some positive things
my boyfriend and I had a really long talk about what we need to change in our relationship, and I feel really good now. it was mainly about how we needed to adjust ourselves around my bpd. i'm so excited to actually like, implement some coping skills and learn how to function in a world that was not made for me. to me, i visualize it like code-switching almost, except instead of simply flipping between one language and another, i'm flipping between behaviours and un-learning the ones that are harmful to myself and others.
since we've had that talk, i've been feeling very stable! occasionally numb and lonely, but i've dealt with it in a positive way. thanksgiving was lovely; i spent it with my grandparents, cousin and her significant other, and my parents and brother. the food was very yummy! my cousin's SO doesn't like turkey, so my babcia also cooked a ham, which meant delicious ham sandwiches for a few days. we went black friday shopping too! it was my first time doing so, and it wasn't terribly busy. i picked up a gel moisturizer from ulta and i'm loving it so far. very light and refreshing
i feel like good things are going to happen! or at least i hope they are.
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