress. (Jesus, Mary's like, what, 7? I still couldn't make someone a wearable dress.) Although when I was 7, I did teach myself how to read music and play piano on a little keyboard, which convinced my dad that I needed to go outside more. Pa doesn't buy or make Laura anything, he just plays a song for her. 

It's pop goes the weasel. They list out the lyrics and the girls are supposed to look for the weasel and they can't find it and I'm sure this would be fun to read to a kid. 

---

So thinking about putting this into a historical context, this was taking place sometime around 1870; under Grant's administration. After the Civil War. Wisconsin has been a state for maybe 30 years, there is a university in Madison. The economy is centered around logging and brewing. This little family is just homesteading. There are probably miners and trappers and other resource type people.  It seems so lonely to be so far away from town. I know when I was around Laura's age, I was well aware of various states and countries and the space program,  my neighbors, different churches, towns, candy stores. 

 

  • Upvote 7

3 Comments


Recommended Comments

smittykins

Posted

I always felt sorry for Laura and Mary, having to just sit there quietly.  I don’t blame her for acting up.  At least they would get to go to church and Sunday school in Walnut Grove.(It was a Congregational church, and I believe Laura was a Methodist in her later years.)

  • Upvote 4
Link to comment
Lisafer

Posted

I felt a ton of sympathy for Laura too. I had a similar upbringing in my fundie family: Sundays were awful. No toys, no playing, only the Bible and religious books to read. We spent the afternoons listening to sermons on tape and answering catechism questions. 

Are you going to recap Little House on the Prairie as well? I'm reading it aloud to my kid, and the racism is so much worse that it's really difficult to work around and explain as we go along. 

  • Upvote 3
Link to comment
formergothardite

Posted

I remember the long, boring Sunday chapters in the Little House books. In one of the later books they attend a church with a preacher Pa doesn't care for and he tells the girls they only have to pay attention to the scripture reading and then they can daydream. With a preacher he likes they have to be able to remember the scriptures along with coming home and telling what the sermon was about. 

  • Upvote 4
Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Posts

    • viii

      Posted

      26 minutes ago, SassyPants said:

      Also to be fair, the same could be said for all women. Did you ever have a very heavy period and think, based on the timing, flow and matter expelled, that you could be having a miscarriage???

      When sexually active, it's always a possibility. 

      As for c-sections, I don't have very many friends who big families (those who do have lots of kids have had vaginal births), but I know when my mom's friend was having babies in the late 80's/early 90's, her doctor was unimpressed when she got pregnant for the fifth time because he said anything past three sections was dangerous. Whether or not that's true or just his opinion, I'm unsure, but it makes sense to me. You're cutting through a lot of tissue and layers, and things weaken with each delivery. 

      • Upvote 1
    • SassyPants

      Posted

      1 hour ago, Nikedagain? said:

      Actually wondering how many C-Sections a woman can have?

      I think the number varies based on MD practices and the institution in question, as well as the condition of the woman’s uterus. Jill has had a uterine rupture and has large babies, so those facts would also be taken into consideration.

      I have often heard Bobby Kennedy’s wife (Ethyl??) mentioned when this topic is discussed. I think she had many (8? 9?)c-sections. Of course, she was part of a very powerful family.

      37 minutes ago, viii said:

      To be fair, both of them could have had more miscarriages than a) they realized or b) they've admitted. 

      Also to be fair, the same could be said for all women. Did you ever have a very heavy period and think, based on the timing, flow and matter expelled, that you could be having a miscarriage???

      • Upvote 2
    • viii

      Posted

      To be fair, both of them could have had more miscarriages than a) they realized or b) they've admitted. 

      • Upvote 1
    • AnywhereButHere

      Posted

      My son hit a deer a few months ago. Luckily he wasn’t hurt and the car wasn’t totaled, but it was out of commission for a long time. 
       

      The cop that came out to assess the damage pronounced the deer dead and very much out of commission and then kindly went against protocol and gave son a ride back home. 

      Fun facts: 

      • The cop’s name was Fabio 
      • Yes, I had to Google him. No, he would not have been on the cover of a bodice buster
      • Absolutely no part of the deer is hanging anywhere in my house 
      • If there were a deer or moose head in my house - I would most definitely be reenacting Fawlty Towers on the regular. Missed opportunity damn it
         

       

      • Haha 2
    • Nikedagain?

      Posted

      On 4/17/2024 at 12:05 PM, SassyPants said:

      1 thing I have to wonder about is with Jill’s poor OB history (a couple of LGA babies, 2-3 NIUC stays (was Izzy in the NICU?), A ruptured uterus, 2 miscarriages, one a late miscarriage, c-section deliveries…) I just have to wonder about when the Dillards would say “we have 3 healthy boys”, and maybe “we can call our family complete”. I always got the feeling that Jill reallllllly wanted a daughter, and this baby being a girl, must be very hard. The D’s admit to using BC, so they are deciding when to try to conceive and not “leaving it up to God.” Maybe God is trying to tell them something? They have never had a smooth delivery- I think I might say, “I am done.”

      Actually wondering how many C-Sections a woman can have?

      • Upvote 1


×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

By using this site, you agree to our Terms of Use.