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41 minutes ago, felinefundie said:

Maybe if from NYC Jinger will act get her dream of living in a city. Wonder if JB would actually let that happen. 

Ibdo wonder what he would say if one of the girls had a husband from say NYC. Hed proba

bly not be too happy. I wish we could have 

Can someone please tell me how to delete my last post? I'm new so I tried editing and I'm just sorry that posted lol

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On 12/26/2015 at 1:14 PM, DuggarsTheEndIsNear said:

 

 

On 12/26/2015 at 8:42 AM, Bad Wolf said:

 

Ugh,  I don't know why it keeps trying to put a quote in here.  please just ignore that.

 

My comment was going to be to go to page three of that tumblr and look for the pic of JD.  He has lost a lot of weight.  Stress?  getting  in shape to go "a-courtin?",  already courting and the young woman is whipping him into shape?

 

I thought he delayed his answer during one of the extra interviews where he was asked if he was courting on the TCL website.  He didn't really deny courting but said he was still single. But being single doesn't mean he isn't courting.  Something about JD has changed.  He seems more comfortable on camera now, and less disconnected from the family that he was portrayed to be in the original series.   I think he might have been living in the shadow of the boy wonder (Josh) all these years, and of course in the shadow of princesses Jill and Jessa the last couple of seasons, and now he is coming into his own.  Perhaps as "the good son" he has been awarded more independence, and influence within the family structure.  Whatever it is, we are seeing something different in him. 

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50 minutes ago, Nashville92 said:

Ibdo wonder what he would say if one of the girls had a husband from say NYC. Hed proba

bly not be too happy. I wish we could have 

Can someone please tell me how to delete my last post? I'm new so I tried editing and I'm just sorry that posted lol

Jim bob would lose it! The big evil New York! ..... Btw love your pic Joey!!!

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Where I come from, it is very rude to talk on your phone, text, or Skype unless it's an emergency. You are disrespecting you host. Suck it up and play nice with the others. What thell else do they have to do?


ETA: If Jinger was Skyping Jill, then that's different. Perhaps Skyping is Jill's way of joining the party.
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1 hour ago, RosyDaisy said:

Where I come from, it is very rude to talk on your phone, text, or Skype unless it's an emergency. You are disrespecting you host. Suck it up and play nice with the others. What thell else do they have to do?


ETA: If Jinger was Skyping Jill, then that's different. Perhaps Skyping is Jill's way of joining the party.

Considering 19KAL said that all the girls were sitting by themselves in the corner, I'd say it's still rude to sit there on your phone. If you want to tote your phone around so Jill can say hi to people remotely, that's one thing. But it seems like Jinger was just sitting in the corner interacting with her phone rather than her hosts or other guests. Rude, rude, rude.

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What I meant was maybe Jinger was passing the phone around so that Jill could congratulate Carlin and Trace. But if Jinger was off by herself, that is rude.

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14 hours ago, Kira said:

If Jinger announces she is courting and will be moving to New York FJ will explode

:faint:

If only there were eligible bachelors in the Salyer family....

(I think the older Salyer kids are all girls but I could be wrong).  

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Yeah, I think it's pretty rude to be skyping when you're at a party. I get feeling awkward and using your phone as a crutch (I'm around Jinger's age and its pretty common for our demographic to do that) but that doesn't make it less disrespectful. I'm not really shocked the J'slaves are socially awkward. They have had strange people coming up to them since they were teens.  That has to get annoying but that's the downside of being a celebrity (even a Z list one). On the 19KL  page, the girl mentions how she went up to Jana and Jessa and said hi. They didn't even acknowledge her. It's weird to me that Jessa wants a reality show (maybe Jana too) but is standoffish towards the fans that actually like her family. I'm not saying to be overly friendly but the least they can do is acknowledge when a fan says hi. 

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If Jinger is still feeling unworthy, how does that fit in with a courtship and marriage? Would courting mean she's magically worthy, because Prince Charming is here? Shouldn't she work on her self esteem before she gets into a relationship? Oh, silly me, her self worth comes from her headship.

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2 minutes ago, Bad Wolf said:

If Jinger is still feeling unworthy, how does that fit in with a courtship and marriage? Would courting mean she's magically worthy, because Prince Charming is here? Shouldn't she work on her self esteem before she gets into a relationship? Oh, silly me, her self worth comes from her headship.

I think she's going to end up with someone with a strong dominating personality for precisely that reason. I would presume that she is wanting to marry someone like Jessa. Jinger is VERY reliant on Jessa and, especially from the speech she made at Jessa's rehearsal dinner, that relationship and following her makes her feel worthy. She's really seemed to close in on her self since Jessa got married and they haven't been hanging out as much - although that could also be very easily due to Josh.

As much as I want a Free Jinger, I think she is seeking the complete opposite as she's that brain washed that she thinks she needs somebody else to make her feel somewhat worthy.

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People want to "free" Jinger  a whole hell of a lot more than she wants to be freed. The Eye rolls by  that little girl from 10 years ago are long gone.   Perhaps Free Johanna would have more luck :) 

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Johanna is already having the individuality beaten out of her transforming into a godly young lady. I think we can still save Jennifer and help her achieve her dream of becoming a doctor.

Free Jenny!

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Again the difference between the Bates and the Duggars seems pretty obvious.  The Bates have been more successful and raising more socially adept kids, and the Duggar kids have been raised in a way that has hindered their social development. 

From the reports on that website, to other fan sightings over the years,  the Duggars are often not friendly or out going.  And I recall reading on here in the past, that Jana is quite standoffish, which I hope is from shyness and not rudeness. 

 

I just feel sad for these Duggar  kids.  Other than the tv show, they just don't have much going for them. None are educated nor do they seem to be trained much in any kind of skill, they are awkward as hell in most social situations, they seem to have had any spark of life drained from them, and they seem really unprepared for any kind of independent life. 

 

I think that because Gil and Kelly had less money,  they probably saw the value in letting their kids get some training and education or work experience, because I doubt that Gil wanted to be supporting 19 adults plus spouses and grandchildren some day.  Where as with JB, as soon as the money came rolling in,  JB just seems to have wanted to do nothing but grow his own little compound of kidults, kidspouses and grandkids and dole the money out to them if they smile nice for the cameras and don't molest minors or watch porn or have sex with porn stars. 

 

If Gil and Kelly had gotten rich when their kids were smaller, they may have managed things more like JB, but in a weird way the fact that they lived lean for a lot of  years, may have given those kids a bit more freedom. 

 

 

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1 hour ago, tabitha2 said:

People want to "free" Jinger  a whole hell of a lot more than she wants to be freed. The Eye rolls by  that little girl from 10 years ago are long gone.   Perhaps Free Johanna would have more luck :) 

We can't just give-up on her. Jinger has that eye-roll, thinker's brain that made her question things. As time has gone by those self-doubting teen years and the overbearing religious upbringing has weighted her down - BUT she's not dead. I still see a spark there. Yeah, Jinger may get married young and begin the cycle again OR she could take a different path. Even if Jinger starts courting/gets married she still has time to grow and change after that. (As long as her new husband isn't super fuddie and controlling.) Maybe when she gets some distance from the fuddie brainwashing she will wake-up! 

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You know  a Fundy can have have spark and even Charisma... That they use to further the ATI/VF cause by appealing to the Masses.   It is better to have A Sarah Maxwell droning on than a lively pretty appealing Young Girl like Jinger with her "spark" Spreading the ATI doctrines. 

 

 

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On 5/3/2016 at 10:49 AM, tabitha2 said:

You know  a Fundy can have have spark and even Charisma... That they use to further the ATI/VF cause by appealing to the Masses.   It is better to have A Sarah Maxwell droning on than a lively pretty appealing Young Girl like Jinger with her "spark" Spreading the ATI doctrines. 

 

 

I think this is exactly why @formergothardite has warned us so often about the Bates kids.  They have spark, they look like fun kids, they seem fairly normal and well adjusted.  This is what makes them dangerous.  Most people would look at the majority of the Duggars and see quickly how odd and awkward they were (as evidenced by the comments made on that girls tumblr who saw them at the party and noted they looked uncomfortable and not really part of the group), but you don't get that with the Bates Kids.  They look like a success story for ATI/IBLP.  The Bates family almost makes it seem like raising 19 kids is easy.  Especially if you don't look beyond the image they portray. 

 

 

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On 5/3/2016 at 11:10 PM, GreenTea said:

We can't just give-up on her. Jinger has that eye-roll, thinker's brain that made her question things. As time has gone by those self-doubting teen years and the overbearing religious upbringing has weighted her down - BUT she's not dead. I still see a spark there. Yeah, Jinger may get married young and begin the cycle again OR she could take a different path. Even if Jinger starts courting/gets married she still has time to grow and change after that. (As long as her new husband isn't super fuddie and controlling.) Maybe when she gets some distance from the fuddie brainwashing she will wake-up! 

I wish ALL of them could be free at some point in their lives. Still waiting for someone to be different and not follow what previous siblings have done. 

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4 hours ago, Tangy Bee said:

I wish ALL of them could be free at some point in their lives. Still waiting for someone to be different and not follow what previous siblings have done. 

Well, Josh is different but in the terrible kind of way. He's the oldest child so I guess him molesting his sisters and cheating on his wife scared the others into complying with Boob and MEchelle since they believe the evvvuulll big, bad wide world done did it.

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6 hours ago, Tangy Bee said:

I wish ALL of them could be free at some point in their lives. Still waiting for someone to be different and not follow what previous siblings have done. 

I really think that once one of the older kids does it, it'll be easier for the others to follow.  Although after seeing how Jill & Jessa have toed the line since being married, it does make me wonder whether any of them really want to be "free".

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2 hours ago, Apricot said:

I really think that once one of the older kids does it, it'll be easier for the others to follow.  Although after seeing how Jill & Jessa have toed the line since being married, it does make me wonder whether any of them really want to be "free".

The life that they have and know is comfortable. Why change that? 

Their parents have raised them to believe that the world is a big bad scary place. The only people they can trust are those approved of by their parents. Josh went out into the world and look what happened? Of course they are towing the line. 

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2 hours ago, Apricot said:

I really think that once one of the older kids does it, it'll be easier for the others to follow.  Although after seeing how Jill & Jessa have toed the line since being married, it does make me wonder whether any of them really want to be "free".

Jill and Jessa are the J-slaves that toed the line most vocally.  Remember Jill correcting Jinger when she said she wanted to live in a city.  As for Jessa-- well she's the one using social media to preach hate (I'll give Jill credit for not doing this) and will probably raise Spurgey pretty strictly.

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I'm almost afraid for Jinger to have her own social media at some point after I heard them say she likes handing out tracts to people.

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2 hours ago, HarleyQuinn said:

I'm almost afraid for Jinger to have her own social media at some point after I heard them say she likes handing out tracts to people.

Remember when she proudly talked about the time she proselytized to the unfortunate stranger sitting next to her on a plane? Jinger will be nightmare on social media.

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Remember when she proudly talked about the time she proselytized to the unfortunate stranger sitting next to her on a plane? Jinger will be nightmare on social media.

I can see Jinger going one of two ways on social media.

1) posting quotes or pictures of quotes with 'inspirational' comments to go with them.

Or

2) posting photography with various religious verses to go with them.

I feel (well I hope) that Jinger will not be as outspoken as the likes of Ben, she seems a little more timid to just offend people with beliefs outright, she'll at least try to do it a little more subtly.

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