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That, and discontent. Restless. Always looking for the greener pasture. Scared of commitment and getting involved in anything he can't easily get out of. Unsure of what to do with his life. Thinks he knows it all and is better than everyone else. Most people go through this in their teens and early twenties. Russ has never left that mental spot.

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People with Asperger's either can do a GREAT work on the job OR they "surf" from job to job, usually menial jobs, temporary jobs and having a hard time holding down a good permanent job. I think Russ falls under that category...but he is very, very insecure.

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I can see Rusty's been super busy lately.  Went on a walk.  Thinking about that ex-cop comedian he saw a couple months ago. How people should go see the guy..maybe bring a date.  I predict this is an awkward segue to attempt to bring attention back to his once upon a time cop days.  Yawn.

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On ‎4‎/‎29‎/‎2016 at 1:34 AM, ellacinders said:

I've got a feeling that no job will ever work out for Russ, because I think when it comes down to it,, Russ simply doesn't like being told what to do.

I vote for "mall cop."  He can ride a motorized scooter, ogle young females, and bark at people.

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13 minutes ago, Granwych said:

I vote for "mall cop."  He can ride a motorized scooter, ogle young females, and bark at people.

Don't wish that on those of us who might go to the mall in that area!! I can't decide if I would high tail it the other way or fall on the ground laughing if I saw him on a scooter pretending to have authority.  Paul Blart he ain't.

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Is it just me, or does he look like L. Ron Hubbard in his profile pic?

Olord he does. I never saw the simiarity before but wow, talk about uncanny resemblance.

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8 hours ago, yetanothermeg said:

Is it just me, or does he look like L. Ron Hubbard in his profile pic?

I'm imagining him in the white uniform and captain's hat. :pb_lol: Well, Russ, you've got plenty of time on your hands; why not lay off the social media and write your manifesto, Russenetics

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3 hours ago, DomWackTroll said:

I'm imagining him in the white uniform and captain's hat. :pb_lol: Well, Russ, you've got plenty of time on your hands; why not lay off the social media and write your manifesto, Russenetics

LMAO!

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Most people with Asperger's have much higher than average verbal abilities and very high IQs. Also, obsessive hobbies and interests/skills.

Uh...not a Russell thing, exactly. 

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There are different levels of Asperger's.......it isn't always textbook information. Some don't have high IQ's but they do some stupid illogical crap without any forethought or understand the repercussions of their actions. Introvert and extroverts they can be, but their thinking, functionings are pretty much similar for most part. I read enough on that diagnosis and many times than not, I pretty much know who is ASD or NT. Russell got several factors but he simply need his ass kicked.

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I'm convinced that the stupid shit he does is basically because of his perpetual I'm-a-victim mindset. I think he really loves to feel sorry for himself. Being a victim offers him the perfect excuse to do almost anything and that's perfect for Russturd, because it eliminates (in his mind) having to take responsibility.

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I'm not a doctor but I also think even if Russell has ASD (which I don't think he does), his main problem is that he is the fucking worst. 

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Well, at least he's going out for a walk once in awhile. And finding God and answers on every street corner, it seems.  And excuses for new selfies.  Good for him.  For a minute there, I was afraid I'd never see his face for an entire month.

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The mind-blowing revelation of a cross showing up in the weeds he saw is really enlightening. Yeah, not quite sure where you're going with that, Rusty old boy. 

Leave room in your life for God to walk in. Ok. 

I can only conclude this sentiment supports his natural tendencies to do, well, nothing, and hope/pray/cross fingers/use jedi mind tricks in hopes someone somewhere will take pity on him and give him love/a job/a house/a lot of money/a bigger dick/another hamburger from Hardees. 

There's plenty of room in your life for God to walk in, Russ. Problem is, I think God is kinda like you claimed to be in one of your more recently shared memes. He's not gonna run after to you to prove that He matters. You've kinda shut Him out, just like you have shut out almost everyone else who has been in your life. 

 

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Russell shows ZERO signs of Asperger's (no longer a valid diagnosis, ftr, it's now been rolled into Autism Spectrum Disorders and is the mild side of the disorder). David, otoh, hits massive red flags for ASD, including a lack of social awareness. Russell is highly socially aware, and thinks he is slick and can manipulate others opinions of him far better than he does. But I suspect he is far more charming in person than online.

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1 hour ago, chaotic life said:

Russell shows ZERO signs of Asperger's (no longer a valid diagnosis, ftr, it's now been rolled into Autism Spectrum Disorders and is the mild side of the disorder). David, otoh, hits massive red flags for ASD, including a lack of social awareness. Russell is highly socially aware, and thinks he is slick and can manipulate others opinions of him far better than he does. But I suspect he is far more charming in person than online.

I'm diagnosed with it and didn't know that, lol. Of course, my case doesn't require much treatment/assistance so I don't keep up with it. Thanks for the info. 

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Yeah, I have one diagnosed with it and another who just did his eval for public school this spring because I didn't need a label for what I knew I was looking at. Nothing like having to brace a teenager cause you know the school is using DSM V and there is no Asperger's diagnosis anymore so he'll get a "mild Autism Spectrum Disorders" diagnosis.

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I have six family members having ASD but some were mild to severe, introvert and extrovert personality, obsession, angry outbursts, imprulsive thinking, irrational thoughts, without any forethought of his actions, lack of logical thinking, blaming others for the problems, black and white thinking, verbally abusive and mind blindness, all fits in that category of autism in general, borderline narcissist. I've enjoyed the best ASD book by David Attwood and he did explain there were several levels of behavior and thinking going on and they CAN manipulate things (not on purpose but its just the way they function) people as normal or DX with something else when they are not really what they are, like PTSD which many times they were subjected to people's cruel feedback on them. I think all of us have experienced several types of autistic people and not yet seen or heard ALL of them.  I think Autism has a long ways to go when it comes to categorizing different levels of severity of the disorder. It also helps when you deal with an ASD specialist and they are aware of many more things they are finding out that was not mentioned in the textbooks. Over the years, ASD in adults were almost non existent and undx but more and more parents and relatives have come forward when their children have been DX with it. More studies are needed  but what scares me that ASD somewhat manifests into AD (Alzheimer's Disease). 

 I've met David in person in events, and yes, he has some of the traits of ASD that I have picked up on, so has several of reenacting friends that are familiar with ASD. From what SJ describes to me after she broke off with Russell, all the signs she shared with me, were the same as David, their actions, behaviors, thinking, etc. But as time went on, David showed improvement, practiced self restraint and his goal is to get his family back, with or without SJ in his goals or reestablishing the bond they once had She seems to be content and happy along with her kids where she is at now. David had to pay the price being under the probation of the court for his actions and rash and impulsive decisions during that time. Believe me, David showed improvement and a lot nicer and tries hard to be liked by others. He has a deep affection for his kids, including Rose, as he claim it is HIS daughter (kudos for him being a FATHER!), but with a deep sadness in his eyes. I can only assumed what he is thinking, as "I fucked this mess up and lost my wife and lost my kids because I let my anger control me!" kind of thing. At least he is trying.  As for Russ, he just keep getting into trouble, finding the wrong kind of people to share his life with, over and over. He better get his crap together and start improving himself like we all told him to do in the past year or two but he simply just skirt around it, ducking as he goes and dodging the bullet from time to time. Now the court is breathing down on him adn he is feeling the heat. All I can think of Russell, is to think of Yoda's vision "Stupidty runs deep, this one...."

 

Russ is a lot like Trump, we all know what Trump does.

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Just pointing out that people with what was formerly known as Asperger's and other mild autism spectrum disorders have sometimes been MISdiagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, especially because of others' difficulty "reading" them (this is well documented), but that they actually have no connection. Autistic people are not "borderline narcissists." I don't think it's even possible to be a borderline narcissist. 

Getting a little uncomfortable with the armchair medical professional-ness in this corner so I'm moving on. 

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I don't know much about diagnosing autism or NPD (I have a child who is diagnosed mildly autistic, but am not sure of the all the markers they look for when making a diagnosis) but I think it can be easy for someone very familIar with a particular diagnosis and all the characteristics of that diagnosis to see similar characteristics in others and make connections and speculate. Of course, as far as I know, neither David nor Russell have been professionally diagnosed with any sort of behavior or personality disorder. (I do believe Russells father, though, was professionally diagnosed with schizophrenia and bi polar disorder). 

I can look at my child and see a definite lack of social awareness, as @chaotic lifewas mentioning. My kid does not think about the way his words and actions can affect others. He knows what he wants and if he doesn't get what he wants he finds creative ways to achieve his goal -usually negative ways but we are working on it! He needs constant guidance and reminders to be kind, be gentle, to apologize and compromise. It's hard for him and doesn't come very naturally but he is working on it. He can not really start a conversation on his own or engage with others in a meaningful conversation. He can get into heated arguments, though. He will try to turn a logical argument against his point away by throwing out insults, changing the subject, accusing the person who is against him of bizarre and random things to throw them off guard and turn their attention from what he perceives as "attacking" him to defending themselves, instead (thus putting himself in the position of powder in a conversation/argument). 

Some of these traits are extremely similar to what Russell has displayed and continues to display. The difference is, I think, that my kid doesn't really understand at first why he is making others feel the way they feel. He knows how HE feels but not how others feel. When he is shown how he is making others feel bad, then he feels bad and is quick to apologize. Russell, I think, is EXTREMELY aware of not only his own feelings but also the feelings of others. He uses that to his advantage by creating feelings in others that will serve his purpose - if he likes someone, he knows how to make them feel respected, admired, liked, etc. If he doesn't like someone, he knows how to make them feel inferior, timid, scared, angry, hurt, confused. I think he does know exactly what he is doing when he interacts with other people and if they respond to him in a negative way, he is all ready with some reason why they are the bad guy and he is a victim yet again of another narcissistic, toxic person. Sometimes I think he does treat people in ways that he knows they will respond badly to, just because he wants to feel victimized and have people feel sorry for him. He's a user. People are only useful to him so far as they are able to make him feel good about himself in some way. And he has shown himself to be an abuser. Perhaps not physically (although I recall with horror the blog post about him dragging Laurens mom by her hair) but certainly verbally and emotionally. 

His ridiculous rants and hundreds-comments-long facebook arguments in the past months show a person who can not tolerate a viewpoint other than his own. He ridicules people, insults people, and is hurtful to others in so many gross ways - especially the inexcusable sick meme he posted to hurt and attack a "friend" who had recently lost her husband, but who had the audacity to disagree politely with something he had said. 

He is also a hypocrite, not tolerating in others traits he routinely displays himself. He calls himself a Christian but has no problem sleeping with married women, fathering children he does not take care of or financially or personally support and showing a ghastly amount of intolerance for people of other sexual preferences, culture, faith and skin color. Claims he values hard work, then quits his job and is now wandering the streets of a city with no apparent goal in view other than to take pictures he can post on the facebook page he claimed he was quitting just a few short weeks ago.  

He is ridiculous, really. 

 

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Beyond ridiculous.  And he just can't let the ex-cop comic thing go.  Friggin let it go, Russ.  Jesus.

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Any sensible "ex-cop" wouldn't stress the "I used to be a cop" thing when the reasons for being an "ex" aren't so wonderful.  (I really can't use the word "sensible" when describing Rusty, though.)

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